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Finallymetime 58 F
1 question
Score 0.0
IM Not Working - 3/6/2020

A friend referred me to this site and we are both gold members, we tried to test the IM so I could learn how to use it, but I am not receiving any messages. <br><br> I have already, deleted my cookies and updated my preferences.. Is there something else I can do?

34 response(s), 47 votes
boatsman11 64 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Moods - 3/1/2020

Is there anything with more changeable moods the us humans ?

12 response(s), 19 votes
differntstrokes 62 M
10 questions
Score 0.0
PROFILES I VIEWED - 3/1/2020

Only recently I became aware and started checking this section on the site. <br><br> I have to say that I am flabbergasted at the amount of profiles on there that I have NEVER looked at. <br><br> I understand that if the cursor passes over a profile, or I view them on the cams or IM, it registers, but there are profiles of people in other countries that do not even appear ...

15 response(s), 54 votes
Naturalmtn 37 M
1 question
Score 0.0
New to this, how do i find the right kind dominate woman for me? - 3/1/2020

Ive tried to get ex girlfriends to " take control" in bedroom and of certain things , or just to say the right kind of things during dirty talk or mild role playing. They all would just repeat a word or two that i said and not take it seriously. Only one years ago actually totally took control during sex of me. She 24 an me 18 at time, it was great but i was also to shy to say some of ...

3 response(s), 5 votes
fares70 46 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Happy year is ready for the new year - 2/26/2020

To be ready in the new year. I hope that you will get everything you need and look forward to awakening your deep, dark, suppressed and enjoyable fantasies in the new year and happy birthday to all.

9 response(s), 35 votes
mture4rotty 21 M
6 questions
Score 0.0
its here - 2/26/2020

2020 that was fast will see what i going on here and see if we can start new and see if this site has any changes

11 response(s), 29 votes
bootlckboy39 50 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Points lost ? - 2/16/2020

Should points be lost when some one is "unavailable to chat"?

15 response(s), 27 votes
gopats1 61 M
1 question
Score 0.0
IM woes - 2/12/2020

The IM system seems to be the biggest waste of time, points and energy!!!

26 response(s), 36 votes
painter919 63 M
1 question
Score 0.0
points of view - 2/12/2020

does this site promote real or is it handy for golddiggers ?

14 response(s), 30 votes
4rwl233 43 M
1 question
Score 0.0
finish - 2/12/2020

this shit started when this web site change it keep asking for 1 point now its 10 fucking points how do you go from 1 point 10 points talk someone its sooo fucked up the way they got this shit rig up

10 response(s), 14 votes
bob_Slave2 71 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Points would be OK if they worked - 2/12/2020

If you are lucky enough to connect on IM it sure wont be for long

18 response(s), 25 votes
patmahon2 65 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Why can't i view any cams - 2/5/2020

They all say Member has stopped broadcasting383

33 response(s), 30 votes
jane46 63 F
21 questions
Score 0.0
CORSETS - 1/31/2020

I don't think anything has been asked about them but here goes. I very recently was given a brand new leather corset, very well made. I was told by a Dom, that the best quality made ones were if they had bone in them. Now, I don't know an awful lot about this, and would be glad of any input or advice can be given. I have seen various types and the one my slave has got, didn't have bone in it ...

12 response(s), 22 votes
00Dark0Kitten00 38 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Corsets... - 1/31/2020

All the dom/masters I have had have always put me in a corset. Is there anyone out there who can explain to me why they are used? And if most people use them...

3 response(s), 9 votes
TimidJaneCD 62 T
16 questions
Score 0.0
CORSETS AND BLOOD PRESSURE - 1/31/2020

I recently was checking my blood pressure after putting on a tight corset and noticed that it made my blood pressure significantly higher . I took the corset off and my blood pressure returned to normal . I am curious how this might effect me if I wore tight corsets often or exerted my self to much when wearing a tight corset?

19 response(s), 25 votes
readytogo12399 64 M
1 question
Score 0.0
new to this - 1/24/2020

sorry ask but what is a

7 response(s), 30 votes
Mastergary54321 65 M
1 question
Score 0.0
I have a Question - 1/24/2020

How many times do you get asked , what are you looking for on here

31 response(s), 30 votes
Dwtp 59 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Read profiles - 1/24/2020

Do gold members every read the profiles they message? I ask for local people or some one willing to come to me. I get messages from all over the us!

17 response(s), 50 votes
bbcinorlando 39 M
1 question
Score 0.0
ORLANDO LADIES - 1/24/2020

any orlando ladies enjoy creampies and anal sex?

10 response(s), 34 votes
TallleggyJenny 50 M
1 question
Score 0.0
A Christmas party full of potential humiliation - 1/20/2020

I'm looking forward Christmas night party in a lady friends house. I have been accused of stealing her underwear. Her friend will be there as well. I have stolen underwear from both of these ladies. I will be dressed in red lingerie and stockings and suspender belt that will be clearly visible at times. Would be a pleasure to to listen as they verbally humiliate me about underwear ...

15 response(s), 36 votes
rott654321milfs 44 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
2020 its here - 1/20/2020

seen like 2019 came fast and was gone that fast year fly here but looking forward to what 2020 bring to this site

13 response(s), 21 votes
_Torque 47 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Satisfaction - 1/20/2020

What is most satisfying in D/s relationship ?

14 response(s), 24 votes
atong4u 74 M
7 questions
Score 0.0
Messages - 1/20/2020

Just wondering if others get messages in Spanish ? I don't read it or speak it but my messages only show up in Spanish Was talking to a lady then her message was suddenly in Spanish ??

10 response(s), 33 votes
Bottomslut00 58 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Chastity - 1/19/2020

What's the longest time you have been locked in chastity

20 response(s), 31 votes
tdsub911 59 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
Cross dressing are you for it? - 1/9/2020

Are there any woman that like men or there man to crossdress?

19 response(s), 35 votes
sexhounds4226 44 C
2 questions
Score 0.0
cross dressing - 1/9/2020

can anyone help me out here ive been dressing in ladies clothing since age 10 i love the feel of the soft sexy stocking i was raised by just a mother is this the reason , becouse i had no male part in my life for my lifestyle



thx...

13 response(s), 18 votes
rott654321milfs 44 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
hungry - 1/3/2020

like to eat after you had a good fuck........ sound kind of weird but fuck you burn all the energy you need to eat to fuck again

11 response(s), 20 votes
rott654321milfs 44 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
whats new - 1/3/2020

here looking to see what is new what woman are looking for and have in there mind when they first meet someone

12 response(s), 25 votes
Clitickyou 39 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Where all the pussy - 1/2/2020

Vermont I own a house where you can privately allow submit and obey your sexual request and requirements <br><br> Cock torcher ...humiliation ........forced bareback or raw "no condom" ejaculation inside vagina or wherever demanded .........tie me down , releacing me after you have fully finished ejaculation in my and have been licked dry and had your orgasm juices drank

14 response(s), 33 votes
asianat2008 69 M
115 questions
Score 0.0
Sexual inclinations in women. - 12/28/2019

Women are more loving and giving and sharing in privacy. Why so?.Touch them and caress them in privacy accepting consent and they share openly and once aroused they wish for more sex and finallly penetration with moans. Any good experience can my friends share out of their encounters?..

18 response(s), 33 votes