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How Do I Become an "Experienced" Dom 2/26/2016
I originally posted this in a group, but maybe it's
better as an article.
I built a profile on this site because I have realized, based
on past relationships, that I need a submissive woman who
wants a man to take control. However, I've seen a lot
of interesting sub profiles that are looking only for an
"experienced" Dom. How does one go about getting
experience? I'm not looking for a ...
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2 Votes
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Satin lingerie fettish 12/4/2014
Hi all am a single straight male who is totally obsessed
with satin lingerie all I think of is dressing up in satin
247 seven days a week I even go to work in satin under my work
gear .ever chance I can am wearing women's lingerie
hi heels silk or satin Dresses satin night were . Ave more
women's clothes then men's. Ever time I go shopping
I always come home with stockings. Ave bin this way 30+ ...
0 Comments,
94 Views,
3 Votes
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Love the roleplay/ageplay fantasies? How do I get interest? 9/27/2014
Hey, I put out lots of ads on this issue, but get very little
resonse. Is there just no interest in it? Help me out please!
1 Comments,
124 Views,
1 Votes
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working up 5/8/2014
I don't get fucked all that much and so really like it
when I do. My problem is that I can't take a huge cock
up my ass when I'm "out of practice". It
takes some time with dildoes, etc. to stretch me out before
I'm ready. Would prestretching my ass before meeting
help? Has anyone tried that? Or shopuld I just explain to
the top how tight I am?
Thanks!
2 Comments,
65 Views,
1 Votes
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Should i just walk away? 3/24/2014
Ok so lately ive been doing alot of thinking. I love the thought
of the BDSM life style, its on my mind all the time. I get turned
on by the thought of being tied-up, wearing sexy outfits,
serving a mistress etc. My biggest fantasy is being sissified
by a mistress. But im now in a 2 year relationship which is
going really well, im crazy about the girl but she doesn't
share my interest in BDSM. ...
1 Comments,
215 Views,
3 Votes
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Training a new sub 3/24/2014
I am about to start a relationship with a new sub. I wondered
if anyone had ever bothered to document a structured training
regime to lead her through her training? I know the instant
answer is that everyone is different so please let’s
not get sidetracked on that. Many of the things I want to
introduce her to are repeatable in any relationship, from
light bondage and spanking onwards. I want ...
1 Comments,
270 Views,
10 Votes
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SCAMMERS 11/5/2013
I hate them, they usually appear as blondes, from russia,
they shit me.
1 Comments,
77 Views,
15 Votes
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Last Online Status! 2/5/2013
I'm new, but my general advice article would be that
we all get together and advocate this site to show, and sort
by, "last time online" status in search results.
Especially since you gotta be paid member to even look at
a full profile and see it. I noticed lotsa short profile for descriptions where person
said "I'm 22" or whatever, but their age
is now 29, and who knows how long since they ...
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22 Views,
0 Votes
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Is strapon gay? 11/4/2012
I've had a very difficult time ever bringing up the
subject of f2m strapon play with anyone I'm seeing
who isn't into "kink". It seems like people
think that any guy who likes his ass played with is gay. Is
that true? I thought that if if having my ass filled made
me feel good, it made all men feel good, so it couldn't
be gay. But women don't seem to see it that way. Any help?
Do most women think ...
9 Comments,
301 Views,
11 Votes
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scammers 10/6/2012
Im sick of people caliming to be from a country like Autralia
and then when you spend all the time contacting them they
end up comming from Russia or someother fucking country.
I believe that if this happens ALT should return our sacrificed
points for the fuck around, what do you think?
0 Comments,
26 Views,
8 Votes
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Satisfying that bi-curiosity? 9/12/2012
I've always...for as long as I can remember...been
a little bi-curious. Has anyone got any advice on how best
to satisfy that curiosity??
5 Comments,
306 Views,
1 Votes
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What happens when a bottom discovers She loves to Top 9/3/2012
Well surly nothing new to this group - nor to the lifestyle
but defiantly a revelation to myself. Well perhaps not
such a revelation, I have always suspected I would like
to dominate men but had never been afforded the opportunity.
Well that is all in the past now. Last night the one man who has been able to control my bratty
spoiled self let in on a secret. He enjoys being controlled
and ...
6 Comments,
250 Views,
12 Votes
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So What Kind of Sub Are You? The Elements of Submission 7/16/2012
The BDSM community seems to know what it means when it says
Dom and sub to each other. Yet a look at the forums and groups
on line show how much those definitions are really up for
discussion. It is important for you as a sub to know how you
feel and more importantly what about the way you feel should
and can be communicated to a potential play mate. Very important.
What goes into the makeup of a ...
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22 Votes
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Beginner dom - where do i start??!! 7/6/2012
Had a frank chat with my galfriend and she told me she would
like some 'light domination'. She wants to be
spanked, ordered around, tied up. M not sure what to do and
how to start this, were both very openminded and uninhibited,
how do i start giving her what she wants?
2 Comments,
107 Views,
39 Votes
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Converting Your Vanilla Lover 6/21/2012
True story, this is really how it went.
My significant other and I have been together for 5 years
now. We have a great vanilla relationship, but me being
stubborn, I always gotta push for more.
Like most couples our age, sex is pretty much a "date
night once a week" thing. Always the same, but always
pretty damn good, too.
The S.O. has known ...
0 Comments,
205 Views,
4 Votes
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1st time party host....help!! 6/3/2012
I'm about to co-host my first sex party.
