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Smtreker 73 M
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Permanent Hair Removal   10/6/2008

Is it better to have a female slave's pubic hair permanently removed if you intend to have her cunt pierced and tattooed? Which method is better Laser or Electrolysis?


1 Comments, 146 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
gintonik46 69 F
5 Articles
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Can't All Be The Same......   9/25/2008

No two Doms/Dommes or submissives are exactly the same in the alternative lifestyle. Everyone is different with differrent likes and dislikes and learning that about each other is an important part of any relationship. Mutual respect for those differences goes a long way toward any agreement or comprimise. Even in the Ds relationship there is an 'exchange of power' and issues of ...


0 Comments, 150 Views, 68 Votes ,9.28 Score
binonaya 69 M
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bi girls are exceptable and bi guys are not what gives?   8/24/2008

i`m a bi-curious guy and have found it way less exceptable than if it is a bisexual female. I have yet to meet anyone or couple but am very intrested in doing so i would like to meet a female that excepts my intrests i don`t nessarly need to live out the intrests but would like to be exceptable to someone who understands and can live with it. i was divorced last year because of my intrests ...


2 Comments, 98 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
icq4me 51 M
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Watersports   8/22/2008

Hi there, I like watersports alot. Usually it is in our bathroom, what can I do to make it more fun in the living room ??? Any suggestions???


3 Comments, 410 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
LadyLee1 65 F
7 Articles
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Today's Lesson (True Story)   8/20/2008

Today’s Lesson A True Story by Lady Lee <br> <br> Today I learned something about myself. The one who refers to herself as LadyLee. I met a couple that I have been talking to for a while online, and who reside in Southern California. They are Dom and Slave as a couple. I felt very comfortable with him, as he was my main contact of the two. He ...


0 Comments, 345 Views, 73 Votes ,8.30 Score
master_pharoh 50 C
24 Articles
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Ten Tips for the Novice, Single, Heterosexual, Submissive Woman   7/18/2008

Let me guess. You're a woman, you're heterosexual, and you keep having strange, disturbing, recurring, and intense fantasies of a powerful, masterful man having his way with you. Perhaps he tears off your clothes and takes you. Perhaps he throws you over his knee and gives you a long, hard spanking. Perhaps he ties you naked and spread-eagled to a bed and proceeds to alternately tease and torture ...


3 Comments, 455 Views, 20 Votes ,6.57 Score
josephleigh 53 C
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Why are there so many people on this site that just like to type vs. actually doing anything?   7/15/2008

Although my husband and I are fairly new to this site, I can't help but wonder (or maybe its just new to me or I have totally fucked up our profile ) why so many people exchange likes, dislikes, etc. but aren't really active in pursuing something that probably would be pretty fun. I have spent a couple of days checking out different parts of alt.com to get a better understanding of what ...


6 Comments, 224 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
nopanties4us 57 F
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training a Dom?   7/12/2008

My BF/lover is wanting to go to the next level. We've been pretty wild in the past, borderline BDSM, but now I've issued an invitation, which he has accepted. A matter of trust. We've done a few toys, anal, biting, and sex play for hours. <br> He's waiting for the greenlight. Anything he wants is kind of vague and could be harmful, so any suggestions? i've had a bit of leather ...


3 Comments, 311 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
2for1forfun8081 42 C
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Jist lookin' 4 sum advice or tips for Daddy Dom/ role play?   6/22/2008

So me and my wife hav bn wantin' 2 do sum expermentin' and we both mentioned the Daddy Dom/ role play and decided 2 try it. We hav bn emailin' each other back and forth, playin' our parts in the emails. And we were just lookin' for sum advice or tips on how 2 move it from email 2 the bed.

She feels a little silly, yet aroused, by callin' me Daddy. She wants 2 do a good ...


1 Comments, 149 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
Mrkinky4fun 60 M
2 Articles
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Strap-on   6/16/2008

I'd like to hear peoples views thoughts about mf strap-on sex. pros cons likes dislikes or anything else that comes to mind


4 Comments, 162 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
midlandsbipaul 62 M
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WHATS HAPPENED TO THE CAMS!   5/24/2008

Hi, Ive been on here for 3 years, the first year as a gold member and for the last two years as a standard member. Recently I have found that when ever I click on a cam on instant messenger the window dissappears without letting me view. The only cams that seem available are the ones that are in private and so I can see them, obviously! What is going on? Is this the normal level of service for ...


1 Comments, 132 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
justalilbitruff 43 F
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Question about latex   5/19/2008

I am completely new to the conept of latex, and have a general idea of how to put it on, though have not practiced yet. My question is, once it's on, how do you get it off? Peel it off? Is there a special substance to remove it? Is it painful? I haven't done any of this yet and figured it'd be best to do my homework on the subject before encountering any unexpected surprises. All advice will ...


0 Comments, 92 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
KamaSX 41 M
2 Articles
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Domming   4/22/2008

Switch by nature. I say so because I feel so Dominant sometimes I just want to be in control, and the rest of the time, you know it

Thing is, I would like to know where I could learn and get more information on becoming a better Dom. Are there any websites or books that teach you to become a perfect Dom?

All suggestions would help! Thanks, Kama...


1 Comments, 70 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
Neo35911 38 M
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Im new   4/19/2008

Im new to this sight and like to be the dom partner. Is there anyway i can find female partners who would be willing to be sub?


0 Comments, 82 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
domfem01 42 M
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When you know, what you are?   4/7/2008

What you should do, when you know what you are?? well I'll say if you know wht you are then you should come out with it.. stayin hidden doesn't help anyone in the relationship..


