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Msflogit 70 F
1 question
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whre can i sell my used bdsm equipment - 10/18/2022

hi i have crops whips blindfolds a hood leg spreader strapons dildos chains padlocks cuffs leather cap paddle tawse dress etc and want to sell asap anyone know where best to sell pls im in cornwall

6 response(s), 7 votes
fuckingmachine4U 69 M
1 question
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Real women getting caned-whipped-thrashed? - 10/15/2022

I was just in the Gallery and clicked on a photo of a woman who had been severly caned--she was bleeding and her ass cheeks were Red-Brownish and dripping of blood--So I clicked on the link that was available and was directed to a company called MOOD which makes and sells videos of real women getting caned--for an extensive period of time--not a flick of the cane--but the inflicker was putting ...

8 response(s), 14 votes
Spankstoyounme 60 M
12 questions
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My introduction to Play in a Hotel What was your first time? - 10/15/2022

My first experience in the scene occurred about 10 years ago when I traveled up to Newcastle (UK) with a female kinkster sub friend who was due to meet her online Dom for a serious spanking weekend.

She had been instructed to bring all her whips crops and canes to be administered to her sweet cheeks when they met.

we obviously booked into separate rooms so her Dom could attend ...

4 response(s), 18 votes
MNT4 54 M
1 question
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When did you know? - 9/24/2022

When did you first know your sexual desires exceeded the “normal” vanilla lifestyle? Did you accept it immediately or did it take some time to acknowledge and accept?

2 response(s), 6 votes
sosb22 25 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
POINTS - 9/24/2022

i want to know why is that you have to for this fucking points to talk to people its like they charge you for everything fucking thing you do here you want to talk to someone its points you want to massage it points everything is a fucking point what in the fuck do you have to for points where you can get it for free.......... and why do you for points where this site and massenger if ...

24 response(s), 29 votes
CumbriaLeather 67 M
1 question
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Do females like being called humiliating names, as part of play? - 9/23/2022

Mentioned this in a blog and would like to know what female think. I appreciate that it's personal preference, and it requires permission, to be meaningful in a private connection.

99 response(s), 262 votes
knottstuckmilf 18 M
1 question
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fun - 9/23/2022

its time to have fun looking for a woman that is into taboo and want to try new thing and see what else she wants to try.

20 response(s), 137 votes
Cbrwalker1 32 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Diapers - 9/23/2022

Who wants to see me in diapers

13 response(s), 67 votes
asianat2008 69 M
115 questions
Score 0.0
Blood oozing. - 9/16/2022

It is that blood is oozed out on buttocks and boobs of submissives after activities like heavy spanking, piercing and knife play etc?.What about the agony and pain and even infection the sub. suffers?.What is after care then and is it true that the dominant takes cares for that?.Is medical attention is called for?. I am complete novice and hence the questions.

9 response(s), 18 votes
btmspnk 59 M
1 question
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Is spanking sensual or punishment - 9/16/2022

Is it sensual or punishment or is punishment sensual?

I love to be spanked. I don't only enjoy the unique pain sensation of a good ass smacking, but I also really enjoy the experience of being naked and exposed and controlled. OTk is always arousing to me since I feel exposed but also feel the contact of my Domme as she (or he) holds me in place and caresses my bottom, then spanks. ...

8 response(s), 4 votes
Seekingkinksters 54 M
1 question
Score 0.0
spankings - 9/16/2022

This is something that I have never been interested in. But I have been having an online conversation with a Domme from this site. All of a sudden, I have really started to crave a spanking from her I'm not looking for a punishment, so I'm not looking to be bratty in any way. Just a bare ass, over her knee spanking. Is there anything wrong with just coming out and asking for one?

54 response(s), 252 votes
slapit26 44 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Spanking - 9/16/2022

What is your opinion of a good spanking ?, how should the scene be set and what should be involved ?.

10 response(s), 9 votes
Daddy4MaggieMia 66 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How far would you or have you travelled to meet with another alt member? - 9/16/2022

1) Your city area (0 to 50 miles) <br><br> 2) Your state/province. <br><br> 3) The adjoining state/province. <br><br> 4) Country wide <br><br> 5) International

49 response(s), 78 votes
Crusin26 78 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Ass - 9/12/2022

I have never been fucked in the ass and curious if you can feel him cumming inside of you ?

30 response(s), 108 votes
badkaty 47 F
1 question
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Spanking - 8/28/2022

Do you think spanking is just punishment or a sexual thing? I am new to this and I like a spanking during before sex. It really gets me turn on.

