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Its a bit hard 9/23/2023
But Its hard for me to tell someone of the same sex I am not
interested because regardless I am a caring person so I
want to make sure I do not offend anyone. What's the
best advice for this?
2 Comments,
87 Views,
67 Votes
,0.30 Score
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Let's just say what we are thinking 11/20/2022
I know guilty of this as well times. But there
is nothing more frustrating than wasting my time on someone
who is stringing me along.
4 Comments,
110 Views,
74 Votes
,0.55 Score
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Just points to reply 11/20/2022
Just points to reply
3 Comments,
107 Views,
86 Votes
,0.80 Score
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Saying no in a nice way 11/20/2022
how do you usually say no to someone that you are not interested
in?
6 Comments,
134 Views,
92 Votes
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Let's just say what we are thinking 7/5/2022
I know guilty of this as well times. But there
is nothing more frustrating than wasting my time on someone
who is stringing me along.
2 Comments,
112 Views,
93 Votes
,0.55 Score
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To be, or not to be... 1/26/2022
I got a question. Tis it nobler or more appropriate to tell
someone their is no interest, perhaps with explanation
or to end in perpetual silence?
1 Comments,
39 Views,
28 Votes
,0.57 Score
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Anyone have any secrets they want to share? 1/26/2022
Anything taboo stories to get the convo going?
1 Comments,
52 Views,
47 Votes
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Not Interested 6/11/2020
What do you think is the best way to tell someone you're
not interested? Especially if it's someone that you
probably will see somewhere and don't want an awkward
situation?
15 Comments,
127 Views,
17 Votes
,4.40 Score
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Already had a problem 10/30/2019
I've been a member here less than 24hrs and I've
been extremely polite to each and every response I've
recieved yet one member asked for my YM ID after our first
email. I politely told him that I don't give out my YM
ID's (I leave them off my profile for a reason) as I've
had problems on another site in the past. He immediately
emailed me back and rudely informed me I must be of lower ...
11 Comments,
371 Views,
34 Votes
,6.92 Score
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Gay/Bi Men 8/5/2019
At what point to you get rude with the pushy gay men? i usually
just give a simple No Thanks.. But some just can't take
NO... I'm sure the women deal with this all the time.
Thanks
1 Comments,
58 Views,
18 Votes
,2.72 Score
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Polite rejection 8/5/2019
Have never suffered with too much ill feeling over being
rejected, although do how the arrogance of how some deliver
it. Currently if I want to tell someone they are not my type,
I have found that it softens it or puts it into perspective
to say that they are simply not my 'flavour'. Wondering
if that sounds crass? but it seems to make sense to me. Sound
like Volvo's some like Porches, some like ...
4 Comments,
58 Views,
13 Votes
,4.65 Score
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The Sun, the Moon and the Stars, and I said no thank you 11/10/2018
I was recently approached by a Dominant that offered me
potentially everything. Several homes in amazing locations,
a connection to nature and life around them, boats, cars,
lake, city, prestige, a private dungeon, freedom to spend,
shop, primp, live what could be seen as the life of Riley.
His letters to me were so far and away from the norm I receive,
they caught my attention and ...
11 Comments,
452 Views,
29 Votes
,6.15 Score
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CUT AND PASTE FOR SCAMMERS 6/12/2018
EVERY DAY on ALT.COM several million scammers are seeking
YOU out.! <br><br>
Does YOUR profile make you seem NEEDY ? <br><br>
<br><br>
As a PRO DOM who YES. makes a financial living from this lifestyle.
let me explain what I mean .. <br><br>
LOOK AT YOUR PROFILE , And I mean REALLY LOOK at it .. ...
1 Comments,
25 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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Saying no is better than bullshitting 1/30/2017
I have been approached by many women who have initially
provided me with bullshit photos so what do you say to them?
