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I am a dominant, not a bully. It only works for me though with a willing accomplice, so that means you must be hungry to be dominated. I have no interest in frightening you into submission through fear or physical intimidation, that is the sign of a weak man. Nor am I looking for someone who is seeking punishment as they have low self-worth.
No, I am seeking a secure woman who is seeking to be dominated because it allows them to express themselves fully, it is a license for the pursuit of pure pleasure. Sure, you can push back but you must expect consequences as the terms of reference of our relationship have been agreed upon and the roles defined so pushing back is considered a request to be put in your place.
I respect agreed boundaries but they are there to be pushed. Hard boundaries are definitely respected and agreed. Safe words are fine.
Sexually, even at my age, I can still have sex 3 - 4 times a day. Few can keep up with me, so you would need to be ready for that.
You would need to be prepared to be a number of things but to be my sex toy is one, obedient whenever I require it and 'no' would only be tolerated around agreed boundaries. At all times you would treat me with the respect I expect but I would hope that there would be much fun, laughter and pleasure.
I may share you with others but that would not be often and only if it was something that worked for both. Are you bisexual? I may have you be submissive to another woman, or be dominant with one, but expect that another woman would occasionally be involved. We only ever play with another together.
You would be expected to be impeccable at all times and at all times be dressed sexily. Rarely would you wear underwear and many times while out, the remote-controlled vibrating egg you would have inside you would be switched on without notice. Expect that to happen, for example, at dinner or a movie or at times when you need to concentrate, like in a conversation with a third party. When you do wear underwear it would be something to please me.
I am into bondage but pain is not a requirement unless it is something that gets you wet. I am into oral and occasional anal, depending on my mood. If anal is not something you like then I may use it as a punishment, as would be long periods of you on your knees performing oral. You may also be subject to extended periods of bondage so I can use you at my will and orgasm denial may well be part of your regime.
I am private in this fetish so no one outside our close, like-minded friends would know but around the house, you would wear my collar at all times and failure to do so would have you punished.
Some are dominant to women, often brutal because they have no real power. I am not one of them. My role would be to mentor your development in all aspects of your life, as well as bring you much pleasure, sexually and otherwise. Not being 100% truthful with me is totally forbidden and will quickly end our relationship.
If it turns you on, you will be verbally and physically humiliated but only in private or with those very select friends. This would not be a relationship of equals but master/slave and we both would carry the responsibility of our roles. Ultimately though, it would be powerful, loving, sexual and intimate. After care is definitley part of the relationship.
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My Ideal Person:
Ideally you would be a professional by day, your dark side a secret from all but those most intimate with you.
Stylish and healthy, your looks and how you dress are important to you but not obsessively so. Stilettos are a mandatory and long painted nails a bonus.
You will be slim (because you care for yourself) and relatively healthy. You will enjoy being a woman and dress accordingly. Intelligence would also be a great asset as the best sex organ is the mind.
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