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Bella2004 57 F
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lies, trust and so forth   3/4/2005

i would like to ask everyone, Dom/me and sub alike for their advice/opinion on a very serious problem. Please, be as honest and hard as each of Y/you think is needed...or not as the case may be, i am in desperate need of help. How do Y/you deal with someone who out and out lies to Y/you and knows they have been caught yet they try to lay blame eslewhere?? Point of fact, i caught a Dom/Master ...


2 Comments, 141 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Bound2Be2 52 F
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Is it normal or am I too selfish ?   2/26/2005

Just want objective third party opinions on this. I have a relationship. He is dominant in a very sexual way, but he won't dominate me mentally. He sais he COULD do that, but he won't because he has seen it with other couples. It gets too intensive, they can't talk with each other as equals anymore, etc etc.. Besides, he thinks it is not normal anymore to get into 24/7. <br> ...


1 Comments, 125 Views, 11 Votes ,4.85 Score
cumgiver3 53 M
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This is my first   2/17/2005

I'm new at this sort of thing, so bear with me. My fantasy is to be dominated by a woman or a couple. My question is this, is it better to start with a couple (man and woman) or just a woman?


2 Comments, 151 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
somerset1386 61 M
26 Articles
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Getting used to chat rooms   2/14/2005

There seems to be chat room rule book I don't know. Certainly I get the feeling there are groups of frineds who dominate some of them especially, funnily enough, the cybersex room. Here it appears that some people hang around chatting without nay intention of having cybersex. In fact one or two women seem to be intent on getting their kicks by fighting off all-comers - and I don't mean me ...


7 Comments, 316 Views, 14 Votes ,4.42 Score
patch91 51 M
4 Articles
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how can i find what im looking for?   2/10/2005

I live up in Wa. and am really turned on by encasement and mummification. The question tht i have is this: where are all the people who are into the same things? Ive visited some of the sited under the heading of but not wear i can find the same minded people. If anyone can help me out i sure would appriciate it. Thats all for now folks. thanks.


0 Comments, 66 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
tufter 48 C
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RE: Neck Cramps   1/26/2005

My mistress will put a pillow under her so that her pussy is elevated. It makes for a lot more comfort and will allow you to eat her out for hours. You both will be a lot happier. Hope you're hungry and good luck


1 Comments, 41 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
jjmytwo 71 F
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A Bit of Advice   1/25/2005

I’ve been reading more articles lately and I’ve noticed several complaints that go something like “I can’t meet anyone on this site” or “What does it take to get kinky here?” and others to that effect. And, I’ve noticed that most are from men. <br> Fellas, let me give you a bit of unsolicited advice. When I browse the listing of Men Looking for Women, I find ...


0 Comments, 45 Views, 19 Votes ,6.55 Score
ANOTHERSANTA 94 M
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SANTA;"SMOKERS.BIG.BOTHER.IS.WATCHING"   1/23/2005

SANTA[DEADLINE]ROME, ITALY(wiresvrpt) SECRETSANTA noted:Sunday 1/9/2005 a.total.smoking.ban.in.public.places Smokers in Italy took their last puff in smoky bars and trattorias Sunday, as the new tough smoking ban began. This is the start of one of Europes toughest laws against smoking in bars, restaurants, and other public places. Only smoking allowed in private ...


0 Comments, 116 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
morefun34 43 C
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Need New Dominance Angle   1/22/2005

Many years back, I was a professional dominatrix. My were area specific in that nothing illegal was included in my sevices. My were more into humiliation and fetish. I had been trained for these needs. Through this work I learned I was meant for the submissive role; at best a switch, because I never really enjoyed most of the interaction. The most general were into pain, being called ...


1 Comments, 392 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
filthy_34 55 M
3 Articles
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golden showers   1/20/2005

has anyone heard of - the water of life - book I think it is called, Well it is about the pros of drinking your own urine for health reasons. i have tried it and though i do feel that there is truth in the book i find it difficult to do it every day as it suggests one should. i wonder if the same is true of drinking others urine as this i would happily do as part of my duties as a sub on a ...


0 Comments, 197 Views, 29 Votes ,3.44 Score
yungncuriousguy 41 M
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Taking things further..   1/20/2005

It was soon after that when I confided to her about my interest in the concept of bondage. I went very slowly and the first scene we played was one where I spread-eagled her to a bed and essentially played the entire thing on the fact that she could be pleasured and not have to do a thing. (I have found that this is a concept that women don't really have much of a problem with.) ...


3 Comments, 287 Views, 14 Votes ,3.78 Score
saintisabella 47 F
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A question for the men?The question women are dying to know   1/19/2005

WHY do you men send "Dick Shots"? Is it supposed to impress? I don't get it. I think on a daily I get at least 20 of these and i'm wondering, do you think it's supposed to impress? Do you think when you want a woman to respond she's going to go "Well gee he sent me a photo of his cock I think this is the man of my dreams, sure I think i'll write him back because he's seems to have a lot of ...


0 Comments, 45 Views, 25 Votes ,6.78 Score
GoodKarmaCafe 58 C
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You Bore Me!   1/17/2005

Being part of a couple here on alt...I expect my partner to share with me everything that we, as a couple do here! It's "OUR" profile. We are ment to be in this together... not just one person out for themselves. The fact that you HIDE what you do here BORES ME! It makes me question the whole foundation of our relationship! It makes me question everything about you! I find ...


0 Comments, 68 Views, 14 Votes ,4.74 Score
Cloudz 62 C
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He has been bad   1/16/2005

My boy has been bad. Masturbating without permission, not being attentive to his Mistress, and blaming work for the overall misbehavior. Not acceptable. The chastity belt has been ordered, but it will take more than that for me to retrain this puppy. Suggestions please!!!


