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happyguy69692 44 M
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how like enema bag ?   2/12/2007

how many man and woman use the enema bag to clean his and her ass before to have it in the ass ?
Me I used it every time


2 Comments, 360 Views, 9 Votes ,5.35 Score
sylknleather1 61 F
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Safe Fellatio...yes it can be a downer but.... Pt. 1   2/9/2007

Old school cock suckers know the best blow jobs consist of flavors and aromas. When you eliminate taste half the joy is gone.
How does one retain the sensual aspect of the act when trying to practice safe sex? This was the hardest thing to learn and to commit to.
The process should be slow and methodical. When engaging the new penis, talk to the man assess his likes and ...


1 Comments, 290 Views, 16 Votes ,3.86 Score
dom153 75 M
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insisting on safe sex   2/1/2007

When you meet a new partner how many of you stick to safe sex or do you play it by ear and only protect yourself if they ask you to


4 Comments, 164 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
69inmymouth69 72 M
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I love a woman to pee in my mouth.   10/18/2006

With AIDS a reality we must all be aware of, both regard to being infected, or infecting others, I am in the dark (actually, I prefer it with the lights on) when it comes to the dangers of ingesting the piss of another. In normal, healthy circumstances, urine leaves the body in a sterile state. But AIDS is transmitted via blood products. Is there a medically informed person out there who ...


1 Comments, 220 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
SubKrystinka 45 F
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here's what you do:   9/8/2006

Get ready. Make sure your condoms are fresh -- check the expiration date. Throw away condoms that have expired, been very hot, carried around in your wallet, or washed in the washer. If you think the condom might not be good, get a new one. You and your partner are worth it.
That dick has to be hard before you put a condom on it.
Open it. Tear open the package carefully, so ...


1 Comments, 205 Views, 12 Votes ,5.27 Score
PlusSizeWoman4U 48 F
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Safer Oral sex with women   9/8/2006

You can get HIV and STDs even if you're not having intercourse. It can't hurt to cover all the bases -- with latex, that is! <br> <br> plastic wrap <br> <br> If you're going to be licking your partner's vulva and clit (eating out), use a piece of plastic wrap to be safe. Yes! All you need is some glad-wrap, or a condom cut down the side and ...


0 Comments, 59 Views, 120 Votes ,7.58 Score
Trikester18 35 M
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Strip Clubs in Mexico   9/1/2006

How many of you think that strip clubs in mexico are safe considering they have to be tested every 2 months for effections and stuff? Even though it's an alarming to see how much stds are out there considering all the in mexico there is safe sex and places you can find that will be able to keep you safe as long as you use ur head and protect to urself plus make sure u read the clubs policy ...


0 Comments, 125 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
smalldong27 40 M
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anal   8/24/2006

Is anal sex safe with a big dick. Using a condom of course I just wondered if people ever got ripped


7 Comments, 578 Views, 15 Votes ,2.82 Score
bonkmaster8 45 M
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Why fear Pregnancy more than HIV-AIDS?   8/8/2006

I keep wondering why many babes fear pregnancy more than HIV-AIDS. I remember seeing a female sometime back who was more bothered with fear for getting pregnant but not having any trace of fear for the deadly disease. Is it because pregnancy shows up faster than AIDS?bonkmaster8...


3 Comments, 263 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
anytime00769 49 M
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woman of houston!   8/1/2006

cum and git me! just write and ill write back!


1 Comments, 91 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
siofuktina 60,1955 C
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My favourite taste   7/23/2006

My biggest problem with safe sex is that it spoils one of my favourite things to do witha woman. I love to go down on a woman after I have cum inside her. Either straight away or the following morning. The taste and texture of our mixed juices is such a turn on. Sadly nowadays i only get to do this with my regular partner.siofuktina...


2 Comments, 177 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
FrancesR 61 F
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What to do?   6/20/2006

What do you do if he is down to the short, fast and deep srokes and the rubber breaks. How do you stop him? This has happened to me and both times I got creamed. Please advise Thank you FrancesR


0 Comments, 362 Views, 19 Votes ,2.73 Score
pandoros 37 M
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First Time BDSM   6/15/2006

How Can You Teach a first timer at 19 years old about bdsm with out getting hurt since they dont know what they want


1 Comments, 258 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
ynghng_21 36 M
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When is Anal Appropriate?   5/28/2006

I put this article under the catagory "Safe Sex" because the question pretains to the mental aspect of anal sex. A good friend of mine recently informed me that her younger sister had just lost her virginity the night befor at the age of 18. She told me that her sister was very excited when she spoke of it and even added the fact that they "did it" in three different positions. She ...


3 Comments, 979 Views, 34 Votes ,5.13 Score
IrishSwitch99 50 M
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Safe sex good to use or not   5/23/2006

In the heat of passion, is it ok to go ahead and take the risk or take the time to be safe. I am not sure why some people find it hard to talk about safe sex and if you practice or have you been tested. In the world we live in you must be safe because it is just not you that you are affecting. Yes I love to have sex with no protection it feels so much better, but I make sure I am with my ...


