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Pondering 5/18/2006
I would like to get the other members’ opinion on this one.
I’ve been into this lifestyle for some time now, but out
of necessity I have kept it to myself. In fact if any of my
relatives, friends or associates knew about it they’d
be shocked.
However I do have a female friend who does know about it.
How she came to know doesn’t matter. Although she isn’t
into the lifestyle ...
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Hairy or not? 5/12/2006
Do women want men with hairy bodies or do they prefer them
waxed or shaved including the genitals.
0 Comments,
242 Views,
4 Votes
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Testicles are our friends. 5/11/2006
While giving BJs and HJs, please observe the following:
The balls.
Here's a nice little trick that some of you don't
know. Heaps of you do know, the rest of you can simply nod
your heads and revel in past experience.
Using you index finger and thumb hold the top of the scrotum
where it meets the base of the penis. Now wrap your two digits
around the scrotum so the tips touch each other ...
2 Comments,
284 Views,
7 Votes
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Angry PAYING Member a Word to the wise 5/9/2006
*** I KNOW I AM NOT ALONE ADD YOUR COMMENTS
***
A vent from an angry member.
To the Executive Staff of Various, Inc,
I do not know why you are trashing your own website.. Many
people I know are leaving because the site is becoming like
Adult FriendFinder, your OTHER site.. BDSM is not about
SEX, it never will be the MAIN focal point. ...
0 Comments,
239 Views,
7 Votes
,6.10 Score
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So you think you have what it takes to be a Dom huh? 5/9/2006
You've thought about it, you've fantasized
about it, and you've decided that it's for you.
All well and good. Now to take the theory into practice.
There's a distance between wanting to be a dom and being
a dom, though, and it pays to be aware that there's more
involved than you might think.
How hard can it be?
Trickier than it sounds. There's ...
6 Comments,
410 Views,
24 Votes
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how to capture webcam images if you have windows or windows xp 5/6/2006
hi all thought this might be of some use to anyone who wants
to to take pics of people on web cams. Asking their permission
first of course to take a web cam image in windows xp first
press the print screen key then open up paint then press
the control key plus v then save the image with the line gif
you now have that image. in your pictures file hope this
helps....
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64 Views,
1 Votes
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Offers? 5/4/2006
Question..?
I am willing to pay for someone in the United States to relocate
at my cost.
Is this a offering to buy the person
such as the like buying a date? (yea ALT thinks this)
or
Is this a reasonable offer should she be the right slave
I seek?...
2 Comments,
207 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Need Help 4/30/2006
I am new to this and I am wondering if there are any attractive
females who might help me in my new experimentation. Are
there any of you that can help. Females only please.
0 Comments,
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Why 4/24/2006
This is the 3rd time that I'm trying to post this question.
Thus far alt has denied it twice.
Ok I have been a paying customer on this site for a long time
and it's time something is done about it. At least half(probably
more like 80 of the responses I get back from women are
fake, and I know other guys are experiencing this same thing.
Before long it's going to be as bad as Adult ...
2 Comments,
287 Views,
7 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Is it wrong? 4/22/2006
Is it wrong sometimes I like to be filled up to the extrem?
Could this hurt me in any way? I'm afraid that this might
stretch things out to the point of no repair. Thanx, angel
4 Comments,
371 Views,
6 Votes
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Idenitfying , email grabbers and such on alt 4/18/2006
As of late, alt seems to be inundated with , prostitutes
and people grabbing personal email info for spamming.
A few tips we've found to be helpful and all based on
the id. Don't bother with these. They are a waste of
time.
- All are standard members. If you see someone with a paid
membership, none of the following apply.
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- Seem ...
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15 Votes
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expectations 4/13/2006
As a reminder for those like myself;
Don't get ahead of yourself with a new relationship,
and don't have high expectations for at least a month,
until everything eases down.
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Why Do You Suppose ??? 4/7/2006
Why Do You Suppose We Do Some Of The Things
That We Do??? You Can State What Would Be Considered To Be
The Obvious...But I Take Pleasure From Hearing Your Most
Thought Of And Deepest Feelings.
Enlighten Me!!!
...
2 Comments,
93 Views,
2 Votes
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Am I A SWITCH Or A DOM ??? 4/6/2006
Based Off Of What You May Have Read About/From
Me...Ms.Kitty...How Do You Really Perceive Me??? As A
Dom Or A Sub??? I Profess To Being A Switch, With A Submissive
Side Of Course But What Do YOU Think Would Fit Me Best...Hence,
The Reason I'm A Switch...I Enjoy It All From Both Sides...Though,
Whatever Responses I Receive Will Not Change This...Simply
Want To Know How I May ...
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Simply A Little Insight... 4/6/2006
I'm Looking For A MASTER To Give Me
A Few Tips On Being A MASTER...I'm Quite Dominant And
My Partner Is Passive...I Want To Use This To Both Of Our
Advantages...LOL ...
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0 Votes
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Is There Something Wrong With A Sexually Free Spirited Woman??? 4/6/2006
In the past, I've been faced with
a dilemma...and am now reaching out to my fellow ALTS for
a little input. Two part question...the other is below.
Question: How many men are intimidated by a sexually free-spirited
and uninhibited woman???
What I've discovered personally, firsthand is that
most are...maybe some won't admit it...but I truly
believe a few of ...
2 Comments,
251 Views,
3 Votes
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What Would Be Your BEST Suggestions??? 4/5/2006
I Was Wondering What Some Of You Would
Suggest For A Couple Where The Female Partner Has Had More
Experience In The Lifstyle...And The Male Is Still A Beginner???