Would love to have some advice on party etiquette etc, after
all I want my guests to have a sexy and memorable time.
Don't want the scenario of every school disco - standing
against the wall and not participating!!
Any advice gratefully received as I may make this a regular
event.
Thanks
2 Comments,
82 Views,
12 Votes
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snapping pussy? 5/10/2012
In my years growing up and in adult life I have heard the term
"snapping pussy"
Until recently I thought it was just a joke. I had the good
fortune to be with a woman that got on top of me and did not
move her body but the muscles inside her pussy worked my
dick like a machine!
Is this more common than I have thought? I have had women
that could really use their pussy muscles but this ...
6 Comments,
304 Views,
6 Votes
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Advice for new male submissives 4/6/2012
This article is being written by Mistress Lila's male
submissive. my name is pleasure.
Hello. Let me tell you a little bit about me and why i have
the right to address this topic.
i have been a submissive since i was 23. i am 50 now. My first
wife was a Dominant. She trained me as a service sub to Her
and Her friends. (ok guys, get your heads out of your crotches.
Not ...
3 Comments,
264 Views,
3 Votes
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Power Shifting --- using anal sex 1/7/2012
This is a borderline sex story, but hopefully I will illustrate
how I came to be Dominant after being the 'lesser'
(albeit marginally) for the first time sexually.
It was unintentional Power Shifting to be sure, but a good
lesson learned.
...and a lifestyle created, hopefully I can help others.
It was 2000 or so, late twenties for me. New area, new job
etc.
Met ...
2 Comments,
231 Views,
5 Votes
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correction to question #7457 10/15/2011
I acidently said I been Married for 50 years. The correction
is I been Married for only 30 years. Iam 50 years old going
on 51 this sunday. Sorry for the wrong information.
1 Comments,
155 Views,
10 Votes
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Looking for help 10/2/2011
Hello, Here is my question, does anyone know where I can find a place
to meet people in the lifestyle, that my wife would not really
get the impression right off the bat that, that is where
we were. I've brought up the idea of checking out a local
munch or going to some of the industrial themed night clubs
in the city, but she is uninterested in large crowds. She
has told me she would be more ...
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0 Votes
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Dom? Sub? Where to start....... 8/16/2011
The man that I'm dating is new to BDSM & I'm
a rookie. I know that I am a Sub, but I can dominate upon request
or situation. I want to explore & teach him, but I don't
know how to start. I want him to be able to find his place wether
it is Dom, Sub or switch. Can anyone give me advice on what
to try first (where to start) & find out.
1 Comments,
94 Views,
13 Votes
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Can you answer this? 7/2/2011
Its just a question, a discussion... Thats all.
Why is it that in the last 60 to 80 years, it is unacceptable
and there are laws against marriage to a girl, when
all through history it was normal, and acceptable. Thats
how life has been for thousands of years, but just in recent
history has that became not acceptable. Like some idlest
is pushing off there beliefs on the rest of the ...
2 Comments,
116 Views,
9 Votes
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A Primer on Male Submission by Ms Simone 6/8/2011
A Primer on Male Submission
A-Z
By Mistress Simone
Arousal and Denial: In regards to the male, denial is an
excellent motivator. The promise or restriction of a possible
orgasm will spur the strongest man to submission.
Ass tray Service: Can be either he holds it for you or he is
the ashtray.
Body Worship and/or ...
3 Comments,
1117 Views,
20 Votes
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How do you carry on...? 5/27/2011
Greetings boys and Girls...perhaps you can help me...?
I am in a relationship and we very much enjoy playing Dom/sub
games. When I dominate my little sub male I can keep him on
edge for hours at a time while I tease, torture, humiliate
and degrade him in the most imaginative ways possible...but
I'm having a little problem with the scene endings,
and not in the usual way.
...
1 Comments,
134 Views,
7 Votes
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Advice for my first time crossdressing in public 4/14/2011
Hello id like to go out to one of the clubs in London for crossdressers
but am quite nervous and shy about going. Id like to know
if other people who have been felt the same on their first
time and if so how did they handle their first time? Are there
any clubs out there that people recomend for me to go to?
1 Comments,
289 Views,
1 Votes
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"Fat" sex.... 4/14/2011
Me again  I'm a "BBW" and have only cum
one time {with a man} in 25yrs. I know pathetic My question is: What are the best positions to both of us
to use for incredible sex? I am submissive so I want what's
best for "my potential Man" as well as myself
Thanks again..
Christine
3 Comments,
207 Views,
5 Votes
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Pain Without Marks 4/14/2011
I need advice about how to inflict pain without leaving
marks that would have to be explained.
2 Comments,
285 Views,
4 Votes
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work place relationship 4/14/2011
OK...I have grown to respect and appreciate a woman that
I ahve worked with for years . Recently I reached out to her
and told her I wanted to get to know her better. She's
amazing. Since I reached out to her we have been talking
and e-mailing regularly about a wide range of topics. The
more I learn the more I like about her. We're both married
so going further would be dangerous and right now I ...
2 Comments,
135 Views,
5 Votes
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- Gained a Sub, Lost a Sub - 12/15/2010
Hello,
I met someone on alt, and they were good.
I got frustrated with the way things were going and did something
stupid.
I believe part of the issue is they were under stress for
various reasons, were going from sub to switch mode, were
topping from the bottom - maintaining they were sub, but
actually wanted to be in control.
They have broken off ...
1 Comments,
167 Views,
1 Votes
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