No thanks
2 Comments,
109 Views,
10 Votes
,4.18 Score
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seems easy but... 11/1/2016
Wish I had the chance to say no to some of the ladies here,
but more often is men looking for another man that do not
take NO very easily. Why don't some read profiles?
2 Comments,
38 Views,
12 Votes
,4.39 Score
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Nothing wrong 10/15/2016
To me there is nothing wrong with saying no thanks. I have
been in this lifestyle for many years 30 and counting. I
have seen, heard and done a lot and trust me not everything
is for everyone. Just find someone who fits you wants and
desires and then push the envelope a little but don't
go out of the comfort zone. This lifestyle only works well
with trust, openness, honesty and desire.
3 Comments,
41 Views,
9 Votes
,4.28 Score
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I wish people would say no thanks!!! 10/18/2015
People don't just ignore e-mails!!!! Write back and
so no thanks!!! Way to many e-mails go unanswered!!!! It
is the polite thing to do!!!!
8 Comments,
115 Views,
13 Votes
,4.99 Score
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be open and up front 6/21/2015
be open and up front and talk about what you both want and
be willing to try new things
1 Comments,
28 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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random hits to your profile 1/16/2012
Anybody else wonder what contributes to some of randome
visits to your profile? Of course it is flaterring but curious
as well when somoeone for very far away drops by for a look.
5 Comments,
176 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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I try to be respectful 1/6/2012
Even when saying, no thank you, since respect is important.
One can not just say 'fuck off' .. well wait, one
can but it's entirely rude. Instead i like to point
out why i consider the whole effort a complete wash. It's
actually a fairly good way of pointing things out if mistakes
have been made. Things that people should consider....
i think it helps them in their searches.
Sometimes ...
2 Comments,
239 Views,
19 Votes
,5.10 Score
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Dont Take it personal.... 9/14/2011
Dont take it personal when you meet someone and the "chemistry"
just isnt there. The thing you have to remember is that 99%
of the people you meet you wont get along with EVEN if they
are physically attractive.
The key to finding the right person is knowing that YOU want
and need from a potential Dom/me sub/slave and then DONT
SETTLE for anything less.
When I am meeting someone whom I ...
2 Comments,
143 Views,
9 Votes
,4.07 Score
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there was a time 1/4/2011
There was a time I use to answer a polite "no thanks"
to all the mails I received (here or elswhere) beeing a woman
and a Dominant one generate a lot of asking mails.
Use to think I needed a special subcretary to answer all
of them but never found the one *S*
<br>
This took me a enormous amount of time, maybe because I was
more than polite and gave a little answer to every mail ...
7 Comments,
393 Views,
24 Votes
,3.93 Score
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no thanks 5/10/2010
I think it's just being rude not to reply to someone
that's taken the time to respond to your profile. ON the other hand there is too many random hits and fake, (maybe
people paid by this site) emails that it starts to piss you
off. If it's a genuine email I reply each time. There are
many ways to say no thanks but the best is thanks for your
interest but no thankyou.
4 Comments,
72 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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why? 4/19/2010
If i told somebody no thanks already and keep asking me for
sex? what can i do? that peson dont leave me alone. and im
sick of it.i dont like to use violence or be rude with people
but at this point i feel like if im gonna exploid.
2 Comments,
93 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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Master's Offer 11/9/2009
I consider myself submissive. I received an offer from
a potential master about a week ago.
Here is my problem, the way he approached the subject made
me want to defy. I have never had that happen to me on a first
meeting. He chose to tell me that he is very prominate in
this community and that his wife knows nothing of his desires.
Those two facts right there made my stomach turn. It ...
7 Comments,
383 Views,
21 Votes
,5.97 Score
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Why people donth bother to reply 8/5/2009
I have often been thinking why people are so lazy when it
comes to be polite on the net.
Very often when i send someone an email, i dont even get a
reply.
How hard is it to simply say "no thanks, i am not interested"
I know that some get a lots of emails. And of course the women
in here maybe get tons of mails, but thats not an excuse to
not reply, i mean if they get too many mails than ...