I'd Love To Dominate Him...He's Pretty Passive...So
Would It Be Wise For Me To Simply Just Begin Placing Damands
And Such Upon Him???
He's Said I Can Do Whatever I Like...He Wants Me To Lead
And He ...
1 Comments,
65 Views,
2 Votes
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Cum Swallowing Tips 4/3/2006
Cum Swallowing Tips
Suck on an Altoid, Tic Tac, or mentholated cough drop immediately
before giving head. Many guys enjoy getting a tingle from
mint or menthol products on their willies. The mint will
add a little zing to the blow job, and kill the taste of the
semen when he cums. You can also use a dab of toothpaste in
a pinch. We don't recommend mouthwash or breath sprays; ...
2 Comments,
492 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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Truth in age 4/2/2006
Greetings,
Recently I was contacted through alt by another dom. The
age on his profile was 60. When we met I thought he was older
and asked him how old he was an he said 62 and then while telling
a story he refered to himself as 65. We had met for a drink
and seemed to click as two tops.
I am 48 years old. My birthday is not April Fools Day as it
says on my ...
1 Comments,
170 Views,
3 Votes
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can anyone out there help me? 4/1/2006
I am happily married but my sex life is suffering. My wife
is great but there just doesn't seem to be enough time
for sex. Have any of you got into this kind of situation?
Is there anything i can do to help my sex life pick up? Anything
at all let me know. Is there a video or toys that worked i'm
willing to try just about anything.
2 Comments,
151 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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Is this dom safe or dangerous... 3/30/2006
Hi everyone, I'm a newbie sub who is trying to set out
on the BDSM journey. So far its going ok, but I now think I've
meet that 'dom guy' the one your warned about.
So I'm looking for some advice and any suggestions
from both subs and dom's.
Firstly we had chatted briefly, he knew I was a newbie and
looking for a dom guy to train me, it was one conversation
and with that came the ...
12 Comments,
933 Views,
12 Votes
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Im new 3/27/2006
Im new to this sight and like to be the dom partner. Is there
anyway i can find female partners who would be willing to
be sub?
0 Comments,
82 Views,
1 Votes
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Learning From my Own Mistakes 3/27/2006
I recently had written an article because I was very upset
when My Sir had emailed me releasing me and getting off Alt, ,
Moving out of the state and stuff , ., .I Was wrong, He is
not a Fake I wrote an article out of hurt and anger..I have
since tried to connect to several different Dom's
, ,I have had one disaster after another, , , Ladies and
gentleman that also might be Sub's.This is a ...
0 Comments,
65 Views,
5 Votes
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Don't always rely on looks 3/25/2006
I have been with several women from this site. I have found
that you should never rely on looks alone. Most of the women
I have been with that are the "barbie" type are
shallow. I think that the best women I have been with are
not the barbie type. They are more down to earth and much
more appealing. They make much better companions.
4 Comments,
186 Views,
12 Votes
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The Difference between S/M and Abuse 3/12/2006
A group of leaders and activists who attended the Leather
Leadership Conference II in NYC on April 17-19, 1998, compiled
the following set of ideals based on established community
principles that SM is fundamentally different from abuse.
We hope the community agrees to the following Standards
& Guidelines that are intended to help the law enforcement
and social services communities ...
1 Comments,
220 Views,
12 Votes
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Advice for new male submissives 3/9/2006
This article is being written by Mistress Lila's male
submissive. my name is pleasure.
Hello. Let me tell you a little bit about me and why i have
the right to address this topic.
i have been a submissive since i was 23. i am 50 now. My first
wife was a Dominant. She trained me as a service sub to Her
and Her friends. (ok guys, get your heads out of your crotches.
Not ...
3 Comments,
264 Views,
3 Votes
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What I looked for 3/6/2006
Since I wrote something about what I do not want to see in
messages and profiles and since I have gone forward and
I am in the process of actually becoming owned, I thought
I would write about what I looked for. I will put a strong
disclaimer that this is purely one girl’s opinion and thought
process and that is all. I would expect we all have different
ways when it comes to this subject. ...
2 Comments,
283 Views,
14 Votes
,5.22 Score
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Whats the catch with Dommes? 3/5/2006
OK whats the catch? Your profile isnt advertizing for money
or anything so whats the catch? Dont tell me, your looking
for free labour or something? I mean you cant actually be
looking for a male sub for a real relationship can you surely?
1 Comments,
153 Views,
2 Votes
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at Boston's Logan Airport 3/1/2006
The airport limo brought her up to the main door,
When she stepped out I nearly fell to the floor
She was a wearing a Black Vinyl raincoat, and matching
boots
Her porter accidentally dropped her bag, he wasn't
very astute
When he bent over, her stiletto heel found...leaving its
mark
It sounded like a whoof, he keeled over_N_he didn't
dare bark
Picked up her bags, and he lap dogged ...
0 Comments,
244 Views,
3 Votes
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Oral Sex, Who's really in charge? 3/1/2006
Have you ever wondered about that question? It seems to
be that if you ask a woman, it's them on both ways. If
you ask a man you get the same answer that they are. So which
is true? That depends on the situation. Of course if the
giver is tied up the reciever is in control. If reciever
is tied up then the giver is in control. If no restrants are
involved thats the shady grey area.
...
1 Comments,
305 Views,
7 Votes
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