0 Comments, 161 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
flash51167 53 M
7 Articles
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new year new life   1/14/2005

This is a new year friends time to reach out and connect to other members on this site. Mix it up and lets get it started in here.


1 Comments, 102 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
synchophant 58 M
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Suggestions needed concerning a long distance Domme/sub relationship.   1/14/2005

Of course trust is a key factor in any relationship, and probably more so in a long distance relationship. But are there ways for a Domme to control Her submissive who is not physically present? What practical devices and methods are available for a Domme to insure Her control over a submissive that does not live near Her? How does a Domme control a submissive in a long distance ...


1 Comments, 202 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
PASilverTop2 75 M
12 Articles
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Finding Your Match Safely Part 4   1/13/2005

Finding Your Match Safely – Part 4 Okay, back to the main road. I’ve gotten about a dozen responses to 50 invites. I’ve had two of them tied up naked already and I’ve slipped the leash on the third. What about the others? Well, they said “no”. The first was short and brutal: “I don’t think we’d be compatible.” Slam. It took a bit of effort on my part not to get angry ...


1 Comments, 81 Views, 17 Votes ,6.66 Score
TheLoneWolf1000 44 M
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ladies just a questin for you, and my point of view   1/13/2005

I have been on alt.com off and on for about 2 years now, I have had all kinds of pictures and I have talked to some of the most beautiful women I have ever seen. <br> The question I have is for all the ladies who are on alt.com right now. <br> why not return a letter? I want to get some opinions on why and why not to return a letter from a person who wants to ...


0 Comments, 57 Views, 23 Votes ,7.57 Score
ladyregopark 74 F
4 Articles
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Form Letters   1/12/2005

Just now, I received a form letter that justified my tearing down dirty window curtains, balling them into a plastic bag, and dreaming of ramming the entire contents down the throat of the lazy pervert (with negative connotations vs. we, the general positive perverts) who sent me an email. The pervert never read my profile nor did he demonstrate an intuitive creative ability to add a name. ...


0 Comments, 83 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Tari197 52 F
14 Articles
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So no one can hear you scream ;)   1/11/2005

Is there anyway to temporarily soundproof a room? I live in a Townhouse and sometimes when we go at it especially with toys we tend to get sort of loud and by my house sharing a mutual wall with the townhouse its attached to I wonder about what they hear.


2 Comments, 378 Views, 14 Votes ,3.78 Score
PASilverTop2 75 M
12 Articles
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Staying Safe in Bedlam   1/10/2005

Part 2 of 4… <br> Just in case you didn’t get the reference in the title, here’s the origin of the word Bedlam. “A London hospital originally intended for the poor suffering from any ailment and for such as might have no other lodging, hence its name, Bethlehem, in Hebrew, the "house of bread." During the fourteenth century it began to be used partly as an asylum ...


0 Comments, 71 Views, 17 Votes ,6.66 Score
sugarbolt 39 F
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Does playing always have to involve sex?   1/10/2005

When you meet someone for a session is it necessary that sex should always follow? Do the dom’s expect to have sex after playing? I want to meet people and I may take a few people to find out what guy I would like to pursue – and I would love to play with but I dome what your say in this matter is. not want to have sex with everyone I play with. Can someone give me some advice – ...


1 Comments, 437 Views, 17 Votes ,5.39 Score
Bella2004 57 F
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lies, trust and so forth   12/11/2004

i would like to ask everyone, Dom/me and sub alike for their advice/opinion on a very serious problem. Please, be as honest and hard as each of Y/you think is needed...or not as the case may be, i am in desperate need of help. How do Y/you deal with someone who out and out lies to Y/you and knows they have been caught yet they try to lay blame eslewhere?? Point of fact, i caught a ...


1 Comments, 62 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
immatell 43 F
2 Articles
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What is a girl to do ? ...Lesbian Woes   11/30/2004

Let me start out by sharing a bit of information about myself. I am 22 years old, live in Alabama, go to school, and work full time ..and you're thinking, 'how do you have time to be online?!' ..well you'd be right. I really dont have the time but I make the time. I love coming to this site, it's interesting to see what I can see. However, I do become so very tired of the fakers ...and the ...


1 Comments, 140 Views, 10 Votes ,5.97 Score
QueenBee4real 51 F
6 Articles
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Weighting the Pros and the Cons to SEX. (This is My Opinion)   11/23/2004

Pros: Means of Making Money Creating Life Expressing Love for Another Sexual Gratification (Temporary) Consummating a Marriage Cons: Financially Costly Unwanted Pregnancy Mis-interpanting Lust for Love Broken Heart Sexually Transmitted Diseases (shall I name them all) Death Labeled as Easy (verbally disrespected) Corrupt Reputation Sexual Crimes Cheating Partners Uncomfortable ...


0 Comments, 105 Views, 1 Votes
ManBitch4you 45 M
2 Articles
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Female Femality   11/20/2004

Female Superiority is so many things... A way of life, a manner of worship, an intensely kinky passion and a matter of sheer indulgence. Women are... Beautiful. Amazing. Incredible creatures of godliness... For the men who know, submission to a dominant female is the most ground-shaking event one could possibly experience, physically, emotionally and socially. For many this has been a ...


1 Comments, 124 Views, 86 Votes ,6.78 Score
pleasingpet 61 M
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Menstrual services   10/25/2004

My wife has trained me to service her by drinking her pee. She uses a variety of ways to do this - champagne flutes, mixed with wines and tea, etc. Now she is asking that I also respect her monthly flows. She recently put a fresh tampon in tea (sort of like a tea bag) and asked me to drink the tea - which I did. I am a bit concerned aboutthe health implications. If there are none, i ...


0 Comments, 210 Views, 35 Votes ,1.92 Score