6 Comments,
251 Views,
15 Votes
,5.58 Score
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Cock Shots 3/12/2009
i generally turn down requests
for contact from Men who send me nude pictures, especially
cock shots. But i got to thinking, why would a Man send one
of an unattrative cock. Don't get me wrong; most cocks
are more than average in size, but that alone doesn't
make them attractive. So i thought i'd hand out my POV
on the matter.
1) If Your cock is a ...
15 Comments,
534 Views,
39 Votes
,5.76 Score
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Kinda hard to say NO 11/29/2008
Kinda ODD but I feel we all have had this moment in our "dateing"
lives.......hence ya like certain peeps but not sexually....But
they want you...Odd cause when you crave this you get it
but not from the ones you want....lol...Ironic cums to
mind...lol...So do you engage in sex just cause the other
wants too, or you say no and become the bad guy? I rather say
NO and be ohnest.....Sum say ...
1 Comments,
145 Views,
8 Votes
,2.09 Score
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Thank You, I am not interested. 10/5/2008
When someone contacts me and their profile does not interest
me, I click the quick response and am done. The problem comes when they return email with nasty comments.
Why does NO THANKS have to become a slap to your sexuality,
sensuality, intelligence, body shape, lifestyle and
more?
Maybe the person receiving the NO THANKS should step back
for a moment and think that this person has ...
3 Comments,
119 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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winks and flirting 8/29/2008
Having someone view your profile might suggest they liked
you picture or your one-line come on but it doesn't
necessarily mean they're interested. After reading
about you, there might not be a match. Still it shows up on
your "interested" list.
But winks should be a better indicator right? I say *should*
because I am the proud recipient of a "no thanks"
quick reply indicating she ...
2 Comments,
142 Views,
11 Votes
,5.04 Score
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No Thank You 4/21/2008
I was checking on the love list and this couple came up
that look to be interesting so i set them a wink and put them
on my hot list. I was wink back and put on their hot list. I e-mail the back to let them know that i was interested in
them Even if they wear on the heavy side, I did not have a
problem with that. The Female was Dom and her husband was a Sub, I sent her a couple of e-mails as to ...
0 Comments,
230 Views,
9 Votes
,1.07 Score
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How to say no to a woman 1/1/2008
I meet this lovely and beautiful woman here on Alt.com.
I am ready for sex, in all kind and ways, so was she.., but
she was also ready for more; moving togheter in the same
apartment etc. She want listening to me, I doesn't
want a relationship. How to say "No"..!?
3 Comments,
379 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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In defence 10/30/2007
When I first joined Alt and every other site, I made a point
of replying to each response I got even though at times it
felt as if I needed a secretary.
<br>
I try to be clear on my wants/needs and not to lead anyone
up the garden path...
<br>
I thought that 'thanks for your interest but you are
not for me' would be appreciated instead I received
responses asking ...
4 Comments,
571 Views,
37 Votes
,6.96 Score
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reply to Does Commonsense go out the window? 7/28/2007
I am a dom and I have a "no play" on the first date
rule (no play dosen't mean no sex, just no bondage).
It would seem to me that this should be an "unwritten
Law" for subs. Why would anyone put themselvs at the
complete mercy of a total stranger?
<br>
Hey, there are clowns out there and they are eating people!
So, this is more advice than anything. When meeting someone
new, ...
2 Comments,
71 Views,
44 Votes
,6.06 Score
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Male Obligations 7/1/2007
It seems the more and more I get into the lifestyle the more
and more i notice that we (of the lifestyle) have a respect
for one another. Top, bottom, male, female, doesn't
matter limits are limits. Which is great but since i live
in a small area i'm stuck looking for vanallia people
to be aroung and date around with, and i think I've noticed
that there is a great lack of resect it seems in ...
