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IMLadyBecca 73 F
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Dominants...it's time to REALLY take charge!   8/27/2006

So many people hate and fear change, difference and anything or anyone that doesn't conform with the way they do things. This also applies to the world of BDSM. From my own observations, Doms/Dommes are the ones who 'do' things to the subs. Submissives are the ones that things are 'done to'. For all outward appearances, the stars of the show are the submissives! I've sat and watched the ...


6 Comments, 186 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
holly1973 50 T
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guys & there pix   8/26/2006

why is it most guys on this site feel the need to take pictures of there nether regions for there profile pix? im far more interested in a guys body & his whole self! the fact is that most guys on here seem to forget that that part of your anatomy is going to 'cum' into play eventually & if a guy or girl likes the rest of what they see it really dosnt matter whats going on down there! ...


3 Comments, 78 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
mikeylixit 54 C
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Tip toe throught the tulips in the garden of thorns and thistles   8/10/2006

Oh, this is going to be fun! Question: What is the title at the top of every ALT page? Answer: World's Largest BDSM & Alternative Lifestyle Personals. Yes or no? That being the irrefutable case, why do certain individuals chastise others for emphasizing the sexual nature of this site? Do features in the "magazine" such as "sex secrets" offend you? Do YOU read them? So many bitch ...


9 Comments, 220 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
IWannaToy4me 70 F
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Master's and Sub's   8/4/2006

When I first got the notion to become a pet to my master I didn't really want to as I knew in this day and age the worries I'd have of the various disease's there are out there. I for one asked if i'd be the only one he'd be having sex with as I wouldn't and couldn't share. I wasn't the type that could do more then one man and I wouldn't if asked by him. We discussed all this before I ...


0 Comments, 152 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
blkandthickgrl 54 F
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falling in love with your dom/me   7/30/2006

First I thought you was suppose to love your dom/me. If I'm wrong write and get my mind right. LOL Now I know its gone to far when you talk about abandoning . Yeah that's to far. Love your dom/me but remember that your world is filed with responsibilities and you must take care of all to be worthy to serve with a sound mind.


2 Comments, 284 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
psychoskin 50 M
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Blind Corner   7/29/2006

The Blind Corner
A fine mist of rain was working its way through my clothes as I quickstepped across four lanes of traffic on the blind corner of Highway 99 in Phoenix. Shunning my usual impulse to be polite I deliberately walked in front of a car that had pulled up at the stop sign, the driver was on his cell phone and that was enough to make me spit. Inside the Minute Market I ...


2 Comments, 404 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
subinmichigan20 38 M
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Location   7/29/2006

Every time I see a profile that looks interesting the person lives on the other side of the country. It would be very difficult to visit or relocate if you don't exactly know that the person would be right for you. That' all.


1 Comments, 200 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
HardcoreSpawn 45 M
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Tolerance to the Intolerable - How Much is Too Much?   7/22/2006

Okay, so far I have seen two articles in the Q&A section to date that contain the theme of beasteality (I'm not too sure of the correct spelling of the word).
I haven't been on this site for too long so I haven't read through any past articles so I am going to hazard a guess that there might be more(?).
Now I don't know about you the reader but when I was making my bones in ...


1 Comments, 227 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
wod_ever 52 F
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laughing heartly   7/21/2006

i think its cute as a bugs ear that the thread newn started asking about if anyone else could see second page posts on this board... and was hijacked by a certain group of very special bitchers and whinners... has now moved into that lovely condition known as second page vanishitis

laughs and laughs and laughs
points my finger at the silly people and waits for ...


12 Comments, 339 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
sylknleather1 61 F
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Finding our way   7/18/2006

A word to the seekers; find local clubs and organizations, even if local means a 2-3 hour drive away. Meet real time, active people who are inclusive and love to share their experiences. You'll find they don't have much time to spend on line. People who will welcome you. Get to know those who would gain pleasure in seeing you develop your potential. Your growth doesn't threaten ...


2 Comments, 158 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
petercockright 78 M
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SOUL MATE SILLYNESS   7/9/2006

SOULMATE SILLINESS
Another butt bubble from the “What the Fuck Files”
What is it about some women who have this notion they can advertise for their soul mate? Hand over that menu of men. I want to order my Soul Mate. Surrender to me, I want you. It essentially reads like this.
“No one night stands. I’m looking for a LTR, my soul mate, my best friend, a good ...


4 Comments, 506 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Slave_Trainer_FL
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So you think you want to become a Dom hmmmm?   7/5/2006

You've thought about it, you've fantasized about it, and you've decided that it's for you. All well and good. Now to take the theory into practice. There's a distance between wanting to be a dom and being a dom, though, and it pays to be aware that there's more involved than you might think.
How hard can it be?
Trickier than it sounds. There's ...


0 Comments, 70 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
submarinar 65 M
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Nothing new...forever?   6/30/2006

This is addressed to the morons running this site...WHAT THE PHUCK IS GOING ON, anyway? You list new articles in the rants column ( the number listed has grown by more than 10 in the past two weeks), but none show up when I go to read them! Only the same things that's been there for the last two weeks, with the origin date changed! I submitted two of those articles, and I know damn well it ...


3 Comments, 134 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
petercockright 78 M
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From the "What the Fuck Files"   6/26/2006

Here’s another one from the “What the fuck files.”
You’re trolling through the profiles and you come across one that sounds nails on perfect for you. Right age, gender, close in distance, similar likes, and no disqualifiers. Perfect. Their profile reads like something you might have written.
So you write a nice letter, informational, polite, addresses the issue ...


