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neadsmaster 60 M
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want to write better?   7/11/2010

I write a lot here and i have found that a new writing site has helped me get better with my writing. It nationalwriter.org. You can post articals and and get advice on writing. As we all know the more you writer here the more you earn points to get stuff but if you are not writing well no one wants to read your stuff. take a look at nationalwriter.org i hope i spelt it right


1 Comments, 59 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
badtothetouch 67 C
2 Articles
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sexy music   6/30/2010

Any ideas for what type of music would be good while topping a sub?? would like music without lyrics


4 Comments, 86 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
S_she_S 54 F
36 Articles
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Pic Help   6/29/2010

So..I've heard the whole old addage that some(not all) Dominants are afraid to post their picture on alt, for the following reasons. ANd then come up with the following remarks this is truly subjective. 1) I have ..........(WHat the HELL are your doin perving around alt.com to see your pic that you placed here? If you have older again I ask...What are they doing perving around alt.com...get ...


8 Comments, 315 Views, 15 Votes ,5.73 Score
oscarthegrouch3 49 M
3 Articles
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SUBMISSIVE VERSUS SLAVE   3/28/2010

When does a submissive become a slave? I mean at what point? Is it based on the time they spend submitting, that is to say if they are submissive 24/7 are you therefore a slave?

Is it based on the level of submission, if you have limits can you ever be a slave?

If you are submissive with no limits are you automatically a slave?

I am interested in the definative answer ...


3 Comments, 213 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
Coolswabie 74 M
1 Article
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New To LifeStyle Question   3/25/2010

I have decided to step into the lifestyle and have a submissive side. In my vanilla world I am in management and have seen a bit of life. I have been approched by a Domme who after a few emails, no real contact yet, and she is requesting that I show my devotion by sending her cash. I have yet to see a picture and have no doubt that if I were under the control of a Domme I would seek financially ...


2 Comments, 47 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
ashworth253 60 M
2 Articles
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First time submissive   2/12/2010

I have always wondered what it would be like to be humiliated and subjected to pain. I have enjoyed the domination side before many times, but was keen to see what it was like with the boot on the other foot (so to speak). I visited a B&D palour last week, and I have not been able to get the experience out of my head. It made me dizzy with excitement. <br> I had my cock tied up, I ...


1 Comments, 249 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
jakebake42 37 M
2 Articles
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Why is it that I can never find any...   2/8/2010

Why is it that I can never find any older women that are interested in young men. I've got an extreme infatuation with older women, and being 18, by older women I mean women ages 25-50. Why is it that most women arn't interested in guys much younger than them? Any advice? It's my dream to get with a MILF. Thanks.


4 Comments, 210 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
kellyg3 39 T
1 Article
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sex change   1/27/2010

im kellyg3 i need advice on where to get a sex change i want a pussy but cant find a number so i can be seen. i live in CA


2 Comments, 102 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
Mz_LindaAnnBound 61 T
3 Articles
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Profile Photo   1/27/2010

Choosing a photo to go with your profile can be difficult and sometimes daunting.

I feel that you probably get more responses with a photo. Just for the reason that your willing to show yourself!

Photo's dont have to of your face necessarily, even though "breast" photo's of women or "cock" photo's of men can be boring , I think .

If you feel confident of your body, you ...


9 Comments, 184 Views, 13 Votes ,3.65 Score
domfem99 43 F
1 Article
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How do I introduce the "lifestyle" to my fiance?   1/25/2010

I'm newly engaged and have told my fiance about having strap-on experiences with other men before him. But my question is, how do I open the door for him about the lifestyle and possibly playing with him? He tells me that he will do anything to satisfy me..... Advice please


8 Comments, 288 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
ElDraco61 62 C
1 Article
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Profiles   1/13/2010

How should a profile be writen so that it will get peoples attention and get responses


2 Comments, 237 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
consumed_male 48 M
2 Articles
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What do women prefer?   1/9/2010

Hi ladies... my wife's birthday is approaching in April.



We've been together approximately 10 years and exchanged many-a-gifts.



She doesn't like wearing bootyshorts (not too comfortable)... she only has 3 pairs out dozens of panties and thongs. I would enjoy seeing her butt in a bootyshort...



My question... should I purchase a variety of ...


4 Comments, 131 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
Barthian 47 M
1 Article
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Am I living in reality with my ideas?   1/6/2010

Hi and thanks for taking the time to read this and maybe respond. I've put up an ad seeking "employment" as a housekeeper with benefits. I'm sure that's far from being strange on this website but I do have a question, whether or not I'm living in reality here or chasing whatever.

I'm not in the BDSM scene nor anywhere around it. I grew up in a Christian home. I've had my sexual ...


3 Comments, 107 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
orphan8 66 M
1 Article
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how do i find a Mistress   12/24/2009

ive been on alt for 7 months . i used to get alot of contacts but now i dont. is there a FEMDOM out there who would guide and train me?


0 Comments, 52 Views, 0 Votes
ANALAL101 55 M
2 Articles
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NO DRAMA !   11/22/2009

What dose it mean when some-one say's NO DRAMA!" To mo me it states that you should not have any emotional issues. Maybe I am Wrong, but can you tell me of any-one who doesn't have any emotions! I feel that the statement "NO Drama", is used by people who them-selves 'can not' deal with their own issues, let alone someone Else's. I ...


