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tndrntru_spirit 65 F
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lets get real   11/28/2004

People when posting a story that is to be continued please give more than just two paragraphs. When i read a story i want to have to take more than 3 minutes to read it. I look for substance not just a brief discription. The bits and pieces here of late leave a lot to be desired. Content is very important specially in erotic material. I am highly disapointed in the latest submissions ...


1 Comments, 47 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
Armstrong2 78 M
6 Articles
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Who's on first?   11/28/2004

Who's on first? <br> I noticed that whenever I look at "Who's Currently Online", several people who match my Love Settings (?) search are always online; that is, always online whenever I use the alt.com inquiry. <br> Now I must say that I find this mighty suspicious, expecially since none of them is ever in a chat room. Can it be that so many people matching my ...


2 Comments, 53 Views, 8 Votes ,5.80 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
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Men Will Be Men?   11/27/2004

I just read a comment from a male in response to an article I wrote regarding sex minus strings. He wrote to say that men will be men and that casual sex was what men sought while women sought involvement. I think the day of the men will be men mentality has come and gone. Many men of today are in touch with their feelings are seeking more than just sexual gratification. To suggest ...


5 Comments, 67 Views, 23 Votes ,6.28 Score
hislittlegirl22 59 F
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Gonna do it MY way.   11/26/2004

yes that is a pretty bold statement from a slave, but i have come to the fork in the road and have made up my mind. in the past when i have found a person who i had much in common with and things were getting to the point of meeting i would make my profile non searchable out of respect, thats just the way i am and not ashamed about it. well now that i have "run" smack into another wanna be ...


1 Comments, 39 Views, 11 Votes ,5.78 Score
MzDarkAngel 108 F
5 Articles
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I Just Had To Say This!!!!!!   11/23/2004

I HATE The Fakes, Wannabes, Liars, Cheaters, And The Net Games!!!!! <br> Wow That Felt Good!!!! <br> I Can Get Through My Day Now...So We Can Start All Over Again!!! <br> Im Glad Winter Is Coming...I Went Through Soooo Many Net Weed Whackers This Past Summer.... <br> Now I Must Invest In The Net Plow Trucks!!! <br> Have A Great Day ...


1 Comments, 53 Views, 10 Votes ,5.77 Score
sexyblkdomme 46 F
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Why   11/19/2004

Im a Nubian Queen and i Love the fact that i am , Ive stated who i am and what im Looking for on this SITE yet im Amazed at all the responses ive gotten from MALE DOMS <br> I dont know if they are just dont right rude or they must be trying to Prove something to themselves what ever the Case maybe , I wouldnt be sad if i never get another email or PM from a MALE DOM ...


0 Comments, 61 Views, 23 Votes ,6.28 Score
NaugtyLttlVixen 53 F
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A lot of psychos on these sites who can't take no for an answer   11/19/2004

Below is the email that I received from one such psycho when I asked him to send me a picture: There was nothing about you in your profile, nor your email to me.....tell me about yourself, and send me a picture so that we can continue. I am very real..all of me, nothing is a pretense, and I prefer to know the same of those with whom I would converse on these sites. > > I'll await ...


0 Comments, 74 Views, 62 Votes ,8.94 Score
hedonslave 62 M
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Why are you here?   11/11/2004

Silly question really, this is an alternate life style site. Why then is it that the information i.e; likes and dislikes, sexual preferences, required attributes and so on, doesn't reflect the reality of what that person really wants? <br> Is there a need perhaps for an underground site that only genuine people who are involved in whatever, can access through the underground. ...


1 Comments, 29 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
S_she_S 54 F
36 Articles
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Just a thought   11/11/2004

I'm sitting here, conversing with many within this "lifestyle" and the same thing keeps popping up over and over and over. Ok well aside from the ever present cock hehehe But seriously; The lack...Of Community. THere once was a time when subs called and meant the wird...sister, or brother. There are still a few like this but not as many. When did it become a competitive sport? What ...


