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WetHornyHot10 45 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Cams In The Dark - 5/19/2021

Was hoping to check of web camera videos on , but all i getting is dark space on the screen. I am a standard member was wondering if anyone else was having this problem too?

41 response(s), 43 votes
discreetfuninhou 45 T
1 question
Score 0.0
Does gold/silver member know free members cannot read their emails! - 5/19/2021

its great to get email but you cant even read it. so wait, whats the point of being a gold member, you can send a email but the recipient cannot read it? I can see they cannot respond but they should be able to see it! <br><br> Find some hints in the profile and contact the person outside the site.

18 response(s), 44 votes
Aislin 39 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
On being "Cuckold" ? - 5/19/2021

So anyway, I do have a serious question about the word "cuckold" and yes, forgive me if I am spelling it wrong because I am always thinking, I am. <br><br> I went to Berlin, Germany with another member from this site and sincerely, enjoyed an amazing time with a few flaws, that reminded me, I am not perfect. <br><br> ...

23 response(s), 60 votes
fortwaynegirl 51 T
1 question
Score 0.0
Stockings or Pantyhose? - 5/18/2021

Which do you like best?

33 response(s), 29 votes
inrear_2000_39 61 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Question about Crossdressing - 5/18/2021

This question is mainly aimed at those who enjoy crossdressing. However, anyone is welcome to respond. I've been wearing panties, pantyhose, and teddies, mainly the underthings. Here's my question. How do I select a bra? I've tried the method they use on sites like Fredericks, but end up with a really large cup size. What I'm wanting is a half cup push up bra, one that will fit around ...

12 response(s), 20 votes
mture4rotty 21 M
6 questions
Score 0.0
dk - 5/18/2021

looking to see what new and what its kinky and see if woman want to get dirty and nasty and try new thing let me know ladies if you are interested in starting something new

5 response(s), 25 votes
Aislin 39 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
For male slaves... - 5/17/2021

Why would an owner find you pleasing and why do you want to be owned? Yeah, I know it's a simple question really but I have been such, I know what I dreamt about and what it actually was and so I guess I am interested with the male prospective I guess you can say. <br><br> But anyway for some points earn them and talk to me about what slavery means to ...

41 response(s), 47 votes
Bottomslut00 58 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
piercings - 5/17/2021

whats the best piercings for bondage

18 response(s), 33 votes
sagelostprophet2 69 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
If you had one SEXUAL desire awarded to you in 2020 - 5/14/2021

If you had one SEXUAL desire awarded to you in 2020 what would it be? <br><br> I mean something you always wanted to do but haven't had the opportunity yet. Maybe due to lack of willing partner or because you were too shy to ask.

28 response(s), 38 votes
bicocksman 54 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Anyone else having issues with alt taking points for nothing? - 5/4/2021

Alt seems to steal points at any time has anyone else been having this issue?

54 response(s), 55 votes
rott654321milfs 44 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
taboo - 2/25/2021

is taboo something that woman like and want to try there alot of taboos what is your favarite and what turn you on the most about kinky sex

28 response(s), 39 votes
Kelina 49 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Masturbation. Turn on...or off? - 1/8/2021

Guys does it turn you on to know a woman is masturbating? If you are chatting with her and she mentioned that she's going go off and have a special moment by herself or whatever tasteful way she puts it, is that a turn on or a turn off?

60 response(s), 6 votes
PlayfulCorey 30 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Fetish Stories - 12/20/2020

I write about all my experiences in my blog. What would you like to read about? Right now my Roleplay story called "Taken" has less views than my ex with a foot fetish and the most views and comments is an intro. What stories would you want to read? Group? Gang bang? One on One? Other Role play? What turns you on the most?

21 response(s), 32 votes
MastROfPupets 56 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
Do you think ALT should be reported for False Advertising and Fraud for overcharging credit cards? - 12/9/2020

There are many polls in the community section voted on by ALT users, that show that ALT advertising of paid services included with Gold or Silver membership such as IMC, Webcams, Points system, Editor and many other features are not functioning as intended currently. <br><br> What is even worse is users are reporting repeated charges to credit cards after cancelling membership which ...

39 response(s), 59 votes
psychobilly_babe 38 F
12 questions
Score 0.0
Bad kisser equals bad at oral? - 11/24/2020

Can you tell if someone's good or bad at oral sex by kissing them? Does a bad kisser usually give bad oral or are they unrelated? I'm not including fingers and toys, just mouth.