12 response(s), 17 votes
PussyPlay4u 67 C
1 question
Score 0.0
Why do we stereotype age? - 8/9/2022

Im 51, He's 63... People automatically assume we're "old" we are anything but "Old" . We have experience, and tons of energy... Enjoy an amazing sex life, together. Neither one of us is fat. However the we're either over looked or too old. Age is merely a number. Why do we as a people, tend to discriminate on age?

49 response(s), 170 votes
Hants65 70 C
1 question
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Why is it so difficult to find a play mate? - 8/5/2022

We have been looking for weeks but cannot find the right play mate. We have spent money on other sites with no results whatsoever. We are reluctant to keep paying out on these sites. How can we find genuine people?

61 response(s), 138 votes
2newtoit 57 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
shopping - 8/4/2022

anyone know of a good place to shop for cloths and lingerie around rehobeth or bethany beach in maryland?

35 response(s), 136 votes
Notdeadyet65 20 M
1 question
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Mistresses - 7/31/2022

How do I know which Mistress is right for me? There’s so many to choose from.

25 response(s), 104 votes
Daddys_paradox 62 C
1 question
Score 0.0
Why? - 7/28/2022

Why do you feel that you need to lie? Why when a submissive/slave asks questions, she's not being submissive or slave like?

31 response(s), 111 votes
slvsMaster4life 48 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Masks - 7/28/2022

Why do some people have such a hard time wearing masks, and understanding the concept as to why they should be worn?

3 response(s), 19 votes
grandma4sex 91 F
3 questions
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Are there any other people out there that are into diapers? - 6/17/2022

I've always had a fascination with adults that like to wear diapers, I've had a few women and lots of guys that wanted me to change them when they wet. I have worn them many time for men that wanted to have me pee in them so they could change me, I loved the attention they give to washing me down there and oiling or powdering me. Are there any other people out there that are into diapers?

19 response(s), 19 votes
lonlygal2 53 F
1 question
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need advise - 6/16/2022

i've been talking to this dom for a week now and the first time i talked to him he asked me if i got wet looking at my k**s hard ons. i thought it was a weird question but i replied as i don't do k**s. now last night he told me he want to meet and when we do he wants me to wear a diaper and call him daddy. don't get me wrong i'm all for role playing but this is getting alittle weird. To ...

25 response(s), 25 votes
ImATramp 74 F
70 questions
Score 0.0
Poop! - 6/8/2022

I don't want to talk about that, as it is taboo.

2 response(s), 2 votes
subfwbwanted82 42 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
daddy needs a lil girl ,milf,kinky,taboo ltr - 6/8/2022

with the many people on here real and fake it shouldnt be that hard find a ltr with the right individual.id love find a partner with very few limits that can please in ways no one else could or would do or allow

17 response(s), 26 votes
rondiri 65 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
bondage suspension frame - 6/6/2022

I'm looking for advice on portable, bondage suspension frames. I've checked the Tripods and Quadpods on line, looked for DIY ideas. I live in a VERY old home. The ceilings wouldn't a ahrpoint without a professional installation contractor. (How do you explain a hardpoint in the middle of a room?) I've got nice high 8' 9" ceilings, so height isn't a problem. I'm ...

17 response(s), 65 votes
gacindylouwho 64 F
1 question
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Fisting - 6/5/2022

I have enjoyed fisting once in my life, wish it could be more. How do I approach the subject with the men I date? It seems like it's almost as taboo as anal sex. when I suggest it, they don't know what to say, and never do it. HELP.

11 response(s), 26 votes
taboowhore4mom 26 F
1 question
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dumpster mumpster - 6/5/2022

dumpster thumpster

15 response(s), 46 votes
HOTsemen007 39 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Toilet Slavery - 6/5/2022

Doctors usually tell that drinking urine is harmless as it it sterile however same is not true with scat which may cause serious infections & most doctors advise against practicing it. Can enema replace scat? Will it give same kick without harming your body? Should toilet fun be limited to only pee drinking?

7 response(s), 19 votes
OralSubPet 56 M
1 question
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Ideas for Profile Video For Sub Male - 5/12/2022

I'm trying to come up with some ideas for making a video or two to upload to my profile and I was wondering if I could get some suggestions and advice for some of the other members here. I don't really have any toys and I'm by myself so I'm thinking to keep it simple. [image]...

34 response(s), 103 votes