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Fighting Fire With Fire; why pain works 3/4/2006
It's important for every Dom/me to understand the
underlying reasons for the infliction of pain. I am familiar
with all the varied thoughts and motivations that subs
will give for wanting to receive pain. When you seek to question
and understand the underlying reasons you will realize
they almost always arise from some unresolved issue in
the past that was too difficult to deal with at ...
2 Comments,
853 Views,
31 Votes
,6.50 Score
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advice 2/27/2006
what is spooning i am new at this and i have not heard this
saying before
1 Comments,
305 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Past swings... Want to do it again 2/27/2006
I was swinging with a bi-couple a few years back and want
to do it again. This went fine the first time and eventually
we grew apart after about 2 years. I would like to swing with
them again. i am still friends with them and we talk every
so often. How can I approach the subject again without being
so straight forward.
1 Comments,
168 Views,
0 Votes
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Heads uo for CT Dommes!! 2/24/2006
Just figured I'd alert you all to a real sneaky player,
lol. Watch out for "blueboy1717" on Alt.com.
A real nasty piece of work. This could also be easily addressed
to any Dommes in the NYC, PA, NJ, NH, MA, RI areas as well,
because this sleaze likes to travel. His name & address
are available from me for verification if you have concerns.
Stay safe & be well friends.
0 Comments,
103 Views,
12 Votes
,6.33 Score
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GRRRRRRRRRR 2/10/2006
hi how do people go from being Master to submissive then
a transvestite all in a matter of three days, and expect
the submissive to become Mistress when she is a sub through
and through.It is all so confusing for me
2 Comments,
251 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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Pee and scat play 1/29/2006
I enjoy pee play and have been subjected to scat.
Pee is filted by the kidneys before being realeased.
But with shit its body waste.
I beleive pee is safe but not sure of shit.
What are your comments if you have any.
tammy
6 Comments,
812 Views,
13 Votes
,3.81 Score
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The Cornerstone of Loyalty is Trust. 1/28/2006
The cornerstone of loyalty is trust. I recently had an opportunity
to speak to a sister who came to me regarding a man she has
been being used by. She feels abandoned and mislead and
lied to by him due to his actions and the words of another
Free Man (a supposed friend to her Owner) who has spoken
to her regarding him. Yes, this lady has been serving him
real time but not in a 24/7 ...
0 Comments,
428 Views,
16 Votes
,4.45 Score
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Finding the right one is really tough 1/23/2006
I’ve had conversations with some wonderful people and
still do. They’re erotic, funny, sinful (wink) and overall
great. Maybe it’s my lack of understanding of the lifestyle,
after all I’m totally new to this and who would be so brass
as to assume they knew everything about the lifestyle just
by reading what’s on this site. So what’s up?
<br>
Well, I think I write well, ...
3 Comments,
328 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score
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The making of a Domme, if possible. 1/21/2006
My spouse and i have started to play (mildly, to be sure!)
a bit of D/s. She has shown tendencies to be Domme, and none
to be sub, which is fine with me, as i prefer subbing. She
is a bit on the prude side, and i would like her to be more open
to exploring and discovering what is involved in this world
of BDSM. We have been approached by a few people, from this
site as well as others, ...
1 Comments,
213 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Nothin' worth havin' is easy 1/21/2006
Hey Bob...
<br>
(B.O.B.) is a dildo
<br>
my philosophy on the subject:
vibrators
<br>
<br>
I have worked hard all my life for everything I have, well,
anything worthwhile that is. So, Why should an Orgasm be
any different!? See..vibrators do all the work for you,
and therefore the orgasm is taken for granted and not ...
2 Comments,
275 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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Does she really want a daddy? need advice! 1/18/2006
First a bit of history, My wife hasnt had the best life. she
refuses to seek councling so now i must play that role, sometimes
it works out, sometimes it doesnt. about 2 years ago she
lashed out, fealing the way she did when she was a
and had an affair instead of talking out her problems with
me. that is something we are still working on today. anyway
i guess this is how it kinda all ...
3 Comments,
311 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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A thrid member 1/17/2006
Me any my girlfriend have for a while been toying with the
idea of a threesum, or maybe even particapating in an orgie.
However of course there is the issue of the small doubts
and trust issuses that i suppose are bound to exist. Such
as the thought of will this destroy what we have together?
<br>
I guess there are a fair few couples in this place who have
added a 3rd member to ...
3 Comments,
235 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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mistriss 1/17/2006
i like to be a sub for a mistriss, can any body tell me how
1 Comments,
51 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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rules 1/17/2006
what are the rules in being a mistriss sub ?
1 Comments,
79 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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sub 1/17/2006
i worship pussy i like having my lips on it , how can i let my
dom know this?
1 Comments,
50 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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water 1/17/2006
i like placing my lips on the side of a pussy when a dom is peeing
, my lips like feeling the vibes, the pee dont enter me, i
think it safe. am i right?
