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bimbo4bosses 100 F
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starting a conversation with "Hey".....   7/22/2019

Guess i'm in a bitchy mood today...but guys, please...think about what you say to any of us chicks online...even the bimbo sluts like me... i had this guy start our conversation by giving me his "3 rules for sluts"...no condoms, no birth control and sex while ovulating...i asked if he was prepared to pay for medical expenses and support his if his slut got pregnant...he gave some sideways answer ...


10 Comments, 260 Views, 30 Votes ,6.28 Score
Daddy2FuckUUp 64 M
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Missing points   7/19/2019

Why is it half of the meagre promised points for activities never seem to be credited? They never seem to fail to be deducted even from unsuccessful chats etc.


1 Comments, 17 Views, 8 Votes ,5.80 Score
nylongurl 73 T
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Paging on IM   5/17/2019

Maybe it is just me but I would like to see if anyone else has this problem. Now I must explain I have an older computer (thinking of upgrading or replacing) but it works well and has good speed. I have a broadband ISP. I use my computer for many of my activities and managing alot of my personal business. I get people on Alt paging me on IM and by the time I can accept and the chatroom ...


2 Comments, 168 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
FlipNfill 61 F
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Email undeliverable?   5/17/2019

I received a mail from Alt.com in my inbox re: undeliverable mail. Here is what it said: <br> <br> Dear , Because of apparent email problems (either a bad address or a full mailbox), delivery to the following recipients failed. <br> <br> We suggest double-checking your email address and re-sending the invitation. <br> Thank you ...


1 Comments, 115 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
plsdoit 47 M
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Did ALT die?   3/22/2019

The past few days when I have logged in, there seem to be only a handful of people online anymore and most of them are fake accounts. <br><br> Did ALT die but it somehow still lets me login to see it?


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mOng0 73 M
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is it just me or is alt.com a bit picky when it comes to pics?   10/29/2018

am I the only one having problems getting these people to accept a pic? it simply keeps being rejected no matter what I do to comply with the "rules" no specifics about why even after an email with a query as to why. it was just a touch over the allowed 50 k (55 to be axact) so I made it smaller and still it is rejected. I asked them is the fact I have a cigar in my hand the problem to no ...


1 Comments, 34 Views, 27 Votes ,7.55 Score
Zeus2512 71 M
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Desperates   9/22/2018

Having been chatting to a few of the girls (ladies) on here and elsewhere, there seems to be a trend for them to start using the term "Desperates". What is a "Desperate"? Normally a male who is in that much of a hurry to get his leg over that any female he sees is fair game, and start hounding her without reading her profile. It is even worse if the girls go on cam. ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
Kissed35 55 F
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Responding to Drivel   9/9/2018

I enjoy the magazine section, I like to people watch, I find it to be entertaining and, at times enlightening. <br> Then a moron is a moron and a stupid question is just that -- stupid. Sometimes it takes some willpower for me to not reply occasionally with a "You're a dumbass, asking doofy, meaningless, questions" Sign off - Thanks. <br> I realize this would only be ...


9 Comments, 366 Views, 15 Votes ,4.97 Score
rik2066 57 M
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points   9/9/2018

Do you actually get points when you comment and vote , as I don't seem to be getting any or the right amount to what I have done. Has anyone else had same problem?


2 Comments, 19 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
MastROfPupets 56 C
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How is it fair to take a point from both sender and receiver in ALT IMC?   9/5/2018

How is it fair to take a point from both sender and receiver in ALT IMC?

I think this current policy on ALT sucks.

Especially when you only get 5 messages per day.

What other long term standard members thinks this stinks?


3 Comments, 15 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
LilyVixxen 28 F
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Is this General Advice? Or a rant and rave? You tell me.   9/4/2018

Don't contact a Domme without the proper respect. Don't contact a Mistress without respect. Actually, maybe don't contact anyone disrespectfully. This community already receives a lot of trash from people, we do not need people in the community doing it too. You can be polite and get your point across. It is online, say anything you want but don't be awful to people. It really ...


3 Comments, 22 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
BigGA83 54 M
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No One Looking For Real Anymore ?   7/14/2018

You starting talking to someone, thinking your getting along well. Starting to see an interest in the same things. After talking for awhile they stop answering you. If you see them a couple days later or longer, they wont acknowledge you. There are some good people here, seems to many just want cyber play


1 Comments, 30 Views, 13 Votes ,5.83 Score
BBCBully1 54 M
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Nosey Neighbors   7/14/2018

On this site's sister site, I opened up an account, and got a message from a 52 y.o. woman who says that she's want to meet me, and talk. Well, 2 weeks later nothing. Now, here I am trying to talk to another girl to get my kink on, and I see a woman looking at me, and just to find out that the 52 y.o. lives across the street, and found out that she was watching my every move since I sent ...


1 Comments, 36 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
xtra00 46 M
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Confirmed Accounts   4/24/2018

Anyone else notice that confirmed accounts means it is confirmed that it is spam? I mean it is a nice warning but a bit ironic.


1 Comments, 5 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
bootlckboy39 50 M
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Artful Pics   4/14/2018

Some ladies have posted very artful pictures here. Look into posting on art galleries and many thanks


3 Comments, 28 Views, 13 Votes ,3.48 Score
bootlckboy39 50 M
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Should   3/26/2018

Should points be deducted if nothing happens? If you use a point and then nothing happens it seems something was taken without return. Especially if points are exchange of things, someone should be more careful. Or listen to comments before complaints roll in.


