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After an 11 year vanilla marriage, I've returned back to where my true self can be revealed without judgment. I've always been on the fringe of the community. I prefer private play but love to observe others and join other kinksters at gatherings. In the car world I would be called a sleeper, meaning I may look ordinary, but under the hood there's performance. I'm a natural Dom, meaning I get things done. I know what I like and what I want. I'm also an incredible caregiver, which reflects in the kind of work I've always been involved in. That explains my user name. Don't take my guy next door, kind and considerate, private and dislike of the spotlight as lacking confidence. If you take the time to get to know me, if we play together, you'll see, hear and feel my dominance. Because this is just part of who I am, I swirl my alt life with my vanilla life. The amount, conspicuous and intensity of this is dynamic. I prefer confident alpha subs that truly live being submissive. I can be incredibly gentle and have a strong desire to know and understand you. I also suggest you have a safeword. Play can be as simple as soft sensation to rough, hair pulling, implement stinging. Knowing and respecting limits and safety are key to having fun and building trust. I love the mental side of mind fucking, communicating and sensory deprivation. I do not like permanent marks or bruises. I'd rather your memory be positively marked so you experience the play each time you are reminded of it. To help with that, I find music and scent wonderful for implanting a memory. If this sounds interesting, say hello.
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My Ideal Person:
Your submissive, slutty, naughty side is just one side of you. I want the other sides to be confident and able, but you like to surrender and let yourself feel the release of stress and excitement of being what you don't show in everyday life.
I'm not a mind reader, and I don't want to guess or use trial and error, so the ability to know and express your likes/dislikes, wants, limits, etc. are key.
I can be sweet and nasty, loving and bring pain, joke/laugh and suddenly raise my intensity and catch you off guard.
I love orgasm control, squirters and multi-orgasmic are a big turn on. Dirty and duragatory talk to express desires, begging to stop or plead for more, are all turn ons.
Basically, I think we all need a good release from daily stress and correctness. I find the mix of being naughty and nice in a variety of situations makes life more interesting.
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