1 Comments, 38 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
steelbreezz2 68 M
12 Articles
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Compromise   4/7/2008

I thought I'd pass along a couple of things I find make life a lot easier. These are two things most people don't seem to want to hear about: compromise and having realistic expectations.

If you have a need for something and can't seem to attain it, try to compromise. Maybe it won't be what you would call perfect, but it will be close enough for you to experience something similiar. Sure ...


2 Comments, 49 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
doit4me1000 57 F
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I need help w/giving oral   3/29/2008

I know, it sounds so stupid, but I am completely serious. I am not at all experienced in giving oral sex to men. for some reason i am very scared that i will do it wrong or that they won't respond the way i think they should. My biggest fear is not being able to get a man off. How humiliating would that be?!?! So, because I now have a guy that makes me really want to do it, because i ...


2 Comments, 324 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
Dominant_Tao 62 M
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re: Such a thing as New Dom?   3/23/2008

There are such things as new doms, and while you are your own person, so is everybody else, and some common understandings are prudent. There are plenty of articles and books addressing dominance. Some of the works are important to help you understand why you want do do what you do and why someone else would want you to do it to them. There are technique books which are important to help ...


0 Comments, 57 Views, 27 Votes ,8.50 Score
submissive48DD 56 F
2 Articles
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Deep throating....   2/19/2008

Hi..This is my first post. I've deep throated a few men and they seemed to really love it BUT I have on occasion scraped my teeth against their cock or their cock is thick so my back teeth actually cut him. My question is...What's the best position to be in so I can give "him" the best blow job of "his" life?

Thank you..

Christine


3 Comments, 218 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
sissymale23 44 M
3 Articles
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What am I doing wrong   2/6/2008

I have written many messages to different people. They are somewhat brief but friendly and formal. I have not recieved any messages back not even to say no thanks. Is there any general advice from anyone out there on what I could do to maybe help me out. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you.


1 Comments, 126 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
WldCplLkn2Play 52 C
2 Articles
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surface piercing   2/6/2008

Can anyone tell me how long a corset piercing can remain in? i really am interested in getting one. Thanks for any information anyone can provide.


3 Comments, 119 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
gbake 54 M
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Diving In   1/31/2008

Like a lot of members here at Alt, this website has been my first foray into this lifestyle. I know there are a lot of seasoned pros here, but a search of profiles shows me that a lot of us came to this site as newcomers.

When I joined, I tried to express my desires and fantasies as best I could articulate them in my profile. In an attempt to offer as much about myself as I could, I ...


0 Comments, 77 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
PJALT2 63 M
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Advice needed... roleplay scenarios   1/31/2008

so... I am meeting with a young lady (yes, she's over the age of consent, thanks for asking) and we are playing daddy/ - teacher/ schoolgirl - daddy/babygirl games

basically I start off with a little plan to start the rolepaly going and then after a while, we just let it all go from there. Has anyone got any new ideas for scenarios - or enjopyable scenarios that they use themselves


1 Comments, 226 Views, 3 Votes
SebastiansMaster 36 M
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Want to Learn   12/19/2007

I am young and wanting to learn from a experinced Master. If anyone has some help for me to get in this lifestyle as a Master i would love to hear from anyone. Thanks


0 Comments, 98 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
rata7641 44 T
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Pvc - what do you use to give that wet look?   11/29/2007

I just got a new pvc catsuit and was wondering what do i use to protect it & give it that wet look shine? Can anyone give me some help? thanks rata


1 Comments, 62 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
Maestro05 49 M
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My 2 Cents for submissives   11/18/2007

Many of you have asked that I write a little something for the subs out there. I hope this helps..

M/many involved in the BDSM lifestyle have been introduced to it through the Internet and online chat rooms. Online can be very intense and very special. It can also lead to great harm to many, just as realtime relationships can be quite intense and special and for others just as harmful. ...


1 Comments, 171 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
Wide_Bore 42 M
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Want to find Different Ways of Masturbation   10/17/2007

I am bored by doing masturbation sameway all the time--You know jerking off by hand. Can anyone tell me any variations?Please donot advice me any electronic tools-I donot like them at all.


1 Comments, 203 Views, 17 Votes ,0.16 Score
master_pharoh 50 C
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It’s Raining Men: Basics of Water Sports   10/15/2007

Urine – Liquid waste product produced by the kidneys. The volume of urine depends on the fluid intake and diet. An average amount of urine excreted within a 24-hour period is between 0.8 and 2.6 liters.
The kidneys maintain the bodies’ electrolyte balance by excreting excess electrolytes into the urine. Chemically, urine is mainly an aqueous (watery) solution of salt (sodium chloride), ...


2 Comments, 184 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
Lexa1970 54 F
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I Desp neeed some advice or guidance can you help ?   10/10/2007

I've always been Top mostly due i suppose to my ex husband and personality type but I am now at a place in my life where I am free to explore My desires My wants My fantasies and I have realised that I would very much love to switch roles that the thoughts of it really turns me on. To the point where I am thinking about it a lot but I am unsure of how to go about it or even it I would be able to. ...


5 Comments, 105 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
likkinnab 48 M
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Tgirls   9/30/2007

What is the attraction that a straight man has with these Lovely Tgirls? From the beautiful hair, makeup, lips, long leggs lucious ass and even the dick. Which on a man is not even the least bit enticing. Any answer will be taken to great lengths.


5 Comments, 261 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score