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TsGoddess_Sheri 42 T
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TS/Cd's Girl's Hair and Make up   7/15/2006

Hello, Alot of gurls like me have emailed and wanted me to answer some general stuff. Like make up and hair questions. I will answer them here and some other stuff I have been wanting to say. Make Up- First off a clean face is a better "slate" to work with. Use what colors you like! My color's may not work for everyone. Don't create what you don't have work with what you have. ...


1 Comments, 193 Views, 13 Votes ,4.65 Score
TsGoddess_Sheri 42 T
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More Tgurl Stuff!   7/15/2006

It's been a while sence I actualy posted something help full so here it go's. I work at a Drag Club and I see alot of different girls come and go. And see alot of them trying to be someone else. Which is why I am writing this, It is fine to want to model your look from someone, But NEVER try to be them! I am SO tired of seeing girls go under the knife SO much to look like a famous woman ...


0 Comments, 523 Views, 13 Votes ,4.49 Score
trucker142 71 M
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cross dressing   7/12/2006

I"am A strict sraight man but love to wear womans clothes nylons, heals.short skirts etc.Is that normal or am seeking something else.


6 Comments, 416 Views, 12 Votes ,2.27 Score
pulltoyforgirls 60 M
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how to capture webcam images if you have windows or windows xp   7/6/2006

hi all thought this might be of some use to anyone who wants to to take pics of people on web cams. Asking their permission first of course to take a web cam image in windows xp first press the print screen key then open up paint then press the control key plus v then save the image with the line gif you now have that image. in your pictures file hope this helps....


0 Comments, 64 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
StuddedSonu 52 M
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Signs Of Infidelity   7/6/2006

If you have suspicious, consider some of the following and be as impartial as possible. Have you noticed a:
Sudden increase in time away from home.

Decreased sexual interest with you.

Cheating spouse is often distracted and day dreaming.

Cheating husband or wife is often “unavailable” while at work.

Cheating spouse attends ...


3 Comments, 404 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
rata7641 44 T
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Hairy or not?   7/4/2006

Do women want men with hairy bodies or do they prefer them waxed or shaved including the genitals.


0 Comments, 242 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
StuddedSonu 52 M
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Marital Infidelity Facts   7/2/2006

A 1983 study found that 29 percent of married people under 25 had had an affair with no statistical difference between the number of men and women who chose to be unfaithful to their spouses.

By comparison, only 9 percent of spouses in the 1950s under the age of 25 had been involved in extramarital sex.

Another study concluded that by age 40 about 50 to 65 ...


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06_handsome_06 42 M
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Easy to get a dom?   7/2/2006

How many have managed to find a dom.? Ive been here for some time and although i did chat to few, doesn't seem to be someone genuine out there, that would like to talk or meet. Or is it smth on my pro.? Let me know please and in case you like it, message me. Thanks


1 Comments, 119 Views, 0 Votes
petercockright 78 M
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SOUL MATE SILLYNESS   6/24/2006

SOULMATE SILLINESS
Another butt bubble from the “What the Fuck Files”
What is it about some women who have this notion they can advertise for their soul mate? Hand over that menu of men. I want to order my Soul Mate. Surrender to me, I want you. It essentially reads like this.
“No one night stands. I’m looking for a LTR, my soul mate, my best friend, a good ...


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bindswat5 77 M
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Pondering   6/23/2006

I would like to get the other members’ opinion on this one. I’ve been into this lifestyle for some time now, but out of necessity I have kept it to myself. In fact if any of my relatives, friends or associates knew about it they’d be shocked. However I do have a female friend who does know about it. How she came to know doesn’t matter. Although she isn’t into the lifestyle ...


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NibblesNLix 47 M
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Testicles are our friends.   6/22/2006

While giving BJs and HJs, please observe the following: The balls. Here's a nice little trick that some of you don't know. Heaps of you do know, the rest of you can simply nod your heads and revel in past experience. Using you index finger and thumb hold the top of the scrotum where it meets the base of the penis. Now wrap your two digits around the scrotum so the tips touch each other ...


