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OralSubPet 56 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Ideas for Profile Video For Sub Male - 5/12/2022

I'm trying to come up with some ideas for making a video or two to upload to my profile and I was wondering if I could get some suggestions and advice for some of the other members here. I don't really have any toys and I'm by myself so I'm thinking to keep it simple. [image]...

34 response(s), 103 votes
asianat2008 69 M
115 questions
Score 0.0
wHY RESPODENTS ARE NOT ACTIVE? - 5/7/2022

hERE WHY respondents are not active?

63 response(s), 232 votes
oldwoodentoy2 68 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Does anyone have a dungeon that they rent out? - 5/6/2022

i am looking for a dungeon to rent in the Hamilton to K-W area. Prefer for an overnight experience. Would like to know details of rental if you have one. Thank you keith

10 response(s), 42 votes
W1ll1878 37 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Lost - 4/26/2022

I have been on the site now for over a year. I have had no luck at all. I mean I have talked to to some women on here but , no luck in finding what I am looking for. Let alone meet some one that’s not a bot . What am I doing wrong ?

13 response(s), 32 votes
SexyPerth 75 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Question for experienced male doms - 4/26/2022

What are the usual financial arrangements for a live in salve / domestic servant? <br><br> Thanks

6 response(s), 30 votes
juanstud 53 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
best time - 4/26/2022

Do you prefer at night, in the morning, mid-afternoon, or NOW?

7 response(s), 32 votes
Jenn1759 40 F
1 question
Score 0.0
worthy sub? - 4/26/2022

how can i get a worthy sub i can train the way i believe is right?

16 response(s), 56 votes
prestonsub16 32 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
stir crazy - 4/25/2022

this is all getting quite nuts. Hope some of you have play partners to share lock down with. How're you spending isolation?

28 response(s), 106 votes
gamarriedcouple 71 C
6 questions
Score 0.0
How long is too long? - 4/25/2022

How long is too long to keep a male locked in chastity? <br><br> I am in my seventh year locked in long term chastity. I have had more than one keyholder. It is rare that any of them allows to that orgasm release. Most of the time is is orgasm denial. <br><br> My question is for me. Is seven years too long or not long enough. <br><br> I am thinking about ...

20 response(s), 111 votes
albanynycouple51 62 C
19 questions
Score 0.0
hows everyone making it thru the lock down? - 4/25/2022

we enjoying our kinks with hot sex wear theme sex role play with each other.while waiting for it to end.how about you?
...

40 response(s), 120 votes
Jackysub69 54 T
2 questions
Score 0.0
Submission to a black Mistress - 4/25/2022

Black bulls love to have white sissies under their power. Is that the same for black goddesses? Do they prefer to submit white males (or girls)?

14 response(s), 66 votes
TuxFukn 47 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Intelligent subs - 4/25/2022

If you are Dom/me, how important is an intelligent sub to you? Are you just all about the body, or is their mind important too?

40 response(s), 133 votes
diavoloslave 62 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
what was the deciding facter that turned you to this life style??? - 4/23/2022

My was when i was sitting in a bar having a drink when a lady i was having a chat with ask me why i liked looking at her feet... that started it for me

4 response(s), 4 votes
clitboy00 47 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Saddest part? - 4/23/2022

In the quest for points, what is the easiest way to get them? And what happens when you run of them?

5 response(s), 11 votes
taboograndpa1 75 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How is everyone meeting safely with Covid so widespread - 4/22/2022

What precautions are you taking when meeting?

32 response(s), 52 votes
MaleSub912 33 M
1 question
Score 0.0
First Experience - 4/19/2022

what was your first experience with a dom/domme or sub/slave like?

5 response(s), 21 votes
asianat2008 69 M
115 questions
Score 0.0
Men and Women in love doing things to appease their innate desires. - 4/9/2022

Here we all are pleasure and to satisfy our fancies and love to express our innate desires on sex and love and care in our human life. In many blog posts i came to see that women the wonderful creation of God do titilate our manly senses. Sometimes the women are showing everything that we dream of. In this connection, I would love to ask my dear lovely men and women whether they fantasize making ...

