Updating 2018 -- not much has changed but here's the bullet points:
â– I'm NOT here looking for "quickies" or "hook-ups" or casual sex, though I realize that many (or most) members are. Since I'M not, good luck in your search.
â– I'm also NOT sexually attracted to men AT ALL! Just because I love all the sensations of wearing women's clothes, that does NOT mean that I want to become a woman, give men blowjobs, or have sex with them. Again, I realize that many (most?) TS/TV/TG's here are here for that reason, but I'm not one of them. (I really wish that "CD" was a profile option here, and I'm often tempted to make another profile identifying as a male.)
â– (As an addendum to that: if you have a "dick pic" as your profile picture, or if that describes most of your pictures, I'm NOT going to "friend you," meet you, or play with you online. I have a penis myself, and I'm really not interested in yours no matter how amazing YOU think it is!)
â– I AM here looking and hoping to meet 'the right woman' who's as kinky as I am!
I love bondage, prefer being tied up but also like to play Dom(me) from time to time, and enjoy doing it in normal "male mode" as well as while dressed. And I love wearing women's clothes around the house -- I used to go "out" with a girlfriend while fully dressed and "made up" but haven't done so it years.
â– I'm also looking for others to talk with, discuss various kinky activities and fetishes with, and I've recently discovered just HOW MUCH I like to be persuaded, talked into, dared or convinced to dress up and/or restrain myself during chats!
I'm talking about primarily women's fetish attire -- I've got a rather large wardrobe, but I love to wear leather skirts, knee- or thigh-high stiletto heeled boots, leather opera gloves, silk blouses, leather or PVC corsets, long leather coats, and to be locked INTO those clothes at someone else's whim...until they say I can take them off. And then cuffed, collared, shackled, tied, gagged, and
even blindfolded while we chat...and...you get the idea!
â– I also understand the distinction between "BDSM" and "sex" and the fact that they're NOT automatically the same thing. I think BDSM can be an amazing prelude to sex, but it can also be an amazing experience WITHOUT sex.
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My Ideal Person:
Ideally, I'm looking for an intelligent, attractive woman who's accepting or even turned on by my crossdressing and/or BDSM -- I've met a couple in the past, and dated another for some time, so I know they're out there! -- for a long term relationship.
As mentioned above, I'm also looking for women, other t-girls, and male t-girl fans for conversation, mutual kinky fantasy discussions, and on-line play. Until a few years ago, I had no idea just HOW MUCH I'm turned on by people instructing me how to dress, restrain myself, and/or to keep me that way for extended periods via webcam and photos! Years ago I had a wonderful relationship with an "on-line mistress" who would keep me dressed -- and guessing! -- for days at a time!
If any of those things sound good to you, please let me know?
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