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WhtevrYOUdesire 60 M
0 questions
Score 0.0
how many people here have been scammed or blackmailed by fake profiles? - 4/18/2024

Recently on a sister site, I was messaged from a profile requesting a possible meet. I was interested, and answered back. my profile stated that I was attached. this person sent me a face pic and requested mine. I sent a face pic. i was hoping to get to know the person a bit more and when I was requested to give my personal email so that we could chat more easily, i gave it. eventually that ...

8 response(s), 7 votes
atong4u 74 M
7 questions
Score 0.1
My new story ? - 4/18/2024

I have submitted a new story two times this past week and it has not shown up yet. Any one else having this problem. If they would say I broke some rule fine tell me which one so I can correct it.

7 response(s), 51 votes
Cangfax 51 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Do you like pissing? - 4/18/2024

I had this new experience of piss drinking and it's very nice. What do you think? Have you already done the same?

16 response(s), 57 votes
albanynycouple51 62 C
19 questions
Score 0.0
did everyone have a safe kinkoween? - 4/16/2024

with virus went to the local basement bullpen meet kinkoween with our regulars was safe kink fun ,
hows was everyone else halloween?

32 response(s), 207 votes
LushiousM 41 F
0 questions
Score 0.0
Mistress wanting a LTR - 4/15/2024

I’m a Nistress, <br><br> I want sub men to play with and worship me. <br><br> But I want a husband and a . <br><br> But he must be a cuckold. And accept my freedom. <br><br> Can I have it all ? <br><br> M x

6 response(s), 6 votes
clarelarson 23 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
Spanking - 4/14/2024

What is your favorite way to spank a naughty slut?

59 response(s), 159 votes
manjoman30 75 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Ass to mouth lube - 4/13/2024

Other than spit, a sort of tasteless lube, what is the best ass to mouth lube for those subs/bottoms who need more lubrication?

2 response(s), 17 votes
9inchburprod 55 M
1 question
Score 0.0
my candy cane - 4/13/2024

i sure like to play with it, i would love for you to lick it !

12 response(s), 75 votes
DCdom7033 41 M
13 questions
Score 0.0
A question - 4/13/2024

How long have you been on this site? Why?

6 response(s), 5 votes
usemeasplease 58 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How do I find a dominate mistress from hell - 4/12/2024

I've tried before had no luck. What is the best way to find a dominate mistress from hell to take total control of me?

19 response(s), 47 votes
hiddendepths 53 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
Chat Rooms - You may not enter this room until your profile has been approved by our review team. - 4/12/2024

Anyone know whats going on? I have always been able to get into the Chatrooms, but now Im getting a strange screen and this message in red: <br><br> You may not enter this room until your profile has been approved by our review team. <br><br> How do you get approved? Its very unhelpful not to give a link or something

7 response(s), 11 votes
Dunkkirk 38 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Belly Punching - 4/10/2024

I recently found out about a strange fetish that involves punching women in their stomach. Anyone else out there have this fantasy of wanting to punch a woman in her stomach? Or trample? Is that a turn on?

3 response(s), 0 votes
clarelarson 23 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
Role play - 4/8/2024

What are you favorite role play scenes? Mine is boss and secretary!

49 response(s), 251 votes
MacqueVII 43 M
1 question
Score 0.0
What is your love language - 4/7/2024

As I have understood the languages are acts of service, gifts, physical affection, words of affirmation, and quality time. <br><br> For me it is acts of service as both how I express love and how I feel loved. How about you?

15 response(s), 66 votes
KimmyW8 50 F
1 question
Score 0.0
messages - 4/7/2024

Messages are shown in number beside the envelope . I click on the envelope and it takes me to the messages . BUT NO MESSASES . I click thru all of the sections , and still nothing . Also the Bell shows peopel have sent messages , but stil no messages . Is it me ??? Thank you

30 response(s), 130 votes
Bertfegg 61 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Newbie looking to start my journey - 4/1/2024

Are there any members in NE england or clubs can help guide me into the alt universe

6 response(s), 60 votes
hiddendepths 53 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
Stop Being a Top Fan of a Deactivated Profile. - 4/1/2024

Please can anyone advise how to do the above. There doesnt seem to be a way of reversing the Top Fan of, if the profile is no longer visible. <br><br> All help appreciated <br><br> Thanks

9 response(s), 49 votes
hiddendepths 53 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
Is there a way to Unlike someone's Photo? - 4/1/2024

I made the mistake of liking someone's pics but then he turned out to be a toerag so Id love to stop liking his pics. Is it possible and if so where do I do it please? Thanks

7 response(s), 39 votes
W3havinfun2 53 M
1 question
Score 0.0
FFM 3SUMS - 3/28/2024

Would any women like to join us??

6 response(s), 45 votes
Mido16698 25 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
what do you miss in your life ? - 3/28/2024

discuss what are you looking for here what do you need what do you miss in your life, and what do you miss in sex and partener to feel excited?

18 response(s), 71 votes
Chaste_Sub_1972 51 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Do Femdoms like Sissies? - 3/28/2024

I am a submissive male. I enjoy crossdressing. This is something I have suppressed my whole life but recently, perhaps as I have gotten older I can't resist it. I have bought several shoes and dresses. I love the feeling of tights (pantyhose) on my legs and the soft fabrics of the dresses. I like having to teeter in heels. I absolutely love wearing feminine clothing but frankly look ...

8 response(s), 80 votes
Dunkkirk 38 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Belly Punching - 3/26/2024

I recently came across this strange fetish that involves punching women in their stomach. Is that a real fantasy? Anyone heard of it before?

18 response(s), 146 votes
CDeesAss0 64 T
1 question
Score 0.0
favourite position - 3/23/2024

this is my favourite position for being fucked or fucking someone elses ass , ,, what is your favourite position to be fucked or to fuck someones ass

25 response(s), 65 votes
wild4milfs4dog 19 M
1 question
Score 0.0
where did everything go - 3/18/2024

looking here trying to find what have change on this site it really has change not the same is slower more boring no body comes here anymore very lame.

15 response(s), 77 votes
MilknHunni 54 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
Private rooms - 3/15/2024

Ive created few pvt rooms here ovdr the years but unlike other rooms i can click Leave group......but cant seem to figure out how to delete my own private rooms, i thought disable room would do it....but just makes it inkperable i wanna rsmove it so i hace spaces to fill after deletion ppl are gone from site so wanna remove it but cant...! Help?🤔🤔😠

17 response(s), 99 votes
Mido16698 25 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
What is the most important thing for you when you have BDSM session? - 3/13/2024

in this way there are many different opinions, lets discuss, share experience, and find out more ....

13 response(s), 46 votes
totalslavegirl38 39 F
1 question
Score 0.0
IM - 3/9/2024

Why wont my IM work? Is it not available for standard members?

36 response(s), 71 votes
Animale79 44 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Broadcasts - 3/9/2024

Anyone else not able to watch broadcasts? It does this spinny circle thing for a few min then it says broadcast ended. it does this despite the broadcast still going on. I have my content filter set to everything. any ideas?

5 response(s), 53 votes
tylerj13 19 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Best halloween candy? - 3/9/2024

in your honest opinion for this spooky season what is the top halloween candy?. i personally am a Wunderbar guy. But super curious about everyone else's favorites.

15 response(s), 127 votes
DCdom7033 41 M
13 questions
Score 0.0
A question - 3/9/2024

How long have you been on this site? Why?

3 response(s), 3 votes