1 Comments,
162 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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How to explain to a submissive that he is not suitable 6/28/2007
A submissive usually would not take no for an answer. He
will ask and cajole and plead and say that he loves you(this
is often just a trick to get you to keep him). You get annoyed
bu his whining.
To test whether the guy is genuine, tell him to do something
difficult for you, that would require a lot of effort from
him and observe what he does.
He either does what you asked ...
2 Comments,
124 Views,
9 Votes
,5.56 Score
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When there IS no reply... 6/26/2007
I'd think it's safe to say that if you send someone
a reply and you don't get one back, does this not mean
they're not interested?? I've had many people
get so snotty about this and show their true colrs/manners.
So.. What I DONT get is that WHY do the men get so upset over
not getting a reply when their profile CLEARLY states/wreaks
that they're out for a*s?? Personally, if they cant ...
4 Comments,
421 Views,
23 Votes
,4.65 Score
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leave it alone 5/21/2007
Why can't people take no for an answer. If a married
person contacts me I politely reply and tell them I am not
interested in married men. Please leave it at that. I don't
want to hear about your miserable marriage or that your
wife is not into it. I am not into it with a married man!
2 Comments,
287 Views,
13 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Why do some trolls cant take a rejection 2/28/2007
Ive noticed that most trolls can not take rejection. It
makes me question..?
Im always polite when someone approaches me but I can get
really angry when they keep going on and on... so if this
is you.. dont show women that you are desperate it is so unattractive...
thank you
2 Comments,
235 Views,
14 Votes
,3.46 Score
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I'm a bit curious 1/20/2007
hey out there I'm not sure if this is the right place
for this but can anyone tell me why most men on here seem not
to be able to read?
now I'm not a man hater, but as my profile states I'm
looking for a girl here as, don't take offense, but
men are somewhat easier to find in normal everyday life.
but I keep getting hounded by pictures of unatractive mens
privates and it's starting to ...
13 Comments,
857 Views,
50 Votes
,5.77 Score
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Should I...? 1/3/2007
My "boyfriend", Paul, is very persuasive.
Only recently have I finally given into him and had sex,
but before that I had to resort to all sorts of excuses to
say no. Did I have a good reason? No, not at all. I didn't
want to have sex, but then, I was young and didn't know
much. Every time Paul suggested it, I would feel embarassed
and wonder what to say. My first thought was always, "Should ...
3 Comments,
387 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
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Propriety or Prudishness 12/19/2006
When it comes to male on male love....its strictly a matter
of personal choice. I mean , most guys have had one or two.......a
few or more Homosexual encounters in their time. (and)
that is understandable.
<br>
However, I think a guy has to make some choices...........like-
I am a regular Bi-sexual or I make a living fucking other
guys -up the ass, (ect.
<br>
Now, ...
2 Comments,
223 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Is It Illiteracy or Just Ignorance? 12/19/2006
The thing is a lot of times, saying "No thanks"
doesn't work. Men are particularly clueless. They
troll. They stalk. They whine, wheedle, and lie their asses
off just for the incomprehensible "flirtation"
of showing you a picture of their penis as if that's
all the allure someone wants in a relationship. Get some
clues, boys!
<br>
When someone takes the time and makes the ...
2 Comments,
588 Views,
53 Votes
,6.80 Score
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when you've found someone else.... 12/19/2006
Why is it that whenever I've said "Thank-you,
but I've found what I'm looking for right now"
men seem to think its an invite to ask one of, or the entire
series of questions...
"Why does he have I don't" "What makes you think he's better than me"
"Why did you lead me on"
"Will you keep in touch with me in case it doesn't
work out"
"Will you just call me anyways"
Its pathetic. ...
1 Comments,
170 Views,
10 Votes
,3.39 Score
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everyones expecting 12/19/2006
people are always sending the most crazy emails and most
expect a responce. This isn't porn shop just a place
to hook up. if people would lightn up and just be honest with
self you'd be getting some right now.
