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Lady Julianna's Guide to Sensual BDSM 3/30/2007
Excerpt from Chapter 3: BDSM Play Basics - Do’s, Don’ts
& How To’s
Your Domme Demeanor – While playing you must always act
as though you know what you are doing and exude strength
and confidence. Never, ever, ever ask your sub in the middle
of play what he wants to do, what you should do next or if he
likes what you’re doing. There are ways of finding these
things out without ...
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9 Votes
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i need some help- fake sperm 3/27/2007
Hope someone can help. We would like to make a video with
her in a bathtub full of sperm. Without haveing to get the
male population of Massachusetts over here, does anyone
know how to make a good "fake" sperm? Needs to
be gooie, yet slippery and must look real. It also needs
to be safe. Hope you can help ASAP. Thanks
1 Comments,
169 Views,
2 Votes
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I need advice on how to sexually torture my DOM 3/21/2007
Hello, and thank you for reading my cry for help.
I have always been sexually submissive, but have only started
to experience this type of relationship quite recently
so I haven't had a lot of experience. What I need advice
about is, my Dom has told me that he sometimes likes to be
submissive too and wants me to 'use' him sexually.
He wants me to inflict sexual torture on him. I really ...
2 Comments,
585 Views,
11 Votes
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The Art of Submission 3/16/2007
Hi,
I'm a newbie submissive seeking to fully understand
the art of submission. I would like to know what qualities
make a good submissive? what is about being submissive
that you/we enjoy?
What pleasure does being a submissive give you?
If you could use any words to describe how you feel about
submission what would they be?
I'd be really interested to hear what everyone ...
1 Comments,
211 Views,
9 Votes
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On the Bottle... 3/15/2007
I had recently read a posting reminding me of seeing a girl
friend of mine bury a small
Gatorade bottle, one of the 12, or 16oz size, with the big
mouth...
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She put a steel ball bearing she got from me (about an inch
across) in the bottle, then in it
all went... That alone was worth the week end...
<br>
As she walked around the motel room, the steel ball ...
2 Comments,
537 Views,
12 Votes
,3.86 Score
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how to make it happen 3/9/2007
we are having trouble on how to tell some of our friends we
would like them to join us in the bedroom for some kinky hot
sex does anyone know a good way to ask them or bring it up with
out sounding like freaks if there not in to it
3 Comments,
144 Views,
10 Votes
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Too taboo? 2/25/2007
I've never met anyone here who mentioned an interest
in animal sex. Is that subject too taboo even for this site?
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Would I be offensive even in bringing it up during a chat?
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--WhiteDoveFeather
9 Comments,
1098 Views,
24 Votes
,5.63 Score
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How do I find that special person? 2/21/2007
Hi out there, A question for the WOMEN out there (or a man
who'se been in my position) I'm seeking some sensible,
helpful advice. I'm a heterosexual crossdressing
male, generally a normal macho bloke but like dressing
up for sex occassionally and have a bit of a smoking fetish,
only just joined this site but been on Adult Friends finder
for a little while, but had few views or messages, ...
1 Comments,
176 Views,
4 Votes
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I don't understand 2/21/2007
Hi,
I'm a newbie submissive, stepping out on the road to
learning about becoming a good sub for a potential dom.
A long time ago I meet a fantastic dom, who I liked very much
and felt liked me. Everything was going really well, and
we talked about meeting up. I cannot stress how much I wanted
him, and to meet him. Yet at the same time I was going through
an extremely ...
7 Comments,
187 Views,
6 Votes
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Am I really ready??? 2/13/2007
A question that has plagued all of us at one time or another.
All I have to say is: "When you want to take on greater
responsibilities then you should be ready to take on the
greater consequences."
0 Comments,
185 Views,
3 Votes
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Offers? 1/28/2007
Question..?
I am willing to pay for someone in the United States to relocate
at my cost.
Is this a offering to buy the person
such as the like buying a date? (yea ALT thinks this)
or
Is this a reasonable offer should she be the right slave
I seek?...
2 Comments,
207 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Sub or Dom? 1/20/2007
How true is it to be, or find people that are actually both
doms and subs? I know very few people are either white or
black and most fall in some shade of grew. But can people
truly enjoy submitting as much as they enjoy dominating
another? Can this happen with the same partner? Thanks
for the input.
3 Comments,
238 Views,
4 Votes
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hard nipples 1/20/2007
i am slave jayne, partner to my Master Rex (his handle is
Rexking). Master loves hard nipples. The harder the better.
My nipples are fine, but i want to know if there is something
out there that would really make them huge and hard? Some
kind of cream or lotion that i could rub on them to really
get them erect. i am hoping someone out there knows of something
i could use so that i can ...
0 Comments,
223 Views,
4 Votes
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I like how it feels but how do I feel? 1/17/2007
I"m troubled by a situation and wa slookinf for a word
or two of advice from someone more experienced or who just
has anything at all to offer in the way of assistance. I"ve
had some trouble coming to grips with thsi pbefore but I'm
fine with now saying that I enojoy receiving analpenetration.
I have experienced a woman's strapon and quite enjoy
how it feels physically, but wooried, what it ...
1 Comments,
148 Views,
2 Votes
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being new to alt.com 1/11/2007
with being still quite new to here l thought u could get help
from anyone but it seems you can so l think there should be
a place on here to go to and get some good advice on how to do
anything on alt .com
1 Comments,
120 Views,
2 Votes
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A Case of Mistaken Fantasies? 1/10/2007
I'm interested to find out how kinky woman can generally
be or if there is an age old myth that men have been building
up in their heads. Do women enjoy using strapons on men?
