After a couple of years of exploration I'm starting to have a better idea of who I am and how I fit in this world of BDSM. Thanks to all the lovely people I have met along the way who have helped to reveal the kinky bloke beneath the placid exterior.
I'm not truly a sub, though I enjoy playing that role. Neither am I a Dom as I don't think I have the balls to carry off that role with sincerity. I do know that I am a kinkster and I've found lots that I enjoy in this lifestyle. I'm still exploring so there's a ton of stuff that I'm up for if I haven't already tried it.
I'm onboard with the whole "safe, sane and consensual" thing, though there have been times where I wanted to throw those rules out of the window and just abandon myself to the fantasy.
I think that I have a masochistic streak and I have a pretty high tolerance for pain. I've never really found anyone that has pushed me to my limit there, sometimes despite their best efforts.
One thing that I know I don't enjoy is the whole humiliation thing. I would much rather lick your pussy than your boot. I don't think it is even the mind fuck thing; it just seems silly to me and I can't take it seriously.
Since writing this profile I am in a relationship with my Mistress, who is new to the scene but highly intelligent and curious. We are approaching the point where we are considering inviting others to join in the fun. Let me know if this is something that you would be interested in.
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My Ideal Person:
I have met a Mistress who seems to be all that I need, but we are open to suggestions! If two people in as intimate a relationship as this type don't really like each other, then it's a complete non-starter for me. It's fun to have fun, but it is better to really enjoy each others' company as well.
I don't know that I have met too many actual sadists, but I love the idea that someone can get pleasure from causing me pain.
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