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So I have been active on Alt ten plus years. I have had my share of successes and disappointments. So to begin a little bit about myself. I am recently divorced and I am in search of some fun. I am not looking to own someone body and soul but rather to enjoy their company. Partake in some titillating conversation, share a cocktail and indulge in all manner of adult pleasures. To that end so we all know where we are starting from and perhaps where we will finish let me say that I am a dominant. I do not switch, although I have been known to use one on the occasional female backside. I truly enjoy my role as a dominant and that makes me good at it. I think a dominant should dominate not bully. The difference being that bullying involves a certain level of arbitrariness. That being said a dominant cannot show indecisiveness. For these reasons I believe that communication and familiarity are important. Rules, roles and limits should be established ahead of time. The manner in which a dominant approaches a limit that a sub has set for herself is critical in getting the sub to move beyond that limit and to the next level. Okay enough of the esoteric stuff. Let's discuss what makes this fun. I personally enjoy delivering a serious OTK bare ass spanking to a squealing sub. The feel of a bottom warming up under my ministrations is just plain serious fun and perhaps the most arousing and erotic activity. If a paddle is involved it gets even better (especially a stiff leather one) and I want you to know that during your spanking I am going to take you long and hard. The sex I engage in is perhaps best described as fierce. So that's what I think. Drop me a line and let me know what your thoughts are on these weighty matters.
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My Ideal Person:
I am seeking a submissive who is intelligent, gifted with a sense of humor and enjoys the finer things in life. You should appreciate both the large dramatic moments as well as the small subtle actions that make up the Dom/sub relationship. While it's true that we all pursue, with a fair amount of vigor, those moments of pure dominance/submission there is generally a long road to get there. I am searching for a sub that wants to be held accountable to high standards as both a submissive and a woman. She should understand that small discrete actions both in public and private can sometimes do more to deepen the Dom/sub relationship than a bare ass paddling. Not that I am discounting the effectiveness or the fun of that paddling.
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