I know sexual tastes very and each kink has its own crowd,
but do women think about or act upon the erge to have a man
so willing to please her that he will open up and let her inside?
I have been tot he Ontario group ...
5 Comments,
323 Views,
3 Votes
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How does one know ? 12/14/2006
How does one know if a Dom is as experienced as he says he is?....
How do you know if what he is saying to you in the first place
is fact or fallacy?.... I dont want me make the same mistake
twice..... I chat to a lot of people..... and they have given
some do's and dont's.... like your safety etc
when first meeting....
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thanks would be interested in different opinions and ...
5 Comments,
393 Views,
7 Votes
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Dirty secrets and real life 12/14/2006
How are other people reconciling their dirty secrets here
on alt with their real life? I'm finding it very hard
to really meet people here on alt and fulfill the fantasies
that keep me up at night, and still keep this part of my life
secret.
Obviously I don't want everyone to know that I love
being tied up, spanked, teased, humiliated, fucked by
women with strapons, and forced to suck ...
3 Comments,
193 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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The origin of fisting fetish (vaginal and anal) 12/13/2006
The origins of fetishes, particularly Fisting and Anal
play.
I am one of those people who like to analyse the origins of
my fetishes.
I suppose having studied psychology, being a qualified
nurse for many years and currently training to be a psychoanalyst,
would certainly give me the background for this kind of
self analysis!
I first became interested in fisting and playing ...
2 Comments,
185 Views,
6 Votes
,4.79 Score
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FRUSTRATION! 12/12/2006
So.... I'm searching for something that seems to elude
me time and time again and I was wondering what others have
to say about it....
Heres the story....
What I want is basically a fuckbuddy that is dominant but
doesn't have to always play in D+s. I want someone who
can get a hard-on and cum 3 or 4 times in a night, not every
night, night after night of course, but as ...
4 Comments,
242 Views,
15 Votes
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should I? 12/10/2006
I have done research in my area and have found a Domme. She
will session with me. But now I have a connundrum. Do I go
see her for I am in a great relationship, and my Lady is unwilling
to go to the extremes that I am searching. So that is where
I am at. To be Dominated and anally abused and showered upon.
0 Comments,
121 Views,
4 Votes
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Oral Sex, Who's really in charge? 12/5/2006
Have you ever wondered about that question? It seems to
be that if you ask a woman, it's them on both ways. If
you ask a man you get the same answer that they are. So which
is true? That depends on the situation. Of course if the
giver is tied up the reciever is in control. If reciever
is tied up then the giver is in control. If no restrants are
involved thats the shady grey area.
...
1 Comments,
305 Views,
7 Votes
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First communications 11/28/2006
It's surprising how many people are not aware of the
importance of those first few lines of communication.
Most of the correspondence on this site seems to have two
problems:
1. Waffle
2. Too many on liners
Regarding waffle (taking too long to say something or nothing).
If you haven't got someone's attention in the
first sentence or two you have lost them ...
3 Comments,
321 Views,
14 Votes
,5.22 Score
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Mind Fuck 11/26/2006
Recently I meet a sub, who was not even close. So I guess I
should have ID her as a wantabe. We exchanged email and numbers
and even met up, but when it came down to the experience she
said she had it was not there. I took her to a open bar where
people of our mind frame can let our hair down and she seemed
at ease, but as the evening wore on I came to find out, this
was just a mind fuck ...
1 Comments,
546 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Contacting ex dom's 11/1/2006
Hi,
Before I begin I am a complete newbie at this. I'm trying
to find my way in this kinky world, and understand all the
kinky rules etc.
My question is this. Do you as a sub or a dom contact old/past/ex
subs/dom's?
I meet this great fantastic dom guy, who I felt had made a
connection with me. Things were going well, and it was getting
close to arranging to ...
2 Comments,
320 Views,
5 Votes
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RE Is this a common punishment? 10/27/2006
I have never heard of it before. Is it helping you comply
with Her demand of you not to climax without Her permission?
It doesn't sound that way ... It also does not sound
like you are being respectful of Her. Why do you continue
to do something you know displeases Her?
Ms D
1 Comments,
100 Views,
28 Votes
,6.32 Score
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feminisation 10/24/2006
I have always had fantasies about being sub to women.Im
not sure why but i think its because i want to be one but im
too much of a coward to do anythingg about it.Has anyone
been on female hormones i want to know othes experiences
of transforming into a female.I want to work in a beauty
parlour where i can best serve and learn about being feminine.I
could never go through with it without ...
3 Comments,
475 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Help me udnersntad initials - CBT 10/22/2006
I know - very whimpy to not know lol. But what does CBT stand
for - and after that - what is is like?
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Thanks.
1 Comments,
80 Views,
7 Votes
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Getting "laid" 10/20/2006
I recall a line from a film which goes like this. "Do
you know my secret to getting laid, lower your standards."
Does anyone think this is true? Seems too often it is.
4 Comments,
122 Views,
5 Votes
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is it wrong to be turned off? 10/16/2006
a situation that came up. i talked with an interesting man
and was comfortable enough to agree to meet with him. now
on the day that i was to meet i got sick. i imediately contacted
him and told him that i couldn't meet and why. he responded
that it was fine b/c he had his wife and two other younger
girls that could satisfy him.
i know that a man on sites such as this would ...
8 Comments,
295 Views,
16 Votes
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