1 Comments,
102 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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how do u say no 12/19/2006
when u set up a meeting with a girl and she smells like fish
how do u tell her no
1 Comments,
127 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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After I was finished he said no thanks. 11/11/2006
I recently had a man write to me. This was the first e mail
to me and this is how I said no in a different way and gave him
a taste of his own crudeness.
_____________________________________
I'm looking for a bit of help--special help. I'm
thinking of having 4 guys over for a poker party but I need
a bit of an edge. You could help me with this edge by assuming
the role as my hostess ...
13 Comments,
1553 Views,
98 Votes
,8.00 Score
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flakes 9/22/2006
why are there so many dishonest deceitful guys out there?
I am very explicity as to what i give and want from a guy. Im
a bottom tgirl and say so, but they lie about their desires
and only want a BJ. Or they are a half-and-half XDreseer
and look awful with their hairy bodies and terrible clothes.
Im also through replying to non-photo members. all men
are the same - only their ugly faces ...
3 Comments,
473 Views,
27 Votes
,3.56 Score
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never thought it would happen 8/7/2006
never thought it would happen to me. I'm not one of those
pretty boys. In the last 3 months I have found 3 occasions
in which I needed to say "No thanks." For one
it was just there was no attraction what so ever. She kept
saying it was the best I could ever get - but I have learned
to have standards. The other was a lady who was in a sad state
mentally. I could not bring myself to ...
1 Comments,
225 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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Don't bend over 7/10/2006
I often had my slave complain when i give it to there in the
ass, i hvae the answer just told her not ot bend over then!
2 Comments,
104 Views,
26 Votes
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I'm innept 6/3/2006
I meet people from thse sites occationally, and they're
never my type. I have no good way of turning them away, so
I just try and fade out of mind. Does anyone have a better
way, without hurting anyones feelings? Am I doing it right?
5 Comments,
343 Views,
11 Votes
,2.05 Score
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will you be the slave for the rest of my life?NO THANKS 5/28/2006
Why people just dont understand when u refuse them and they
are so angry about it.I just dont get it, or maybe i am a little
bit stupid hehe
2 Comments,
227 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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Safety In Play 4/16/2006
Hi All,
I recently went to meet up with a mistress from the uk, called
SexyDomBitch. We had chatted on line for a week days and
had discussed a lot fo BDSM activities we both enjoyed.
During this time, She had asked me to send her 15 pictures
of myself doing things she had told me she wanted to see.
Throughout this she refused point blank to send me a picture
of herself and told me I ...
6 Comments,
568 Views,
37 Votes
,6.54 Score
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how to say no 3/25/2006
Be honest in your evaluation of the other person and if you
still feel a negativity of interest be firm and say/write
NO (nothing else equates with these two letters so far as
communication is concerned - it is a universal acceptance
of negativity).
0 Comments,
205 Views,
15 Votes
,2.67 Score
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Meeting and Declining Sexual Invitations 2/15/2006
Has anyone ever met anyone off of this site and changed thier
mind about having sex with them because of false information
or pictures posted on the site?
4 Comments,
569 Views,
15 Votes
,3.13 Score
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dont get tied down. 2/11/2006
She looked so nuetral. And as i talked to her she showed no
sign of what was to come . I went to her house and we drank some
then she got a little goofy and asked me if she could tie my
hands behind my back. i Playfiully said yes she looked so
sweet and beautiful. nice and almost naive.I let her kindinly
. She removed my pants and as i was naked she rubbed me off
before tying it off with ...
0 Comments,
549 Views,
21 Votes
,0.28 Score
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The Message 1/31/2006
I have always found it to be very important to communicate
in some detail as of why things will not click between a new
aquaiqutance and or enquiry. Even if my mail box is flooded
with virtually dozen’s of new messages with most of them
being “canned†and very short to a degree of a few pointed
and often degrading words. My responses have varied of
course, but overall I always give a ...
