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Glyptar 47 M
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...This is a question in general for the public.   1/3/2019

Is it me or are way too many of the people you contact on here, illusions? I am sick and tired of getting email from "someone" who asks me to log on to her webpage to get in contact with her. And then again and again from a slightly different email address, but directing me to the same place. And yes, it is a result of this site, because I do not use that mailbox for anything else.... ...


1 Comments, 41 Views, 22 Votes ,7.57 Score
gaggedu22 50 M
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hey all   12/2/2018

please report any girls from ghana there trying to scam u


3 Comments, 19 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
gaggedu22 50 M
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hey all   11/30/2018

lvesslve 33F New York, NY 231 mile



This girl says she from new york, suprise suprise, she is in ghana looking for hand outs


2 Comments, 14 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
princess692000 46 F
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re : photographs   10/10/2018

I like the fact that they allow the photos of the penis becuase I know it really helps me decide who I want to write back and who I am interested in...I also know that size doesn't matter...but you are always curious on what different size can do....


2 Comments, 40 Views, 54 Votes ,5.42 Score
gaggedu22 50 M
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instant messages   8/26/2018

When you are talking to someone, and the bottom of the im box says this personn your talking to is typing back to you, but nothing comes through, ? what does this mean?


3 Comments, 26 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
Bob_The_Bonker1 62 M
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Flogging   8/24/2018

Flogging

The most important part of a flogger are the falls also called lashes, thongs, tresses, strands, etc. These falls are made of different materials, in different styles and with different ends or tips. Handle and knob designs are mostly a matter of personal taste as well as the maker's signature (especially in the knobs). But the falls make a very real difference in the sensation ...


1 Comments, 63 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Nsa2tie 68 M
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When you look good enough to eat   8/22/2018

Having just read a profile that was "Looking for a Funyuns single guy to join us", I realised it was time to check my own profile for obvious mistakes like missing the opportunity to point out that I too can be a razor sharp yet tasty snack that cosmetically resembles unfried onion rings.

Let me know if you fancy a nibble?


3 Comments, 40 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
MissTriciaTPE 69 F
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CUT AND PASTE FOR SCAMMERS   8/20/2018

EVERY DAY on ALT.COM several million scammers are seeking YOU out.! <br><br> Does YOUR profile make you seem NEEDY ? <br><br> <br><br> As a PRO DOM who YES. makes a financial living from this lifestyle. let me explain what I mean .. <br><br> LOOK AT YOUR PROFILE , And I mean REALLY LOOK at it .. ...


5 Comments, 55 Views, 13 Votes ,4.82 Score
Domme91slave93 30 C
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Introducing FLR   8/15/2018

When my boyfriend first brought up the subject of Female Led Relationships or FLR for short, I was very put off by it. But then as time went by, I slowly became more open to the idea and now nearly two years later, I've come to like this. We met on a site very similar to this one, we talked for about 6 months and then in April of 2015 we met for the first time. A few weeks after our first date, ...


6 Comments, 89 Views, 12 Votes ,4.04 Score
slavedog2016 61 M
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What is the secret to finding a good Mistress on this site that is not looking for your money   6/8/2018

I was wondering what everyone's experience is on this site finding a dom. On here that didn't want i-tunes cards upfront as a form of a tribute


3 Comments, 32 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
bzer109 35 M
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looking for advice on meeting ppl online   4/21/2018

Okay so im only 21, ive had this profile for a few months now, but i havent gotten any progress can anyone please help me meet some people on here in my area... maybe give me some pointers on things to say or do and such?


1 Comments, 99 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
briefsman7 42 M
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HOT GAY MEN SEX WITH HOT TIPS ESPECIALLY A UNDERWEAR FETISH   4/21/2018

1) Speak with your partner about each other's fantasies. Yes! If you know what your partner likes, then you will know how to exactly satify him in the sack. Don't try guessing as this may lead to aggravation on both sides. If he has an underwear fetish. Get home from work, surprise him by stripping down on your finest pair of briefs, flip him over your knee and spank him as he admires the buldge ...


1 Comments, 59 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
TomBonow 75 M
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Boom   4/21/2018

Whitehouse Hotline This is the Whitehouse Hot Line please enter one for English or two for Spanish. Thank you! Please for World Affairs press one! For World Economics’ press two For Civil Rights press three For Veteran Affairs press four For all other problems press “O” Your call is important to us, your call will be answered in the order it was received, please stay on the line, while you ...


1 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
TheSmartDom 57 M
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The Mental Aspects of Submission   4/21/2018

The Mental Aspect of Submission By MJ Reldan TheSmartDom

Much time and space is spent on the discussion of the physical aspects of a potential BDSM connection. Yet NOTHING happens without the mind's full-hearted consent. It’s important that you know that I know this.

Conventional vanilla sex is usually understood to require the mind's participation. It is commonly recognized ...


