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kmasteraus 51 M
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How to tell   10/24/2012

I am interested in finding out how people go about - not only finiding out if people are safe, but if they are real / genuine.

The reason I ask is because going back a few years now, I was lucky enough to meet with 2 different people from alt (within the space of 1 month). One of them was everything that she said she was.

Now both of these girls before we met: - talked to me ...


2 Comments, 233 Views, 12 Votes ,5.45 Score
bdsm_122_6634 43 M
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Advice for safe sex   5/28/2012

This article is about safe sex practice.


1 Comments, 133 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
wolverine91183 43 M
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Is safe to smooch a partner with Aids?   11/22/2011

is it safe to smooch a partner who is HIV+?


1 Comments, 130 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
hotstuffoya 51 M
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condom stuck in her ass   12/10/2010

We were having anal sex last nite, on occasions we use condoms, more for hygene than anything else. During all the play- the condom came off, and it seems as though I pushed it up her rectum, as we cant retrive it.

To make matters worse- my gf suffers constipation, and it seems as though, nothing is moving down. We have both, investigated to feel for the condom, but cant feel anything. ...


4 Comments, 351 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
bdsm_629_2194 42 M
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Advice for safe sex   9/27/2010

This article is about safe sex practice.


0 Comments, 116 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
akfu 46 M
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STD from getting a BJ?   9/18/2009

I see a lot of stuff asking about can I catch something from sucking a dick and it seems clear that it is at least possible, depending on what disease we are talking about.

How about the recipeient getting somethig? It seems likely you could catch something like herpes from receiving a BJ?

Anyone have any knowledge or experience with this?


1 Comments, 322 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
hasnoalias 41 M
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How do I prepare myself for receiving anal sex   9/5/2009

I am in the process of having some great anal sex. And I need to know how I should prepare. I have never done this with another person, just solo (butt plugs and a few dildos). I keep myself shavn smooth, but I want this to be really great, and not nasty. How should I best prepare?


1 Comments, 290 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
MASTERTW1STED 51 M
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A Fist Full Made Easy   8/22/2009

A wise Master will always know what turns on his slave/slut/ or pet. A slave will always love her pussy (and other holes ...smiles), being used well by her Master. Nothing is a bigger turn-on for a than a good size dick that knows how to make her cunt squirt. Although deep penetration can be established in other ways if you’re kinky/twisted enough.. Hearing the word FISTING could make most ...


3 Comments, 495 Views, 24 Votes ,6.65 Score
ThugMistress 42 F
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rubbers   6/18/2009

use 3


2 Comments, 135 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
greenman0000 43 M
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condom   6/18/2009

How do you fill about whereing them.


1 Comments, 199 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Princess_S 60 F
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SAFE SEX????? how many do you notice tick YES~!   6/18/2009

but their photos have picks of them either fucking or being fucked and no sign at ALL of condoms......I check out pics with this in mind and to be honest I am STUNNED by how many people here claim to be using Safe sex but have their uncovered cocks in pussy and arse without any covering up......and my basis is I will not date or meet someone who has such a shot now..... I have recently started ...


10 Comments, 323 Views, 26 Votes ,6.37 Score
rados43 39 M
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condoms   12/3/2008

are a must, i think you can stop wearing them once you have developed a long term relationship


0 Comments, 65 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
bdsm_maadi 48 M
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safe sex   10/22/2008

for a country in the middle east u have to care about reputation , for that reason try to have additional mobile card to be used to avoid any headace


1 Comments, 89 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
patch04 74 M
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Condoms   10/21/2008

Make sure you have condoms available if you are going to screw around. You cannot afford to bring anything home to momma. Fuck all you want, but be careful!


3 Comments, 337 Views, 11 Votes ,5.22 Score
BoyC 42 M
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the conga line   7/24/2008

a conga line of people doing it doggie style would be so freakin' sexy


1 Comments, 128 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
n3vik 39 M
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BJ with condoms   7/24/2008

Safe sex would be to use one... But how many actally do?


8 Comments, 248 Views, 12 Votes ,4.04 Score
jillyshub 57 T
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Help & Advice Needed: Bi Blowing   2/24/2008

Q1: Is there any way of giving a guy a blow-job safely without using a condom? <br> Dumb question 2: My fantasy is to swallow a hot load. Is there any way of doing this and not seriously risk getting a STD? <br> <br> I'd be very grateful on any help and advice you can offer. <br> <br> ta. <br> J.x.