1 Comments,
369 Views,
25 Votes
,4.68 Score
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is it right to abuse someone while their hurting? 12/23/2005
well is it?
u dont a friend, sit on the edge of their bed and while
their asleep touch them.
u dont do u?
especialy when they have just been made homeless, childless, humiliated, and
forced to be sub or else.
by yet another nasty vile monster.
0 Comments,
213 Views,
180 Votes
,4.89 Score
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when a sub is really a dom 12/23/2005
i recently knew a very mixed up man, howard a sub.
he strangely ordered me about, yet still insisted he was
sub.
hed lose his temper with me, tell me im a bitch.
hes well and truly gone from my life.......he tried to abuse
his cleaner, what a weirdo.
0 Comments,
194 Views,
226 Votes
,0.27 Score
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No thanks !!! 12/11/2005
Is it just me or do a lot of people have a problem with saying
"no thanks" ?
<br>
I have been a member of alt now for several yaers and have
written many well directed messages top people. My profile
is very long and my messages are always directed at the speciffic
person, couple.
<br>
At the end of my message I always ask that if you are not interested
please just send ...
3 Comments,
384 Views,
27 Votes
,7.87 Score
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what men want 9/20/2005
Men can stop chasing sex and say "no thanks"
but if it falls in their lap...they're all over it.
If a female walks to any guy she'll get sexual favors
3 out of 4 guys wether they're married or not
1 Comments,
194 Views,
13 Votes
,1.63 Score
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"No" doesn't = "Nasty" 9/20/2005
One of the things the Internet has added to our lives as we
seek our partner, is access to a larger pool. I live in a city
that has plenty of prospective partners, but how do you
cut through the bs and find others with compatible interests?
The Net provides safe ways, like through ALT...
First, it enables me to look at a profile, hopefully with
a picture, and see if what's said or unsaid ...
1 Comments,
135 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Pay attention... 8/30/2005
I can't & won't speak for others. I can only
voice my own opinion, for whatever it's worth. Frankly,
if you answer a profile/message that the poster feels you
don't meet their requirements? Don't be surprised
if you get a reply that may singe your eyeballs!
<br>
People; male, female, top, bottom, dom/me, sub, slave,
whatever, get tired of sifting thru the needy, greedy,
fulfill ...
3 Comments,
365 Views,
32 Votes
,7.46 Score
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Masochism without the sex 8/11/2005
I came here looking for someone to get involved in needle
play with, not because it arouses me sexually, but because
i like the how it feels in a "pain to know you are alive"
way. I have been in the community as a voyeur for a year now,
and the only thing that i have ever seen and wanted was to
be pierced.
I came to find a piercing artist who can maybe involve me
in a show without going ...
2 Comments,
313 Views,
16 Votes
,2.25 Score
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ID feel much better 7/26/2005
yes thats right if a person feels the message they recieved
was not for them then a simple no thanks would do the trick.
By saying no in a responceyou let the other member know that
the site is not full of people who just want to show photos
of them selves so to all those who respond NO THANKS THANK
YOU FLASH51167
0 Comments,
72 Views,
9 Votes
,4.07 Score
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White or Wong? 7/2/2005
My sub and I have been together for 30 plus years as husband
and wide as well as Dom/sub. I am a psychologist and from
the moment I met her I realised she was a closet Bisexual.
So I encouraged her to make love with other women, although
I liked to be present. She has had some terrific lovers;
some subs as well, which has made things especially good
from my point of view. But the most ...
0 Comments,
348 Views,
17 Votes
,1.29 Score
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Please Read Profile Before Sending An Email 5/11/2005
I have recieved emails from individuals who have in all
likelihood not taken the time to read my profile. If they
had they wouldn't have put forth the effort to send
me an email as my location and what I am seeking here differs
from their own. I typically don't respond to these
emails, not out of a lack of common courtesy but because
it's clear that they either didn't read my profile,
or ...