1 Comments,
72 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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face 1/17/2006
i love having my lips as a seat for a dom ,
1 Comments,
108 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Sniffing Panties 1/15/2006
I too have been a panty sniffer since I was 13. I used to babysit
for a neighbor and I would go into her hamper, take out her
used panties, put them over my head and sniff. I would start
at the pussy stains and slide them down to her ass scent.
Sometimes I would gewt lucky and she had just taken them
off. they were still moist and gooey. I would lick them while
jerking off. One time i knew ...
1 Comments,
134 Views,
29 Votes
,7.45 Score
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How hard is it to understand "I'm not a domme" ? 1/5/2006
At the very top of my profile I very clearly point out that
I'm an SM switch, and I'm not at all into dominance
and submission. I also clearly state that if you're
looking for a mistress, I'm not right for you.
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Is that so terribly hard to understand?
<br>
Why do men (and it's always men, never women) insist
on sending me responses that start off by addressing me ...
0 Comments,
176 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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How does ALT compare? 1/2/2006
Hopefully they won't censor this...but, in general,
how would you rate ALT compared to their competition? As
with most things, there are things they do well and things
they could improve upon. But, based upon your experiences,
how do they rate? Who are some of the other notables that
you've used before and what did you like or dislike
about them compared with ALT?
2 Comments,
201 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Love got in the way 12/27/2005
I met my current master here.
I expected someone unexperienced, I figure hey Ill tell
him what iI want in due time getting more and more hardcore.
But then he had feelings for me.
Tells me he loves me and i said "as do I "
Not thinking it through fully.
Now I think hes too "in love" to punish me the
way I want him to."He seems to not be sadistic enough
for me , he hesitent"
Plus I ...
1 Comments,
206 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Domestic Violence or Play 12/24/2005
A woman decided the relationship isn't working and
is leaving and the male beats this woman up. Blackens both
eyes, nose bleeding bruises around the face and arms and
she is kicked twice in the side.
<br>
The courts aren't sure if this is acceptable behavior
in this lifestyle.
What would your argument be to the court
13 Comments,
446 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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To freaky to keep as a friend? HELP! 12/23/2005
I met a very interesting woman that I found that I had a great
time hanging out with. We were out a couple of weeks ago and
got into a lot of tequila. Anyway...she decided to tell
me a few secrets about herself:
She was molested as a . She is bi sexual. She has had
more lovers than I have. She had a freaky session with a girlfriend
and a dog.
I now have a really hard time saying hi as ...
0 Comments,
98 Views,
13 Votes
,5.32 Score
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Warning for female subs 12/20/2005
For those who care if their man is married or who value honesty
in a relationship. Beware the dominant married man who
claims to be a busy professional who is also a single parent.
Using that status to gain sympathy and explain limited
availability.
It can be hard for the sub, who has formed a relationship
with him, when the man trots out his marriage as an easy excuse
for ending, ...
1 Comments,
353 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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The Bra Experience--For all Well-Endowed Women 12/14/2005
The Bra Experience
<br>
Having been “well-endowed” pretty much since the moment
I hit puberty, I know full well the discomfort of this contraption
called the brassiere. (Who invented this thing and can
we go back in time and kill him before he invents it???) Add
the under wire and an improperly fit bra becomes a torture
worse than any dominant can think up. ...
0 Comments,
628 Views,
147 Votes
,9.31 Score
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Be Honest with others 12/12/2005
Be Honest: Too many slaves/sub I have met on-line who find
they do not get the number of Masters/Mistresses they are
looking for who are willing to give errotic stories and/or
cyber play. So they say they are looking for full 24/7 and
use excuses to get what they want. example saying tell me
what would happen during a typical day and describe a evening
of use so can see what I should expect ...
0 Comments,
241 Views,
78 Votes
,7.70 Score
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guys after lesbians 12/9/2005
why cant men understand the difference between a lesbian
and a bi -woman a bi woman will play with a guys cock and a lesbian
will not so for a guy to get all excited about a lesbian couple
is stupid
0 Comments,
46 Views,
15 Votes
,4.82 Score
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Read the Profile Guys! 12/5/2005
I dont know what it is with the men on this site but out of the
15 or 20 e-mails I get not one of the guys has followed the
instructions in my e-mail. I took plenty of time making
this profile just right and I get everything from topping
on the bottom to guys that still think I want a pic of their
dick. I am not talking to your dick so that does not turn me
on. What turns me on is ...
4 Comments,
416 Views,
22 Votes
,5.05 Score
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Scroto Infusion 12/5/2005
The following is just for information only, please do not
attempt this unless you have had training in this technique.
<br>
First of all as with all Medical Play, before you start you
need to make sure you have all the right sterile equipment
and fluid and that you know how to use it safely. The best
thing to use to inflate the scrotum is a venflon - pink venflon ...
4 Comments,
3669 Views,
90 Votes
,5.88 Score
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TS fascination 11/27/2005
I am a straight male that has of late, had an extreme fascination/desire
to "be" with a transexual. I am wanting to pursue
this. But am having no luck where I live (central CA coast).
My question is, does this mean I have BI tendancies. For
men are not appealing to me, but a TS that is quite passable
is. The whole package.
4 Comments,
344 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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