2 Comments, 284 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
dcsandrea 42 F
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My .02 advice to Dom's profiles and messages   6/18/2006

I am sure there are one million articles for both men wondering why they do not get replies and from woman who are tired of the lame messages. As a woman who has been on for a short time, here is my impression and advice for the men and couples out there looking for a woman. <br> 1) Don't be negative! - Yes, there are a lot of fakers out there both men and woman. Ranting about ...


11 Comments, 1105 Views, 80 Votes ,8.33 Score
Meanness 66 F
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Truth in age   6/16/2006

Greetings, Recently I was contacted through alt by another dom. The age on his profile was 60. When we met I thought he was older and asked him how old he was an he said 62 and then while telling a story he refered to himself as 65. We had met for a drink and seemed to click as two tops. I am 48 years old. My birthday is not April Fools Day as it says on my ...


1 Comments, 170 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
MatchedSet 50 C
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What Would Be Your BEST Suggestions???   6/16/2006

I Was Wondering What Some Of You Would Suggest For A Couple Where The Female Partner Has Had More Experience In The Lifstyle...And The Male Is Still A Beginner???
I'd Love To Dominate Him...He's Pretty Passive...So Would It Be Wise For Me To Simply Just Begin Placing Damands And Such Upon Him???
He's Said I Can Do Whatever I Like...He Wants Me To Lead And He ...



1 Comments, 65 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
aquike4me 52 M
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can anyone out there help me?   6/14/2006

I am happily married but my sex life is suffering. My wife is great but there just doesn't seem to be enough time for sex. Have any of you got into this kind of situation? Is there anything i can do to help my sex life pick up? Anything at all let me know. Is there a video or toys that worked i'm willing to try just about anything.


2 Comments, 151 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
voyagar69 51 M
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New to the BDSM   6/10/2006

I live in colorado Spring adn I am new to the BDSM life style and would love to learn more. I have been wanting to do this for a long time not sure were I would need to start at. I hope someone from from the springs reads this and can let me know more about places to go and things like that. Thanks for any help at all.


0 Comments, 111 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Voyager111 67 M
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Guide To Watersports   6/8/2006

The Complete Guide on Watersports What are we talking about? "Watersports" is a euphemism for the use of urine in an erotic setting. In more medical terms, the phenomena is known as urolagnia (lust for urine) or urophilia. Pornography - in its constant urge to oversimplify eroticism and sexual behavior with simple but generally useless one-liners - usually describes it as "pissex". There are ...


2 Comments, 1606 Views, 74 Votes ,6.11 Score
ClickHereHaveFun 58 F
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Combining TENS units with other "toys"   5/23/2006

TENS units really turn me on. I am considering purchasing one, and using a bi polar vaginal insert attachment. However, I really like my Eroscillator, a vibrator that I use for clitoral stimulation and that plugs into the electrical outlet. Can I use this with my TENS unit, or will it be dangerous to use an electrical device with an electrical device? Also, is it safe to use the TENS unit ...


5 Comments, 423 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
amilitaryman200 62 M
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Forms of Punishment   5/20/2006

I've been a practicing DOM for many years and now I find myself in a unique situation. My slut is very eagar to please, submits to my desires and generally behave very well. Sometimes I think she either because of a lack of experience or because she wants to be bad she goes a bit out of her way to earn punishment. Punishment has for me ranged from administering several quick and heavy ...


4 Comments, 780 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
Herkermer2 47 M
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Why   5/17/2006

This is the 3rd time that I'm trying to post this question. Thus far alt has denied it twice. Ok I have been a paying customer on this site for a long time and it's time something is done about it. At least half(probably more like 80 of the responses I get back from women are fake, and I know other guys are experiencing this same thing. Before long it's going to be as bad as Adult ...