2 Comments, 75 Views, 18 Votes ,7.08 Score
DicknTheDog 56 M
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Friend list being totally destroyed when the site denies a profile!   11/2/2004

i just updated my profile to let everyone know that i'm now owned. It was denied for some reason. That doesn't bother me so much. But why do they have to completely delete my entire friend's list that consisted of over 80 people? Some who i chat with continuously and other off and on. Now i'll have to reinvite every single one of them again. How bogus!


1 Comments, 65 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
67 Articles
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Re: No luck as a standard member.   10/31/2004

While Alt is a free service, they also have paying memberships to sustain the service. This website is a business and like any other business has overhead. If paying members didn't exist, the site and all it offers wouldn't. I was a standard member on alt for close to a year before I decided that the price of going out to dinner and to a movie was something I could sacrifice one month out ...


2 Comments, 59 Views, 18 Votes ,4.76 Score
dreamy_one 57 F
3 Articles
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Prefer not to say....   10/29/2004

Here is a hint for all you people who "Prefer not to say" what your status is. Without this info, not many are going to contact you. Look at it this way - by saying 'Prefer not to say' about anything except religion or politics, is showing a distinct inability to communicate, and a real preference for hiding the truth! Who wants or needs someone like that? Another note - when you ...


1 Comments, 14 Views, 34 Votes ,7.82 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
67 Articles
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Re: Before you declare yourself "submissive"...   10/25/2004

The author who wrote this piece evidently doesn't comprehend that a submissive and slave are not the same. He wrote that slaves have no rights and that a submissive is a slave. Not so. He also came across as petulant, arrogant, and demanding. A "Master" earns the respect and trust of a submissive or slave. To gain this he needs to be emotionally grounded himself and not ego run. To say that ...


2 Comments, 55 Views, 19 Votes ,6.16 Score
Miss_Coco30 50 F
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Hopefully this will resolve some concerns for us members   10/25/2004

As with any personal ad site, when you send a message to someone, you have to expect that sometimes you may not get a reply. There are various reasons for the non-reply: -Member doesn’t wish to reply because of lack of compatibility; Member makes the determination by either seeing the sender’s info next to the message header or viewing the profile, and ascertains whether or not there ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 8 Votes ,5.56 Score
cateyes2004 69 F
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Hard Limits, a submissive's right   10/19/2004

I grow weary of defending my hard limits. Every time I read an article or hear a Dom/me expound on the belief that a submissive person should allow the Dom/me to 'help' with these limits, my anger flares. I have yet to read an article by a Dom/me declaring that they should work on expanding experiences that they have no interest in! <br> Some Dominants believe that they are ...


1 Comments, 79 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
spanksnkisses 87 M
6 Articles
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Re: Replying to messages   10/18/2004

I totally agree with the articles written about the lack of manners of some female members who receive messages and don't respond to them. I know that women get a lot more messages than the men do, but the fact that they do have an Ad in the system, as long as it's an 'active' one (which we all know are in the minority, especially among standard members), they should show some common ...


0 Comments, 36 Views, 17 Votes ,3.55 Score
PASilverTop2 75 M
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Re: Response to Who's Running This Asylum...   10/15/2004

1-The article is properly placed and is exactly where it should be. 2-Don't try to force your judgemental crap on me. I'll decide where to put my articles. If the placement bothers you, don't read them. 3-Try to advance your reading level above the comic book stage. If you have trouble with the length of the article, try taking it one word at a time.


0 Comments, 59 Views, 11 Votes ,5.78 Score
Cocosilk69 50 F
6 Articles
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RE: RACISM???   10/15/2004

As an African-American female who have frequented this site, as well as other venues, I can say that there are a good number of Caucasian males who are interested in African-American females. I have had no problem finding tpatient to take the time and find them. hem. You just have to be


0 Comments, 59 Views, 15 Votes ,6.81 Score
Cocosilk69 50 F
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Re: INCONSIDERATE PEOPLE   10/15/2004

As with any personal ad site, when you send an inquiry to someone, you have to expect that sometimes you may not get a reply. There are various reasons for the non-reply: <br> Ø Member doesn’t wish to reply because of not being interested in responding; Ø Member doesn’t frequent the site enough than most members to view messages/winks, thus taking longer than most members ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 11 Votes ,6.72 Score