5 Comments,
96 Views,
37 Votes
,5.95 Score
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saying not interested 5/11/2005
even if you email someone or they email you, it would be polite
in just saying no thanks or not my type, I have found that
people have a tendency to get really rude if you don't
respond either way. so I make it a point to reply whether
to say no thanks or not my type, just my viewpoint
4 Comments,
93 Views,
20 Votes
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Revealing 5/11/2005
A friendly and polite response to a profile should merit
a "No thanks" if the person doesn't match
one's preferences. If not it would not only be a lack
of "kinderstube": it is surprising how many
people don't realize ho much they are revealing about
themselves by not extending this basic courtesy. Not getting
any reply at all after some time is an answer in itself - and
I for one accept ...
2 Comments,
125 Views,
15 Votes
,4.36 Score
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Say no thanks and then...... 4/30/2005
Say no thanks and then block the user. That way you don't
have to listen to the whiners.
<br>
Still looking for my slave.
0 Comments,
117 Views,
16 Votes
,4.16 Score
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UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR & THIS APPROACH IS COMPLETELY WRONG, WRONG, WRONG… 4/20/2005
Most of the time a man is attracted to a woman's face,
her figure and then maybe her personality after. He then
wonders how her body would look without her clothes. That
is when his imagination starts to take over him completely.
He can not stop wondering what sex would be like with her.
Then he starts to create fantasies about having a sexual
encounter with her and he would do just about ...
1 Comments,
94 Views,
7 Votes
,5.59 Score
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Me ? 4/16/2005
Usually I get a lot of inappropriate sexual offers because
I look so pretty. Some gays think I'm a boy HO and try
to buy me what a mistake they want a man and would run a soon
as they saw my tits! Not that wouldn't like it I'm
just not who they were thinking I was. Then some
teens try to pick-up on me usually girls who are attracted
by my looks and are under legal age not exactly who I ...
0 Comments,
233 Views,
15 Votes
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ha,ha,ha 3/31/2005
how do you get a gay guy to fuck a woman?shit in her cunt.
1 Comments,
177 Views,
43 Votes
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A kinder way to reject a prospect 3/19/2005
My experience with the Alt IM and Chatrooms has left me with
a somewhat bitter taste for the manner in which disinterest
is shown.
<br>
I would suggest that Alt managment devise a more subte and
less semantic manner in which to indicate a lack of interest
in either an IM or private chat arrangement.
<br>
Could we not utilize, "Sorry, but [this person] is
not presently ...
3 Comments,
245 Views,
25 Votes
,3.57 Score
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Reply to Hurting Feelings 1/29/2005
I too have seen much of this. When sent an e-mail no matter
if I am interested or not, I write back cordially thanking
them but respectfully declining. Why is it then these socalled
"Dominants" come back with acidy remarks and
hissing insults? One word: Immaturity. They've never
truly grown up. Either within the lifestyle or outside
of it. Same can be said for women however.
...
1 Comments,
84 Views,
36 Votes
,8.07 Score
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how to get out without being rude. 1/15/2005
i recentley met this guy online and before we met he seemed
really cool. he looked attractive to me and he was well hung
and said he was a total top wich i really like. but when i got
to his place he was totally not what he said he was then i was
really dissapointed, but i didnt really know what to say.
i ended up leaving without doing anything with him but he
said that i was a tease and ...
2 Comments,
410 Views,
18 Votes
,4.49 Score
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Cougars 1/11/2005
I don't know about you, but I have trouble with Cougars.
They are constantly prowling around me, its not that I'm
overly against fooling around with older women, its when
they say "you know I have a your age" that
doesn't do it for me.
<br>
Why is it the Cougars are far more forward then the rest?
6 Comments,
226 Views,
16 Votes
,2.10 Score
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How lovely we are not meant for each other 1/6/2005
WEll well well,
of late i have had some pleasant experiences with saying
no thanks. In a couple of letters i responded with...'i
think You got the wrong idea about what i am looking for,
but thanks for writing' or ' i am afraid that that
is really not something i am interested in' or even
'now i know all about You, You have not even said why
You wrote me, i do not think there is any hope ...