2 Comments, 138 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
PinkDiamond01 49 F
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Professional D/s photo's   4/21/2018

Ok...the word PROFFESIONAL in the article is the clue here and NO owning a camera with a fancy flash doesn't qualify...lmao

I've been trying to find a great professional photographer to get some good quality shots done...Google hits return porn...all very lovely BUT lol...would appriciate any advice/links for reputable photographers with a proven track record and good recommendations, ...


3 Comments, 62 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
master_chris69 54 M
2 Articles
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Getting points back   4/21/2018

I wanted to know what people thought about receiving spam? I believe that if we have spent time accumulating points and then using the points to contact someone who turns out to be a spammer that alt should return those points, do you agree?


3 Comments, 25 Views, 10 Votes ,1.39 Score
dirtywhore2breed 50 F
3 Articles
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Bee stings   4/21/2018

Last night i had a dream of having my Milky udders tied up and a dom/mistress using bee's to sting my nipples. I woke up very very wet from that dream. I was wondering if anyone has used bee's in real life to do that


5 Comments, 77 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
dirtywhore2breed 50 F
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Ever Since my flu.   4/21/2018

A few weeks ago I got a summer flu that was going around the office. I felt like a train ran over me. But ever since I have gotten over it I just don't feel as horny as I do almost every day. Has anyone else felt this way before after being sick with the flu? Most times i just bounce right back and feel horny.


3 Comments, 38 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
misswright1022 38 F
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mistress for you   4/21/2018

if you want to explore bdsm world with the best mistress, contact me and lets get things started.


4 Comments, 110 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
Entwanglements 65 M
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Older guys beware   4/21/2018

There is a scam going on here on this site! It's mostly younger women looking for older men. Have as much fun as you want chatting with them, but do NOT give any personally identifiable info. They will want you to chat with them on Yahoo Messenger--DO NOT DO THAT!!! it is has to do with the Yahoo security breach ! There is IM on this website, and also messaging, keep to that. DO NOT GO TO Yahoo ...


4 Comments, 64 Views, 11 Votes ,6.16 Score
hrnycumboyslave 49 M
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? GH   4/21/2018

is the gloryhole I place to hide and release without knowing for real what to evpect


2 Comments, 38 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
dcaro692 50 M
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how to be prepared to be sodomized   12/22/2017

I would like to be sodomized by a woman with a strapon, but i've never been sodomized before

I would like to have some advices about how to be prepared. Or do Mistressess usually prefer sodomizing a "virgin" man ?

than you


3 Comments, 156 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
jamiedom41 48 M
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Slave training. The beginning!   12/22/2017

I'm order to fully control a slave both in mind, spirit and body you must first break there need for sexual gratification in other words you must restrict their need to masturbate. The best method for this in a female slave is by a leather chastity belt and very close monitoring (a slave will always try to outwit her owner but gyratiory movements aimed at self stimulation) and by harsh ...


3 Comments, 116 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
tiedu25 51 M
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hello   8/23/2017

whats up all, i got rid of the scammers from me, i hope they stay away


0 Comments, 8 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
scorpsin13 41 M
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watersports   6/26/2017

I have never tried the whole area of watersports before. It has always intrigued me quite a bit but not sure if its exactly up my alley or not. Is there anything I can do to know if I would like it before I just jump in to a stream of it


2 Comments, 106 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
gaggedu22 50 M
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alt.com peeps,   5/27/2017

Is anyone else , have to keep hitting the refresh button, for this site? i have had to do it, 20 times already?


1 Comments, 10 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
fiestyfi 42 F
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Is this dom safe or dangerous...   5/12/2017

Hi everyone, I'm a newbie sub who is trying to set out on the BDSM journey. So far its going ok, but I now think I've meet that 'dom guy' the one your warned about. So I'm looking for some advice and any suggestions from both subs and dom's.
Firstly we had chatted briefly, he knew I was a newbie and looking for a dom guy to train me, it was one conversation and with that came the ...


12 Comments, 933 Views, 12 Votes ,5.45 Score
nowhome34952 64 M
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This lifestyle   12/24/2016

I have been in this lifestyle for 30 years. To those experienced this wont be new to you but to the newbies here goes. This is a wonderful lifestyle it is based on trust and honesty. One has to be very careful in this in that some people who are fake hide behind it in order to hurt people. Its who they are . They figure they can do what they want to who they want because someone in this lifestyle ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
MsCatherineCA 55 F
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Not Another Primary Photo Dick Pic   9/21/2016

(PreScript: This advice is intended for submissive males seeking to serve a truly Dominant woman. Ladies: I love your pussies, all of them, but the advice below can really be applied to them as well. If you're only looking to hook up, to fuck, to hit-and-run. . . by all means, parade your parts.) -----------------

You've listed yourself as a male on your profile. I assume that if you ...


3 Comments, 118 Views, 12 Votes ,5.63 Score
salesman58 65 M
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Importance of checklists   3/25/2016

Found in my years in the D/s realm that BDSM checklists are more than a conversation starter and have been a great help. Some subs claim they are well versed in this lifestyle (yes, some Doms as well) and through open conversation that checklists provide, some awkward moments have been squashed leading to more enjoyment which is something we all should craving.


0 Comments, 77 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score