I'm looking for a caring and adventurous woman to play with and to explore and have fun. I like to give and to receive, but we can see what develops. Maybe we can learn from each other?
I checked off a bunch of fetish stuff in the boxes provided here for the purpose. But really what I want is for us to play together and have a fun time. I don't come with a laundry list of must-haves so much as I have a desire to know and understand my partner, what she likes and whet she doesn't like. The dynamic between any two people is unique. If you really like being tickled on the earlobe with an ostrich feather or something super specific like that I might not really identify with it, but if you react positively to the experience then I want to learn that's something you like and make you happy by doing it. I'd like for you to feel the same way. I want to do all sorts of kinky and impolite things with, to, and for you, but ultimately it's not really not about the things you are doing, it's about the person you are doing them with. What I want most is simply to find someone who makes me think, "I'm so glad that you're here with me."
Then maybe spankings. ;-)
I can be a top or a bottom depending on the mood and the person. I tend not to be the commanding type unless I've been with someone long enough to really understand her needs and desires. It's more in my nature to want to look after the woman I'm with than to control her.
It should be apparent that what I'm seeking is something more long term and not just a few occasional hookups.
That was probably too mental for a "let's meet and shag" kind of website. I probably should have just said "let me spank you darling" and left it at that. I want us to have great kinky fun together just like the next guy, but whether you're my slave or my little girl or my mistress or my naughty nurse or whatever it is we do for fun, I want you to know that most importantly to me you are my human being.
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Never mind. I had a bunch of anti-scammer stuff here which obviously didn't work and just made my profile sound negative. Suffice it to say that meeting in person, even if just for coffee, is a priority for me.
I'm not posting a laundry list of limits. I'm not literally "no limits", but if you aren't a complete psychopath then I'm probably game to try whatever you're game to try.
Oh, in regular vanilla life I'm a professional engineer with a house and a mortgage. I'm not rich, but I can easily afford to buy the good cheese. I build and fix things. I like hiking and being outdoors when I have the time. I listen to NPR and I vote left.
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My Ideal Person:
Not too serious. More into small social groups than big parties. Relationship minded.
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