5 Comments, 184 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
IMLadyBecca 73 F
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Infantilism   6/22/2006

A subject most often misunderstood, infantilism has nothing to do with abuse or erotic fantasies about . People want to revisit their childhood for various reasons including the warm, fuzzy feeling it gives them to an actual thrill at the thought of wearing and wetting diapers. Just another fetish, it is no more repugnant than the fetish of dominating another, the feel of latex on one's ...


4 Comments, 334 Views, 15 Votes ,6.65 Score
BIGGIEJ60 45 M
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Is bigger better or is it the mostion in the ocean   6/18/2006

So really is bigger better


7 Comments, 219 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
whitejasmine1 56 F
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Manhood on display!   6/18/2006

Hi E/everyone, Id really like to know why men feel the need to put pictures of their penises on their profiles. Do women actually find this a turn on??? I for one am really not interested what it looks like or how big it is. I enjoy chatting to people and gaining knowledge and opinions on the lifestyle but have to say if anyone contacts me flashing it all off, i just ignore them. ...


24 Comments, 741 Views, 47 Votes ,7.04 Score
mandy939 47 F
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Men are Perverts.   6/16/2006

All men are perverts. Men are born perverts. They live as perverts. And men die as perverts. Men like thinking about sports, porn and cooked animals. Sick whacko men stuff.
Religious men. Priests. Ministers. Pastors. The phony GOP religious right. Senator Sam "The Idiot" Brownback, who is running for president! These are criminals. Criminal Perverts. They hide behind their phony ...


27 Comments, 543 Views, 9 Votes
slaveboytoy25 44 M
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pic swapping   6/14/2006

I absolutely hate it when someone says i will not send you a pic until you send me one, like its my responsibility to send a pic first, fuck that send them at the same time and quit pissing around that really makes me mad.


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purgatory666 53 C
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ostracize me   6/14/2006

I don’t expect anything different then the group to ostracize me With there hate for my past indiscretions . I understand that to you I am the joke. But this is not for me ! My wife is living in hopes and wanting this lifestyle Back in to her life .One which I never new she was Evan intersected in, or have been part of. So I will hang in purgatory and see her needs are meet. ...


1 Comments, 92 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
purgatory666 53 C
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what do you think?   6/9/2006

yes i love the lifestyle and yes i am always trying to being my self up to a higher and better way of life and i do respect life and rules but i think it should be left up to the ones that are playing to gather on what fits them and not by the masses to rule over them for each one walks a different path in life. as for me i would Rather be a leader then a sheep a person not someone that ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
submarinar 65 M
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marinar the matchmaker   5/17/2006

Poor Stink4...all the men want the attractive women, and not him. And he hates the women for that...Oh, how he hates them!
But what to do? Of course! Steal their pictures and use them to set up fake profiles! Embarrass, harrass, and stalk them until he can drive them away! Then maybe all the men will want him....
Sorry to have to break the news to you, Stink, but no real ...


18 Comments, 601 Views, 11 Votes ,0.74 Score
submarinar 65 M
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The perfect solution!   5/11/2006

Of course! How could I have been so dumb? When I think of all the money I've spent on diabeties medications...all for nothing! All this time, all I had to do was ignore it, and it would have gone away! And here I was watching my diet, excersing, and taking shots and pills. Sticking my finger twice a day to check my blood sugar! What an idiot I am! But...that's what I was doing before I ...


4 Comments, 146 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
rod4u69 54 M
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Liar, Liar, Pants on Fire   5/11/2006

Lets hear your thoughs on why people lie about their personal info, age, weight, height, etc...


6 Comments, 220 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
talendar 60 M
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Women from third world countries   4/27/2006

Has anyone noticed the abundance of women from the third world countries on this site that are only looking for a meal ticket and visa. I am a Gold member and it seems that I have become a magnet for these types of women. The only thing that they seem to be interested in is the size of my bank account. I get emails from women about visiting them in their homelands and living with them for a ...


2 Comments, 133 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
mandy939 47 F
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rave for laughter!   4/16/2006

You must go to twinpeaksbob24 profile and read his blogs. What a pretentious fool. I thought it was just the blog "Troll Baiting"(3/29) BUT the ones before that are funny too. "Ode to..." Oh My God. What an idiot. Hilarious! Just try it.


9 Comments, 262 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
fiestyfi 42 F
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Photo's of men on here...   4/9/2006

What is it with men posting photo's up of their cocks?
Firstly do they think that submissive women are just obsessed by cocks, and nothing else! Because guys I have news for you I'm not motivated by cocks, or dicks, or willy's or whatever ever else you want to call them. They are not the be all and end all of what motivates a woman or a submissive. They don't turn us on when ...


3 Comments, 251 Views, 5 Votes ,5.43 Score
renee_holiday200 66 F
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Married Men Get A Life   4/9/2006

D/s is supposed to be about trust. Why then is there so many of You men/Doms that dont be honest about Your marriage and even if You are honest with me how can You be belived and trusted if You cheat on Your life long mate?
I am almost devistaded by one of You. And the rest of You seem to find me and lie to me too.


3 Comments, 107 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
mandy939 47 F
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katie couric   4/8/2006

I can't wait till september 06 katie couric is going to be the greatest network news person this country has ever seen. better that murrow. better that cronkite. better that all the gray haired old men. katie couric is perky with a hot little body. so what. she is a great news person. she covered defense for two years. she is smart and experienced.
every morning i imagine mashing ...


0 Comments, 64 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
submarinar 65 M
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ALT's failure to act   4/7/2006

Alt could take action against the person who is stealing pics and making multiple profiles to attack people and hoard points. It just doesn't want to. Seems they prefer to give points for useless post like "la dee da dee da" than to serious lifestylers. Seems like they prefer to disrepect long time members to protect the " millions of members " claims. And it seems they prefer psychotic, ...


2 Comments, 178 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score