8 Comments, 1597 Views, 29 Votes ,4.04 Score
dennysubm 78 M
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Butt Plug's CAN go all the way in!   12/13/2007

Be careful when playing with butt plugs! Even tho they have a large "flange" to prevent them from slipping up, into your anal passage,it can happen. It happened to me a year ago! The unexpected trip to the ER was not pleasant--and while humiliation is a nice part of BDSM, explaining my problem to the nurse at the ER was definitely NOT easy. She had trouble controlling her urge to laugh. They ...


0 Comments, 103 Views, 87 Votes ,9.11 Score
slave_gayle_4u 46 T
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Can you catch any STDs from sperm that has been stored outside the body for some time?   12/7/2007

Sperm can carry HIV and other diseases so it is of course possible to transmit STDs during oral sex. But I think I read somewhere that once the sperm leaves the body the HIV virus dies almost instantly. Is that true for other communicable diseases?

What I am wondering is if someone (or many men) cum into a glass and I slurp it all down after say an hour or two - would that be totally ...


2 Comments, 133 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Pan777 40 M
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large anal insertions   10/27/2007

This is a subject I've found very little on but I think is very worthy of attention. I've read doctors conflict each other from statements concerning fisting "if done carefully you should have no problems, do kegel afterward" to don't be surprised if you end up in diapers. I myself am no stranger to large objects (though not as big as a fist) at at one point I began to have problems. I've never ...


2 Comments, 315 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
Maestro05 49 M
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Humbling, psychological and verbal domination   9/16/2007

Humbling: To reduce someone in status. To punish the ego, and to open the heart. To create humility, acceptance of externally provided edict, to put your trust in something outside you, bigger, higher, wiser. The intent is not to grind down or crush, any more than you would do a flogging scene. The goal is not to create damage but a delicious, exposed humility, a sense of frailty, ...


2 Comments, 720 Views, 43 Votes ,7.09 Score
slaveboytoy25 44 M
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female condom   8/10/2007

Just curious, but i believe that when a man is going to recieve anal sex a very good alternative would be the female condom, this way the giving male or female, could pull out of the ass and put it in his mouth much cleaner than with a traditional condom


3 Comments, 345 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
9inchblackhorse 41 M
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is it safe   8/10/2007

i just wanna know if licking a women's pussy and her arse is safe and is away from any health problems...
And also can i make a women orgasm by just licking her pussy and is it safe to drink her cum.... Because i always fantasise about doing it...


3 Comments, 368 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
sweetheart77 49 F
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Anal Sex   8/9/2007

i have a problem putting in butt plugs. They seem to hurt, but yet they feel so amazing when they are inside. How long does it take for a butt to stretch, and if it does stretch does it go back to being tight?


13 Comments, 1919 Views, 42 Votes ,4.47 Score
JRiteinDenton2 39 M
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Unprotected Sex   7/25/2007

how many of you girls don't mind it? and if you have alot of unprotected sex, how often do u think about the risks?
iono, just something that was on my mind....


4 Comments, 258 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
Maestro05 49 M
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AN INTRO TO FLOGGING   6/12/2007

AN INTRODUCTION TO FLOGGING Section 1: Disclaimer
This document contains sexually explicit information for the benefit of adults. It is provided for informational purposes only. The authors are not responsible for any injuries or damages associated with the techniques described in this document, and do not guarantee the accuracy of this document.
Section 2: Assumptions ...


2 Comments, 409 Views, 16 Votes ,6.51 Score
ladytegan 48 F
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Safe Sex   5/21/2007

Safe sex, why is it that doesn't seem to be practiced anymore? You find dominants, and submissive who balk at the idea of wanting actual proof that they are clean. Trust is one thing.... but with everything these days... I can't see how we can just trust word of mouth anymore.


1 Comments, 159 Views, 23 Votes ,6.63 Score
sweetdreamK 66 F
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well 99% man don't wear condom   5/12/2007

I have found lost of men like to have sex with out condoms and you don't know if a man has just had sex with another woman or man. Then find out you have a STD or AIDS> How can I get a message across to all


0 Comments, 158 Views, 66 Votes ,8.61 Score
mastercharlesiw 74 M
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S S & C   4/3/2007

What ever has happened to Safe Sane and Consensual, in the last week I have had three so called Masters contact me asking to tain their wifes as subs. When asked if the wife agreed they were took back and said she knows nothing of this yet, one even said, we could meet then when she had a few drinks, i could do what i liked with her. Do some people not realise that submission is a gift ...


2 Comments, 214 Views, 14 Votes ,6.18 Score
Eternal_Master 41 M
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Safe play   3/13/2007

Can anyone suggest sources where I can read more on playing safe while practicing S&M? Thanks...


2 Comments, 283 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score