23 response(s), 176 votes
Charlieslave68 55 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Forced submission - 3/23/2022

My kink is that Iike to be forced into submission, I like me freedom taken from me. Haw many dommes would like to take a slave this way?

18 response(s), 75 votes
Charlieslave68 55 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Lockdown - 3/23/2022

Are you following the rules or are you meeting playmates and dating?

47 response(s), 201 votes
KoolBlackSir 38 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Safe words - 3/14/2022

Are safe words needed when there's a real connection between Dom and sub? Are they a good way to push limits without breaking trust?

28 response(s), 37 votes
PointeDuLac 37 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
Why are so many people into scat and watersports? - 2/27/2022

Ive been on this site for awhile now and I get alot of people asking if Im into scat which Im not. What my question is Whats the big deal with scat and watersports?

41 response(s), 88 votes
Smoothboy061 63 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Male Webcam Play - 2/27/2022

Are people interested in seeing a play and tease himself on webcam?

8 response(s), 10 votes
psychobunny123 56 F
5 questions
Score 0.0
Blowjobs - 2/14/2022

Ok, partly scared to ask the question .... but .... what constitutes an awesome blowjob. <br> <br> i wanna know tips, tricks and techniques.... <br> <br> so go for your life with the responses. <br> psychobunny XxX

29 response(s), 24 votes
hot_sally4 40 F
1 question
Score 0.0
What;s it take to get a facial? - 2/13/2022

I recently met a man and told him to his delight I wanted him to cum in my face.From the bar we went to his car and I started giving him head. I was so excited to have his load all over my face. I sucked his cock and licked his balls thinking he could give me what I wanted.He told me how good I was at it and told me to suck harder.I followed his directions every step. He started telling me he was ...

13 response(s), 40 votes
juicyslut2001 66 F
6 questions
Score 0.0
The seemingly endless debate on graphic profile pics - 2/13/2022

Over time, it seems that the number of rants, and let's say "complaints", about cock pics being used as the main profile picture of masculine Alt members has become never-ending. Personally, I say to each their own and if you don;t want to see such up-close-and-personal photographs then just set your Content Filter to NICE and you should stop seeing items that offend you.

But this is ...

11 response(s), 42 votes
akasha1025 41 F
1 question
Score 0.0
why do I get sick everytime I swallow - 2/13/2022

I was letting my thoughts wander as they usually do....and my mind usually drifts to god only knows where and this is what it landed on at this moment....

"I think cum makes me sick!"

And you might ask what made me come to this conclusion? Well I began to think about being sick like I have been lately & what I've done in the past to be sick........recently I was hanging with ...

13 response(s), 25 votes
kinky_and_curvy 52 F
3 questions
Score 0.0
posted, now I need ideas - 2/12/2022

I've recently updated my profile, as what I'm loking for has slightly changed. My question is this, since I primarily wish to perform handjobs and blowjobs right now, would it be best to greet my new playmates fully clothed, or perhpas in a robe and some lingerie? I figure I cna ask the guy what he likes, but I'd like to get some feedback as to what would set a really mindblowing scene ...

13 response(s), 19 votes
Mark10qxxx 64 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Masterbating - 12/17/2021

How do you like to masterbate?

3 response(s), 19 votes
Mark10qxxx 64 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Masterbating - 12/17/2021

How do you like to masterbate?

2 response(s), 5 votes
vicki_new 51 F
5 questions
Score 0.0
Training Priorities: gags or anal - 12/17/2021

So I am going to tackle both eventually but which first and why! <br><br> Gags. I don't do well with gags. I have an aversion to having my jaw in a position the gag requires. Should I practice this away? Is it even possible? I always feel like I'm choking from the phlegm. <br><br> Anal. I haven't had anal sex. I'm not against t, but was hoping to find ...

15 response(s), 37 votes