10 Comments, 41 Views, 14 Votes ,6.34 Score
lovlylatina 56 F
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Older women and younger men   3/1/2018

This is for those you under 45 please respect if a lady says she is not into younger men. No amount of cajoling is going to change that. Your response of but I am mature for my age, I can go all night or are you for real? are not wanted and just demonstrate your lack of maturity. I am sure there are many who are mature but not interested means just that, respect it. There are plenty of women who ...


2 Comments, 35 Views, 15 Votes ,6.19 Score
Afficere 46 M
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Realtionship status   1/16/2018

Not sure if something like this got put up. I am getting annoyed in females saying they single but have a Master/Dom. Like they do it not realize they are in a relationship. Does that mean they will cheat on their Master or Dom since they put down "single" and not "partnered". Other site I am on, they come right and say they are partnered or looking for new friends or if you ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
Slave_Trainer_FL
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Angry PAYING Member, HOW do you feel   12/14/2017

*** I KNOW I AM NOT ALONE ADD YOUR COMMENTS ***
A vent from an angry member.
To the Executive Staff of Various, Inc,
I do not know why you are trashing your own website.. Many people I know are leaving because the site is becoming like Adult FriendFinder, your OTHER site.. BDSM is not about SEX, it never will be the MAIN focal point. ...


4 Comments, 327 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
buttlacky 76 M
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Polite Reply   11/5/2017

Why is it that a reply to a page or message is not done by many people. We all know that common courtesy desirable even if it does not contain the desired response.


2 Comments, 43 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
MastROfPupets 56 C
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The point system is broken.   7/10/2017

Many times you can vote or post and get no points.

The system to earn points is broken and so is the system to use them.

It is a stupid system in IMC that if somebody messages you that you cannot even reply to them if you have no points.

How many ways to you want to make it difficult for genuine seeking singles to communicate?


1 Comments, 11 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
slv4bbw 63 M
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A category just for female DOMINATION articles!!!   5/3/2017

I'm only interest in articles dealing with female domination. Scanning the categories it's hard to pick out those articles regarding female domination. I believe believe DOMMIES, MISTRESSES, GODDESSES AND SUCH DESERVE THEIR OWN CATEGORY, AFTER ALL A DOMINATE FEMALE IS THE SUPERIOR SPECIES ON THIS PLANET. PLEASE CONSIDER THIS REQUEST.

slv4bbw


3 Comments, 87 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
slv4wn 58 M
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A Dominant woman   10/18/2016

What I find most attractive about a Dominant woman is not her beauty or size but if she's comfortable and confident in her own skin. Also the right scent will bring me quickly to my knees.

What do you think.


5 Comments, 41 Views, 6 Votes ,5.64 Score
DecibelRating 108 M
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"Top Fan" claims not delivering   10/10/2016

ALT states that, once someone is a Top Fan, they will have the ability to message between Fan & Fanned.

As I click to message one of those who I've fanned, I get the message "Upgrade To Gold To Message This User".

So what the actual fuck ALT? Was this whole thing bullshit?

Man.... this place... I've gotta just walk away from here..


0 Comments, 12 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
slv4wn 58 M
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Would a Domme or Goddess be offend by this e-mail I sent?   4/3/2016

Goddess if I may call you that or would you prefer MsKathy? I neglected before to tell you what I liked about your profile. I like the fact your comfortable and confident in your own skin, as you should be, towards the top of my list. That your not willing to take any sub/slave, that your willing to wait till one comes to you on your terms not his terms.

A sub/slave should come to you on ...


4 Comments, 90 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
slv4wn 58 M
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A section for articles on Female domination.   1/4/2016

I'm only interested in reading articles about female Domination.Going thru the magazine section by section in can be difficult and frustrating trying to find these articles. Alt should have a section devoted to articles about Female domination and the women who inspire them.

After all Women are the Superior beings of our species and deserve a section devoted to them.


2 Comments, 47 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
buttlacky 76 M
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To standard members   6/17/2015

Caution in collection of points.....ALT does not always honor their points policies. And won't answer email either.


0 Comments, 37 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
T_Byrd 58 M
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So just how open minded are we, you.   5/21/2015

Hi all, so how open minded are we. I am not talking about thoughts or dreams. we should all know by now as a adult quick sudden thoughts are under pressure, heat of the moment in a situation where some one strange on the street yells out some thing at whatever, a lamp post or person we at best think god nuts, and hell we have no idea as to rather they are or are not. So just not even rather we ...


1 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
T_Byrd 58 M
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Rope work in now a days fast lane world is there time for rope work or do you perfer quick and fast?   9/2/2014

Well I am basically wanting to write about what people think and like to use or have used to bound people with and or have used on them. With the fast lane life every one now lives, does any one even have the time for rope work, or has the pace of life made it easier to just use leather restraints and hence BDSM gear sites and or stores super profit's. So how many people still do and or practice ...


2 Comments, 75 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
aurora2005 55 F
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Safe in a Vaccum   8/5/2014

I have recently let my membership lapse from a paid level to a standard one, because honestly, I wasn't having much luck, and I could think of other things I could spend my money on.

But I have received some emails from members, people whom I would love to at least see their profile before making a judgement call as to whether or not we would be a match. However, as a Standard Member, I ...


4 Comments, 75 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score