4 Comments, 140 Views, 24 Votes ,5.97 Score
ladytuaca 50 F
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i want to see written proof... is that asking too much?   5/23/2006

The time we live in is dangerous. Trusting someone new with my life is scary. i ask potential, male, sex partners for a their results from a PCR (a highly accurate HIV test) before the first time we have sex. <br> Guys that would otherwise be compatible are put off. They talk about using protection, but i feel that is not enough... for the first time together. i have had ...


1 Comments, 112 Views, 21 Votes ,6.96 Score
Trikester18 35 M
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Anal Sex   5/9/2006

Protection Protection Protection PROTECTION Always where a condom. Anal is the number one way of transmiting hiv. Use lots of lube and protect urself. DOnt be retarded make sure your well aware of the risks especially considering it's a place which is not meant to go in.


1 Comments, 183 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
plyphos 52 M
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AIDS   5/5/2006

As all of us know, AIDS is an incurable disease


1 Comments, 484 Views, 11 Votes ,1.86 Score
masterzad 40 M
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Yeah right   4/9/2006

The only safe sex is no sex. And noone does that, so therefor there is no such thing as safe sex


4 Comments, 145 Views, 6 Votes
ebonygoddess 49 T
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do you like it natural   4/9/2006

you know now days the concern of a condom doesnt seem to hold the same merit as it did in the 80's and 90's i personally like barebacking it i like knowing that the man im with is going to realease and bond with me kinda like mateing but should we or i be concerned?


2 Comments, 621 Views, 110 Votes ,4.72 Score
Moonrise9 71 M
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Be safe - no corn chips or tooth brushing 2 hours b4   3/16/2006

On a recent trip to test clean as usual for HIV, I learned something new. <br> The counselor said, 2 hours before any kind of oral contact with someone new, not to brush my teeth or eat corn chips(anything that might be sharp enough to make my mouth/gums bleed) as viruses (cold or others) and STD's can enter through these minor abrasions. <br> So I'm off to the drug ...


2 Comments, 422 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
prettysimon1111 40 M
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is it safe??   1/11/2006

"I know it is stupid but I love being fucked by ladyboys with no condoms on and then licking their cocks after they have fucked me. I long to be gang banged by a group of gay men and have the ..." this is what my fren told me


1 Comments, 487 Views, 14 Votes ,2.18 Score
SuperMandingo 39 M
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Safe sex is very important I hope everyone uses contraceptives   1/10/2006

Tony Newton, 39, a gay man from Middlesbrough who was diagnosed with HIV in 1998, said he was shocked at the widespread complacency among young gay men who have sex with strangers without using condoms. <br> "I think it is just sheer bloody-mindedness. They know the facts, they just don't care, " he said. <br> While HIV can be treated, it is still an incurable and ...


3 Comments, 206 Views, 10 Votes ,5.77 Score
fucknhorni 64 M
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IS there really such a thing ?   1/2/2006

i say "NO" even with the "rubber" or a cover over the womans pussi std, s can still pass thru i use rubbers as a form of BIRTH CONTROL only the only safe sex is masterbating /comments please


0 Comments, 218 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
holdntwitch 40 C
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Contraceptive Gels   1/1/2006

Does anyone use these regularly? My wife and I have a box of them, but have yet to really try them out. Are they messy, do they interfere with oral sex, is there any residues or anything? If anyone has some more information on this kind of birth control method we would like to hear about the Pros and Cons of using it.


3 Comments, 345 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
PlusSizeWoman4U 48 F
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Excuses! Excuses! "no glove no love"   12/27/2005

Excuses! Excuses! "no glove no love" <br> <br> Nobody has a body to die for. Safe sex is always better! It's fun, and you don't have to worry as much. Safe sex means making sure you don't get anyone else's blood, semen, vaginal fluids, or breast milk in your body -- and protecting your partners too! Condoms, latex surgical gloves, and plastic wrap are the only way to ...


2 Comments, 257 Views, 19 Votes ,5.89 Score
urgemeon 54 M
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Always keep a concious note in your mind!   12/22/2005

Hi Alt members The beauty of sex is something we beings sometimes take for granted.Until you hear of stories or a story of somebody coming in contact with the HIV virus.We then stop and think of it for a while and we're soon alerted that it has its flaws, so to speak. I have witnessed gay men on a down slide that have the virus and its not a pretty site, although these days it can be ...


1 Comments, 132 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
JTMRP2 54 M
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HOG-TIED CUTE   12/15/2005

If you have get the chance to work with a submissive type- you may want to try the classic bondage experience- The Hog-Tie. In this position the submissive lays on his or her stomach- face down and submits to your custody. You begin by bring the arms back behind the back.....and preparing to secure them.............usually this is accomplised by first tieing suitable bondage rope around one ...


1 Comments, 449 Views, 5 Votes
dynamitesneon 41 M
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Condom use   10/21/2005

We all know it feels much better without them. What condoms are the best feeling? I've had good results with trogan shared sensations and these imagine things or whatever they're called, with the shell design and the blue package... yeah I don't remember. Either way, anyone got tips?


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kharec 39 M
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How to stop anal breaks   10/21/2005

During my last sexual encounter I was having sex with a woman in her 40's. The problem was that the condom broke and We didn't even notice. This may apply to gay men as well. Well I came and she definately noticed the anal creampie I had left in her ass so she was pissed off. Neither of us had STDs so no harm no foul. But what if one of us had? Truth is condom ...


1 Comments, 539 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score