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TwistedInstinct 63 M
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how can you protect her when you are drunk , you R and easy KILL !   10/16/2006

i am to writing what jackson pollock was to painting.. this is kinda out reponse to that chick getting hit by a car the last bon fire!
This has to do with the chick that got hit last night , and chemical recreation in general . first from your aspect young master , ,, NOT in front of you women , ,never fucking ever .. it insults their need for a strong male , when you are drunk ...


1 Comments, 46 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
klitplzer 74 M
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GloryHole anyone   10/16/2006

I want to know if Anyone can tell me where I might find a place that has real Gloryholes in this area. . . I would both like to place my cock in one to try the experience, and I'd like to be on the other side to give the best gloryhole sucking anyone ever had.


1 Comments, 165 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
GIVESandTAKES4 73 M
10 Articles
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FOR WOMEN ONLY   10/16/2006

Men's Pet Peeve. LADIES! LADIES! LADIES!





You hardly ever answer our email. There's a quick reply button immediately above our message! It takes but a few seconds to hit it and send. You don't even have to go to another page. The best one is the second one up. "I'm not seeing anyone new right now" If you have the time you could count another 7 up ...


4 Comments, 316 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
likkinnab 48 M
3 Articles
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getting more anal   10/16/2006

I am having difficulty getting my GF to play anally. On a grand scale. I love to rim, for days and days. But she seems to stop me after a while. EVEN though she is all over the anal play in masturbatory realm. WHAT TO DO, WHAT TO DO?
I would aalso be all over her doing me anally. I gues that is another hurdle.


3 Comments, 160 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
BlueEyesInManila 55 M
2 Articles
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Travel   10/11/2006

How far would you be willing to travel to meet someone from this site? You can never really know someone until you've met them in person no matter how many emails or phone calls involved. Would you take the chance of going to another country if you thought this person MIGHT be worth it?


3 Comments, 133 Views, 1 Votes
johnepsomsurrey 57 M
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Blindfolds – A view   10/10/2006

Thank you for reading this.

Most of this is going to seem like teaching your granny to fart on Christmas day.
The majority of people just put a hood/fold over the eyes and think that the persons senses no longer exist, when they are heightened.
Softly, softly catches monkey
The most effective tool is total silence (putting ear-plugs in ...


0 Comments, 134 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
fiestyfi 42 F
14 Articles
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Oral sex question...   10/10/2006

I hope I'm posting this in the right place. I couldn't work out whether to put it here or in articles.
I've picked here and hope I get an answer or two, as I'm really confused.
When I was with an ex b.f which was a vanilla relationship, he would give me oral sex a lot of the time. Not that I'm complaining!
But it was to the point that I thought he was just ...


2 Comments, 544 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
tightbottom50 69 M
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Reporting hate & abuse   10/2/2006

I have recently become a victim in a hate crime. I make no bones about stating that the person was on this site, lives in the province and has been a member of this and some other groups.
Some of you may have seen her posts in this group. Many have not as I had to get up early to scan what she posted late at night and delete it. I complained to the other groups ...



2 Comments, 130 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
ThePistoleer 53 M
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Labelling Sexuality. Is it really possible?   9/14/2006

I have been trying to figure this one out for ages. Can you really place everyone into a category? Is it possible to "label" people's sexuality?
For instance, someone who enjoys "Normal" M-F is labelled "Hetero-sexual". Someone who enjoys F-F is labelled "Lesbian"
M-M = Homo-sexual
M-M/F = Bi-sexual
F-F/M = Bi-sexual
M/M-M/F+M-F = swingers / ...


1 Comments, 46 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
diver900 36 M
1 Article
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Shaving   9/12/2006

Every time I use a razor to shave my pubic hair I always end up getting those nasty red bumps. How do I avoid them?


6 Comments, 353 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
fiveinch2 66 M
6 Articles
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Shoe Fetish   9/11/2006

My Mistress and I share a shoe fetish. We go shopping together and I kneel in front of her in shops, helping her on and off with shoes, then paying for what she has chosen and carrying her bags like a servant. I would love her to call me slave in front of the assistants and to kiss her feet in public. Has anyone out there worked in a shoe shop and witnessed anything of this sort? I would ...


1 Comments, 117 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
FatDickTop 59 M
4 Articles
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Tops bottom' turn around?   9/9/2006

Hello thank you for taking the time to read this rambling. I was married to a Male Marine for over twenty years and after all that time of (if I may modestly say) perfecting my talents as a bottom – I find my preferences to be more toward get some hunger hole (mouth or ass) and mercifully cramming it full to my satisfaction with my fat dick. This is not to say I do not enjoy the same at ...


1 Comments, 90 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
need2do 44 M
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What does a cd or ts want in a man?   9/7/2006

I'm finally taking action and exploring the neglected side of my sexuality. I've recently ended a long relationship and am now wanting to meet a crossdresser or transvestite, I realize that is a general term and that there are differences between them, as well as transgender and tgirls. I'm not an expert as I have no experince with cd's or ts'. I know these beauties are just regular people ...


1 Comments, 110 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
coolbluemist 58 M
2 Articles
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Take it easy!!   9/5/2006

Folks, I have been on this site for a while.Years.What I see lately are a lot of people that are not taking the time to get to know someone before they invite them to thier network.I have found that the ladies invite who they are interested in.So, be nice and patient.You might have more fun here.


2 Comments, 127 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
smokeyjoenj 70 M
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Getting good blow jobs...   9/1/2006

Just a simple message guys... found this out after fucking a gal from Hawaii for a few months...
Eating lots of pinapple will change the taste of your cum substantially... they'll even say very delicious!
eat 3 times a day an in three days... they'll be sucking on ya like baby piglets!