19 response(s), 29 votes
Bumtingler 64 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Use of everyday articles......or bespoke dildoes? - 9/28/2020

I am curious to know what fellow BDSM aficionados feel about the merits of using everyday articles rather then the use of designer dildoes. In the past I have enjoyed using fruit and vegetables, kitchen items, toys, and obviously bottles and cosmetic containers. I have also missed this up, with dildoes of various shapes and sizes! <br><br> For the most part, I have had the best ...

13 response(s), 37 votes
2newtoit 57 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
how to deep throat - 9/24/2020

I need some hints on giving a good blow job.ive been practicing with a dildo but its not like the real thing.reason im asking is, im about to give someone my first blowjob and i want it to be great for us both, any tips or suggestions?

2 response(s), 3 votes
2newtoit 57 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
safe blowjob - 9/24/2020

just want to know if anyone thinks its ok to tell someone you will go down on them, but only after he/you put a condom on his cock?i like a good one in my mouth and the feel as it cums but i dont want to swallow it or take any unnecciecry chances of catching anything.and if i bring the condoms with me does that make me look like a easy score or a safe bet?

3 response(s), 1 vote
2newtoit 57 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
meeting others online - 9/24/2020

as a standard member why can i not respond when someone shows interest in meeting

6 response(s), 12 votes
2newtoit 57 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
why - 9/24/2020

just decided to not renew my gold membership and now cant even axcess my own stories, im payed up tll end of may 2013/now they cut me off from everything

1 response(s), 4 votes
slaveboy351000 50 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
ass play - 9/1/2020

I`m a straight slave, I like to be tied up and punished realy hard but my mistress want to used dildos and ass plugs on me, I don feel ok with it, but I want to please her. Sure I let her do it?

16 response(s), 22 votes
fistmyazzpuzzy 48 T
1 question
Score 0.0
How many guys into fisting TS - 8/25/2020

I am curious as I rarely see all out fist fuck ts porb. I see gay male and i see female, but no ts. How rare is it? Can I film some for you guys?

4 response(s), 14 votes
serve_ebony 43 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Stretching a submales arse - 8/25/2020

Hi,

I am wanting to undergo Anal stretching training. I am able to take a strap-on but want up my potential for my Mistress.

Does any one have any good tips or ideas on the best way to stretch myself out so that eventually I could take a good fisting from my Mistress?

any advice or tips would be very much appreciated, thank you

8 response(s), 16 votes
ScatPeePrincess 45 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Scat and Pee - 8/25/2020

I have gotten alot of emails from "toilet slaves" and others. I do appreciate that however for most this is a fantasy to the extreme. Urine, pee play etc is easy to do but full toilet service is not. For those who are thinking about this I offer some advise. You cannot eat shit every day as it will make you very sick. Antibotics etc help but it is better to have a slave lick you ...

24 response(s), 84 votes
whitehotcum 63 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Branding? - 8/25/2020

As a Bull I like to "Mark" my property. Be it with a hickey or bite marks (visable only to Myself and the cuck)permanate markers, shaving her pubic hair in my design or even a small tattoo in a private place. Of course the latter is only for certain cpls.

What I would like to know is there anyone else who does something simular?

8 response(s), 10 votes
whitehotcum 63 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Cuckolding Rules - 8/25/2020

Im a Bull. Ive been involved with women who cuckold their husbands. I never negotiated anything with a husband, always the wife. Do you think the husband should be present during the first meeting?

8 response(s), 17 votes
mture4rotty 21 M
6 questions
Score 0.0
wtf - 8/16/2020

whats different between here and other site...... are there any other site better then this site let me know if anyone know better site then this one

16 response(s), 43 votes
Newu21 27 M
1 question
Score 0.0
What's an ambassador - 8/16/2020

Just wonder what's an ambassador on here how do you become one and what does it do for you

7 response(s), 18 votes
tezer65 58 M
19 questions
Score 0.0
Cigars - 8/11/2020

O.K. I have to ask what is it with cigars lately. I have had several guys asking about my smoking Cigars rt saying they are Cigar-pigs... anyone have any ideas why this is happening all of a sudden?

DAddy Bear

8 response(s), 7 votes
albanynycouple51 62 C
19 questions
Score 0.0
would you go meet greet n freak - 8/6/2020

this satnite in albany ny , couples bifemales and dom black men meet over drink, with after party get freak on party naked , would you go ? want too?

15 response(s), 38 votes