2 Comments, 287 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
MatchedSet 50 C
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Why Do You Suppose ???   5/12/2006

Why Do You Suppose We Do Some Of The Things That We Do??? You Can State What Would Be Considered To Be The Obvious...But I Take Pleasure From Hearing Your Most Thought Of And Deepest Feelings.
Enlighten Me!!!
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2 Comments, 93 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
clitlicker5013 69 M
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Don't always rely on looks   5/11/2006

I have been with several women from this site. I have found that you should never rely on looks alone. Most of the women I have been with that are the "barbie" type are shallow. I think that the best women I have been with are not the barbie type. They are more down to earth and much more appealing. They make much better companions.


4 Comments, 186 Views, 12 Votes ,4.74 Score
xxxplorers2 73 C
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Idenitfying , email grabbers and such on alt   5/8/2006

As of late, alt seems to be inundated with , prostitutes and people grabbing personal email info for spamming.
A few tips we've found to be helpful and all based on the id. Don't bother with these. They are a waste of time.
- All are standard members. If you see someone with a paid membership, none of the following apply. -------------------------------------- - Seem ...


0 Comments, 232 Views, 15 Votes ,5.43 Score
25cm25cm 57 M
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How to prevent damage ??   4/24/2006

Hi all. <br> Does anyone know anything about how long time ones balls can sustain limited or none bloodflow without doing (permanent) or any damage to them. <br> My partner and I enjoys very much her trampling my balls/ballsack, but obviously we don't want any damage to occur. <br> Please give your advice.


3 Comments, 474 Views, 11 Votes ,2.05 Score
Ashley94 63 F
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How to teach someone about anal sex.   4/1/2006

I have engaged in anal sex only twice in my life and had a good partner to do it properly without great pain and with patience he made it pleasureable. My current husband has never had the opportunity to give anal sex, and I know he wants to. I am at a loss as to how to teach him, and to teach him the patience required to accomplish our goal. I don't want this to be painful for me, ...


2 Comments, 192 Views, 32 Votes ,5.02 Score
odgemann 63 M
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Shopping for Crossdressers   4/1/2006

Shopping Tips for Crossdressers The key to a successful shopping experience is confidence. Whether you go into a department store lingerie section or Victoria's Secret if you are prepared you will have the confidence to pick out the items that you desire and pay for them without any problems, hassles or embarrassing situations. (1) It is not against the law for a man to purchase items of ...


0 Comments, 284 Views, 13 Votes ,4.15 Score
dcsandrea 42 F
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What I looked for   3/30/2006

Since I wrote something about what I do not want to see in messages and profiles and since I have gone forward and I am in the process of actually becoming owned, I thought I would write about what I looked for. I will put a strong disclaimer that this is purely one girl’s opinion and thought process and that is all. I would expect we all have different ways when it comes to this subject. ...


2 Comments, 283 Views, 14 Votes ,5.22 Score
emilybee 51 T
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Coffee and sex.   3/19/2006

Hi everyone. I smoke cigarettes and drink coffee like crazy. Pretty gross I know. Here is my question. I know that cigarettes are not the best for ones sexual performance (please don't imagine me smelling like an old ashtray and having the face of an old baseball mit, its not true ok?) but what about coffee? Has anyone heard if it can have negative effects? I mean, I am doing ok, but there ...


4 Comments, 296 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
YimYim123 43 M
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Whats the catch with Dommes?   3/12/2006

OK whats the catch? Your profile isnt advertizing for money or anything so whats the catch? Dont tell me, your looking for free labour or something? I mean you cant actually be looking for a male sub for a real relationship can you surely?


1 Comments, 153 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
misterobvious 39 M
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Chastity belts?   3/7/2006

I find them completely erotic and beautiful. I'm interested in wearing one for my eventual mistress but I was wondering if anyone out there could share advice and any experiences for me? Thanks for your time.


1 Comments, 145 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score