0 Comments, 177 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
MatchedSet 50 C
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Is There Something Wrong With A Sexually Free Spirited Woman???   8/29/2006

In the past, I've been faced with a dilemma...and am now reaching out to my fellow ALTS for a little input. Two part question...the other is below.
Question: How many men are intimidated by a sexually free-spirited and uninhibited woman???
What I've discovered personally, firsthand is that most are...maybe some won't admit it...but I truly believe a few of ...



2 Comments, 251 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Drirty_old_man 51 C
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So you think you have what it takes to be a Dom huh?   8/21/2006

You've thought about it, you've fantasized about it, and you've decided that it's for you. All well and good. Now to take the theory into practice. There's a distance between wanting to be a dom and being a dom, though, and it pays to be aware that there's more involved than you might think.
How hard can it be?
Trickier than it sounds. There's ...


6 Comments, 410 Views, 24 Votes ,7.33 Score
daddyneedslove 69 M
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ladies help please   8/16/2006

i recently have taken a new lover she is a friend and i dont want to hurt her she smells down there and i dont like the smell at all
is there a nice way to tell her she has to take a bath she is very sweet and we have been friends for over a year but well give me some advice on this smelly problem


3 Comments, 254 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
watchermaster 63 M
2 Articles
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Linking Pissing and Spanking: do they go together?   8/16/2006

When I began to explore my sexual tastes online I found I seemed to be somewhat unusual. I love a girl, especially an adult little/school to piss her panties and be spanked for it. I can't find much on the web that relates to this area, and here I am at alt looking for sub women who have a similar interest to myself. Do pissing and spanking go together anywhere on the web? Do any women ...


1 Comments, 254 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
butterflys83 40 F
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Any advise for a single female that wants to attend a Voyer/Exhibitionist party?   8/11/2006

I am a single woman and I want to attend a voyerism/exibitionism party. I was wondering if anyone had any advise for me? What to wear? What to do? What not to do? I am new to all of this and I want to go and see what it is all about, but I'd rather not make a fool of myself.


1 Comments, 135 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
slutcunt4sadists 43 F
2 Articles
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how can a men say he is a dominant...   8/4/2006

Why are married man that say that they are dominant...hide from their wife...???


2 Comments, 305 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
jillyshub 57 T
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Strap-On Fun without damage   8/2/2006

This weekend my girlfriend tried out her new toy, a leather-harness and trap on and I was the lucky recipient. Unfortunately, even though we got some special "Anal Lube" I still ended up with some rectal bleeding. Can any of you experienced strap-on users offer us some advice, 'cos i really loved the experience + am desperate for round 2, but don't want to end up in casualy (E.R.) as a ...


6 Comments, 799 Views, 15 Votes ,3.28 Score
sincity06969 65 F
5 Articles
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Am I wanting for to much from this Dom?   7/26/2006

Maybe the expectations a sub has towards her Master it too much for him to live up to. Every time he does wrong it taken hard and deep in side of her. She looks up to him, like he should have no imperfection, But we are people and we all have them. His word, as large or small, she will hold him to it. The disappoiement of him not following through can feel devastating to his ...


6 Comments, 333 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
mary444 55 F
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squirting   7/25/2006

a few times in the last year I've squirted when I cum. Why does this happen? Why have I only started doing it recently? etc, etc <br> Any information would be appreciated, thanks.


6 Comments, 496 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
Slave_Trainer_FL
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Angry PAYING Member a Word to the wise   7/20/2006

*** I KNOW I AM NOT ALONE ADD YOUR COMMENTS ***
A vent from an angry member.
To the Executive Staff of Various, Inc,
I do not know why you are trashing your own website.. Many people I know are leaving because the site is becoming like Adult FriendFinder, your OTHER site.. BDSM is not about SEX, it never will be the MAIN focal point. ...


0 Comments, 239 Views, 7 Votes ,6.10 Score
slutcunt4sadists 43 F
2 Articles
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Moving,,,,   7/16/2006

How to get to know a master that is in a different country when travel is limited? To know that 24/7 is possibility...


0 Comments, 196 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
kiwitaz 53 M
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love of silk and lace   7/15/2006

Hi all, seeking some advice on my fetish. I love wearing womens lingerie, i'm straight but can't get enough of it. My partner wants me to stop but has known of my fasination since day dot. Any ideas on how to handle this?


3 Comments, 86 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
darksexgoddess 38 F
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Need Advice On Restraining   7/15/2006

Hi Everyone <br> This is my first post here, and Im hoping you can help me out. <br> Me and my partner have recently started having some fun together using restraints (handcuffs, chains, ropes, etc). Mostly he's been doing it to me, but now i wanna do it to him. <br> But heres the problem...I dont have a very good imagination, and cant think of too mnay ...


7 Comments, 442 Views, 11 Votes ,2.61 Score
alaboutu0064 66 M
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[b]Too much competition?[/b]   7/15/2006

So what is the deal here? I don't think I'm particularily unattractive, nor do I see myself as a jerk. Yet I get very few responses to my profile and/or e-mails. Is everybody else out there so witty and good looking I'm at the bottom of the barrel? I think not! Is there too many other guys out there that I'm lost in the shuffle? Maybe so. What kind of B.S. works? Honesty doesn't seem to ...


1 Comments, 208 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
MistressTK 43 F
4 Articles
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A well stocked dungeon   7/15/2006

Now, I'm currently designing my dungeon (hoping to use it pretty soon) & I'm trying to think of good ways to organize my toys, clothes, & other fun things <br> So, I have 2 questions: My Dungeon is basically going to be my spare bedroom - so how do you make it less 'bedroom' & more 'dungeon'? I live in an apartment, so I can't make too many drastic changes (painting the walls - ...


1 Comments, 186 Views, 0 Votes