0 Comments,
132 Views,
17 Votes
,5.11 Score
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Sometimes it's just not worth it! 12/28/2004
I used to take the time to say no politely and it usualy ends
up in the other person getting hostile over being rejected.
If someone is across the country or IN another country I
don't see the point of answering. It's silly to
me and I don't have the time to be honest. Don't
take it personally! Just my 2 cents..
1 Comments,
145 Views,
32 Votes
,3.52 Score
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Time to be polite. 12/23/2004
I believe that any well mannered person has the time to be
polite. Of course standard members are restricted to the
number of emails they can answer. I understand that. Anyone
who writes me gets a reply even if it is no thank you. I appreciate
that people here are reaching out to people they feel may
be kindred spirits. Take heart my fellow rejectees. Somebody's
looking for somebody like ...
2 Comments,
94 Views,
30 Votes
,6.18 Score
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WHy do people "phish" 12/21/2004
Why is it that people will send a "email" with
a different addy to respond back to. And then have links
to "paid" sites in order to reply. At other sites.?
To me it gets old. Am I the Lone Ranger or what?
1 Comments,
102 Views,
9 Votes
,3.64 Score
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UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR & THIS APPROACH IS COMPLETELY WRONG, WRONG, WRONG… 12/20/2004
Most of the time a man is attracted to a woman's face,
her figure and then maybe her personality after. He then
wonders how her body would look without her clothes. That
is when his imagination starts to take over him completely.
He can not stop wondering what sex would be like with her.
Then he starts to create fantasies about having a sexual
encounter with her and he would do just about ...
1 Comments,
135 Views,
20 Votes
,6.44 Score
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One of the obstacles I've run into with my own bi-curiosity... 12/18/2004
I used to get whipped every now and then by a master (who will
remain nameless here), he knew I was bi-curious, but he
also knew that the mutual agreement between US was he was
master and he whipped me. Before we did anything, we discussed
a bit about what was acceptable between us. I already have
a mistress and I'm HER slave, and every now and then
she liked to send me to him for a proper ...
1 Comments,
171 Views,
14 Votes
,4.90 Score
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Submission brings a great deal of problems with being assertive 12/13/2004
I am a new submissive femme and getting more than my fair
share of responses. the trouble is that i am happy to messege
the Doms and i am not wasting time, i really do want to meet
up with some of them, but some of them try to really pressurise
me into a meeting the first time we talk and i find it very
difficult to say no. Sometimes they want things that i am
not ready for and sometimes ...
1 Comments,
83 Views,
16 Votes
,6.21 Score
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how could you? 12/2/2004
this one would like to take a moment or two to speak her feelings
on the word No and what it means girl was always taught that
no matter your relation no matter your situation one always
has the right to say No or has a safe word then when used is
supposed to stop the present activity from happening but
it seems to this girl that sometimes ...
1 Comments,
97 Views,
17 Votes
,2.70 Score
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Responding to e-mails 11/19/2004
I have seen frequent postings on alt about people who don't
answer e-mail. I myself have a system. In my profile I clearly
state that I won't relocate, want nothing to do with
attached partners and am not into sadists. Despite this
I get e-mail from these individuals which I typically don't
answer. Nor should I be expected to, if the individual sending
it has read my profile then they know ...
1 Comments,
91 Views,
20 Votes
,6.70 Score
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You'd have to be crazy. 10/21/2004
How many times has a hot woman in a tight red dress approached
you, brushed her blond bangs out of her blue eyes, curled
her pouty lips up and asked you: do you come here often? Do
you want to?
<br>
Now if this were to happen... would you turn her down? We
all know that if you are a man, and you know that this blonde
is not a man.... the answer is Huh NOOOO>
<br>
...
0 Comments,
73 Views,
9 Votes
,0.86 Score
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