1 Comments, 59 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
heepINangel 45 C
1 Article
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Is it wrong?   11/17/2009

Is it wrong sometimes I like to be filled up to the extrem? Could this hurt me in any way? I'm afraid that this might stretch things out to the point of no repair. Thanx, angel


4 Comments, 371 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
tallieblack78 46 M
2 Articles
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First time for cock in ass   9/7/2009

I've had dildos, even some pretty good size ones. What should I be prepared for if I'm going to take a real cock?


2 Comments, 299 Views, 11 Votes ,2.61 Score
Freakkiness 43 M
4 Articles
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Whats the best way   9/6/2009

What is the best way to tell someone your not interested, without seeming like an asshole or a hypocrite?


6 Comments, 102 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
DuneMessiah 65 M
2 Articles
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Is it probably a Fake Profile?   8/11/2009

These are personal observations from actual responses. I guess any of them could be real so I’ll protect the innocent by saying “probably a fake.”

It is probably a fake profile if you sent an introductory e-mail and you get back a “slave contract” and a request that if you help relocate the sender from some place totally unrelated to the location shown on the profile, they ...


0 Comments, 210 Views, 15 Votes ,5.73 Score
addictedtocock12 58 M
19 Articles
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cock size   8/11/2009

guys, stop stop stop lying about your cock size. i am sick of chatting with someone that swears they are uncut, nice cock and it gets hard. well it might be uncut and it might get hard but its only 4 inches when its stiff. what the hell can i do with a 4 inch cock. absolutely nothing. nothing. i have had it with guys that i have hooked up with that swear they have a nice cock when its time to ...


0 Comments, 85 Views, 2 Votes
MstrofAdventure 65 M
2 Articles
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Outside of the box   8/9/2009

There is no such thing as a bad suggestion if the intent of the suggestion is honorable; only a closed mind that is wrapped up within itself would waste time in flaming another that is acting in integrity and honor. It is the acceptance of difference that allows us to to think outside of the norm which is where we will find creative answers. What we are now doing is not working, therefore we ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
hardfortranny 57 M
25 Articles
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deepthroat everyone?   7/28/2009

i am a straight guy that recently experimented with the other side. both transexual and guys. i have practiced for a while, trying to master the art of cock sucking. i have used several different size dildos to practice. from small to huge. i know that everyone can not deep throat. but i think if you practice, you can overcome the gag reflex and do it. i found with the dildos, that i could ...


2 Comments, 253 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
synne1989 35 F
2 Articles
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The faith   7/7/2009

I will communicate with complete honesty of my needs, desires, limits, and experiences to my Dom. I realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Dom and I from having the best experience possible, but it could also lead to physical and emotional harm. I will not try to manipulate my Dom. I will not push to make a scene go the way I feel it should, nor will I ...


3 Comments, 349 Views, 18 Votes ,6.13 Score
dogystl2 54 C
1 Article
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stolen pictures   6/24/2009

What do you do when you see a picture of yourself and someone else is using your picture with their information. Has this ever happend to anyone


5 Comments, 489 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
rados43 39 M
7 Articles
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chastity   1/25/2009

definatly chastity is enhanced when done with someone who has control over the key. brings a new dimension to it


3 Comments, 114 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
MistressTK 43 F
4 Articles
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Punishment For Slaves   1/25/2009

I'm currently training some sissy maids online, & having trouble thinking of new punishments. Obviously a lot of the punishments I'd normally do are impossible, since they live too far away from me.



Does anyone have any suggestions for punishments that I can make them do to themselves?


5 Comments, 351 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
subredcbrm 44 F
3 Articles
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New to the lifestyle please read me.   10/29/2008

Hi everybody. Through different lifestyle groups i belong to i've made my current mission to become as entrenched in the lifestyle as possible as well as going on a crusade to prevent the destruction and abuse of newbies who jump in with both feet, in a frenzied state of mind with little thought to their own safety leaving it all in the hands of the Dom. Which, if he is the one you need to be ...


2 Comments, 172 Views, 13 Votes ,5.66 Score
domcouple11 49 C
12 Articles
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DOMCOUPLE   10/22/2008

YOU ONLY LITLE SLAVE!


2 Comments, 400 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
penni4yrthts2 64 F
7 Articles
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Training   10/8/2008

Training of a Master

After reading several articles about the lifestyle, occasionally the subject of training is targeted. No, not the training of submissives, but the training of Masters.

I will knowingly get negative feedback that a Master doesn't need training. From what I read on here, it would be a smart thing to invest in...if a Master is serious about the lifestyle. ...


0 Comments, 235 Views, 14 Votes ,5.22 Score
funsub2000 66 M
13 Articles
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HELP, in need of advice   10/8/2008

I really don't know what to do so any advice would be welcome. A year ago this September my wife and I were invited to a reunion. A group of about 15 couples that have summer houses on a small northern lake. The party was great, lots of booze and great food. Nobody was feeling any pain if you know what I mean. I was outside talking with a few of the guys when I excused myself to use the bathroom. ...


2 Comments, 180 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score