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Netiquette   12/23/2004

I am always careful about what I post here and give it some thought before sending it to alt magazine. I ask myself how others may percieve my words, check for accuracy and am prepared in the event


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Black Armbands   12/19/2004

On occasion I have seen comments that are political in nature here on alt and thought I would share the following with everyone here who reads the magazine section. This pertains to Americans but t


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Merry Christmas   12/17/2004

Merry Christmas to all here on alt in the magazine section and anywhere else on this site. The holidays afford us the opportunity to extend warm feelings and good will toward all within our circle


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Standard members and replying to emails   12/16/2004

Just wanted to let those who email standard members know that the lack of response isn't the non paying members choice. Alt allows standard members a limited number of replies within a 24 hour peri


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Married Partners, Is Turnabout Fair Play?   12/15/2004

I posted an article sometime back about married men on alt. The responses ran the gamut and my ratings on the article were fifty percent negative and fifty percent positive save for two so so votes


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Mutual Interest   12/12/2004

You recieve an e-mail from someone who you find to be appealing. Correspondence flies back and forth. Things evolve to the point where are exchanged. Ultimately you decide to meet. For some of us


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Dishonesty here on Alt? No way lol   12/12/2004

Seldom does a week go by that I am not reading somewhere on alt that a member hasn't been ummm quite truthful when interacting with another member here. No surprise. Given the anonymity afforded on


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Alt Filters   12/12/2004

Prior to setting my filters to exclude those not in my immediate geographical region I was at times inundated with e-mails from those who wanted to interact with me. After resetting my filters I h


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How We Define Ourselves   12/12/2004

Back in my free days as a silver member (grins), I looked at a multitude of profiles. Primarily male I must admit although some of my correspondence with men and the comments they made about women'


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When Patience Becomes Stupidity   11/30/2004

I have wondered why people don't think about outcomes when lying to others on this site. Several individuals on this site either outright lied to me or badly misrepresented who they were. Trust me


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Individuals Who Date Others Who Don't Value Them   11/21/2004

We are all ultimately in charge of how we allow another individual to treat us. If we don't set limits and expect others to honor our boundaries some won't. Relationship patterns also come into pla


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Alt's Response To Member Complaints   11/21/2004

I recently recieved an email from alt directing me to a link where I could set up my account to window out emails from those who weren't in my locale. I am no longer recieving email from members w


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On Dating Older Women   11/20/2004

I had an experience in my late twenties that educated me about older women. I was dating someone who ended the relationship to be in a committed relationship with a woman in her mid forties. He was


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Men Will Be Men?   11/14/2004

I just read a comment from a male in response to an article I wrote regarding sex minus strings. He wrote to say that men will be men and that casual sex was what men sought while women sought invo


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Establishing Trust   11/12/2004

Establishing Trust <br> <br> It had begun seemingly much like the other times that they had engaged in play. She was somewhat apprehensive having no clue what he had in


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Emotional Safety   11/12/2004

We hear a great deal about physical safety in bdsm relationships. Emotional safety is equally important. Our psyches are as vulnerable to injury as our bodies are. Unfortunately, except to a well t


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Married Men   11/12/2004

There have been numerous articles here on alt in reference to married men seeking no strings attached intimacy. They say they love their wife and have no desire to get a divorce, and that their onl


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Alt, Past And Present   11/12/2004

I have been a member of this website for close to two years and have seen it evolve into something that doesn't effectively provide a place for those within the community to meet and interact. Some


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Kegals, Abdomen and Fanny Exercises   10/28/2004

Exercises for the inner vaginal muscles, the fanny and the abdomen can all be done by simply tightening muscles, then relaxing them. This can be done without special equipment or a specific set tim


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Re: To Pee Or Not To Pee   10/28/2004

I recently responded to this question here on alt magazine. According to a site I visited, stimilating the clitoris while peeing produces an awesome and earthshaking orgasm. May I suggest that you


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Re; Self Abuse/ Self Injury   10/28/2004

This author wrote to say she wonders how many in the lifestyle have a history of childhood sexual and/or physical trauma. I suspect many do. As submissives they have control over what happens where


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Re: Betrayals Of Trust   10/28/2004

It's interesting to note that when others including myself, have addressed this here on alt, multiple "I don't like votes" or caustic responses to our observations fly hard and fast. unfortunately


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Meat Market Mentality   10/26/2004

I have come across yet another article from a gentlemen (?) on this site seeking to get laid. Sighs, don't these guys get it? A number of women on this site, myself included have put forth the effo


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Please Read Profile Before Sending An Email   10/26/2004

I have recieved emails from individuals who have in all likelihood not taken the time to read my profile. If they had they wouldn't have put forth the effort to send me an email as my location and


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Re: Don't Like It Voters   10/25/2004

Smiles... I have been a contributor to alt magazine now for nearly a year. People here on alt are afforded anonymity and some feel that this gives them a license to be obnoxious, overbearing, and i


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Re: Pubic Hair   10/25/2004

Many agree with your assessment regarding pubic hair. I am someone who shaves daily in my genital region and find the same to be appealing in my partner. I feel the absence of pubic hair both enhan


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First Date From Hell   10/24/2004

I once met a Dominant from a chat program who badly misrepresented himself. We talked for nearly six months before meeting which in and of itself might seem like a long time but this individual was


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Players & The Games They Play   10/24/2004

You recieve an e-mail from someone on alt. After viewing their profile, you determine that they are someone who you have enough in common with to explore the possibilities afforded two people who d


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Re: Fear Of Sex   10/24/2004

We believe what we tell ourselves. We need to pay attention to the messages we send to ourselves regarding who and what we are. I noticed that the author of this article percieved himself as being


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On Being A Dominant   10/24/2004

A Dominant here on alt recently posted an article that has somewhat restored my faith in that population, something sorely tested by all the Dom wannabees who all claim to have a clue. I find that


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